how do i (as a minor) disown my father?

Question

I am 15 turning 16 years old, my father has abuse me from age 5 to 15. Last year I told him I wanted to stop living with him and cut all ties of communication. My father however, still has the ability to make decisions over me. Me and my mother both would like to revoke those and I’m not sure how. I am in need of assistance, and direction on how to move forward with this.

James L. Arrasmith · Answer

I understand you're going through something extremely difficult, and I want to help guide you through your options for legally removing your father's rights. 
 
In California, minors can't directly "disown" their parents, but you and your mother can petition the court to terminate your father's parental rights. The first step is working with your mother to file this petition in family court, where you'll need to provide evidence of the abuse. Since you're over 14, the court will give significant weight to your wishes and testimony. 
 
Your mother should contact the local family court to begin this process, and you both should document everything related to the abuse - including dates, incidents, and any existing police reports or medical records. Free legal help is available through California courts' self-help centers and domestic violence organizations, which can guide you through each step. Most importantly, if you're currently experiencing abuse or feel unsafe, please call 911 or the National Child Abuse Hotline (1-800-422-4453) immediately - they're available 24/7 to help protect you and connect you with local resources. 
 
Remember, you're incredibly brave for speaking up and seeking help. You deserve to feel safe and supported, and there are people ready to help you through this process.

Q: how do i (as a minor) disown my father?