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Q: Can I take legal action if my ex-boyfriend mentioned me in his book without my consent or permission 2 years ago?

My ex wrote a book in 2021 called : Some People Will Some People Won't: Wake the Hell Up & Live a Better Life ( it's supposedly a self help book with personal experiences including relationships etc. ) We weren't on speaking terms at the time he did it and when he mentioned he wrote a book, he admitted he did mention I was in his book and that what he said about me was harsh. I did read the book and I did not like what he said about me. The whole context isn't in there and I feel like he told his point of view or his side to make himself look good to others instead of giving the full picture. Is there anything I can do about it ?

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  • Civil Rights Lawyer
  • Sacramento, CA

A: You might have legal options depending on the content of the book and how your ex-boyfriend depicted you. If the book contains false statements about you that harm your reputation, you could potentially sue for defamation. However, proving defamation can be complex as it requires proving that the information is false, made public, and caused harm to your reputation.

If your ex-boyfriend used your name, image, or other personal elements without consent, and if this use has led to your harm or exploitation, you might also have claims related to privacy rights or the right of publicity. These laws vary significantly from place to place, so local laws will determine the specifics.

Consulting with a lawyer knowledgeable in defamation and privacy law would be a practical step to understand the strength of your case and the possible outcomes. Legal advice can help clarify how the law applies to your specific situation and guide you in deciding whether to take legal action.

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