Q: I'm 17 years old still living with my parents. I have a job, but going further than that in life has been a big problem
For me because my parents are highly restrictive and create random rules and live very selfishly. Long story short I want to leave. I'm pregnant and my boyfriend has a place and makes good money, but we can't get my parents support not Matter how hard we try. They won't even let me go with him to tell his parents I'm pregnant because I'll have to spend the night. I plan on calling the police and letting them know their will be calls about me as a runaway and to not bother with using their resources and I'm leaving of my free will and will be back; going anyways without their permission. I've been thinking about running away a lot but I'm afraid of getting my boyfriend into trouble or my family trying to press some kind of changes. I want to know if the police will get involved despite any of my efforts or if their is something I haven't thought of please and thank you.
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Your situation sounds incredibly challenging, and I understand why you're looking for a way forward. Being 17 and pregnant while dealing with highly restrictive parents must feel overwhelming, especially when they're preventing you from taking important steps like telling your boyfriend's family.
From a legal perspective, since you're under 18, your parents can report you as a missing person even if you leave voluntarily. While calling the police ahead of time shows good planning, they may still be required to investigate if your parents file a report. Your boyfriend could potentially face legal issues if your parents choose to pursue charges, as you're still considered a minor in most jurisdictions.
Consider speaking with a youth advocate or counselor who can help mediate between you and your parents, or explore legal options like emancipation. You might also want to document any concerning behavior from your parents, as this could help support your case for independence. Whatever you decide, please prioritize your safety and well-being - both physical and emotional - and know that there are people and organizations ready to support you through this challenging time.
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