San Francisco, CA asked in Family Law and Child Custody for California

Q: i’m 14 and i live with my dad and came to visit my mom and now she’s refusing to let me go back what can i do

my dad doesn’t have custody but he’s filing for custody but im 14 and in both states my parents are in i can legally pick what parent i want to live with

Related Topics:
2 Lawyer Answers
Robert Kane
Robert Kane
Answered
  • Divorce Lawyer
  • Eagan, MN
  • Licensed in California

A: No, you can't legally pick what parent you want to live with. A judge will consider your wishes.

James L. Arrasmith
PREMIUM
James L. Arrasmith pro label Lawyers, want to be a Justia Connect Pro too? Learn more ›
Answered
  • Divorce Lawyer
  • Sacramento, CA
  • Licensed in California

A: Given your age, you may have the legal right to express your preference regarding which parent you wish to live with in California. Since your father is filing for custody, it's important to cooperate with the legal process. You should communicate your wishes to your parents and their respective legal representatives. If your mother continues to withhold you against your wishes, your father's custody case can address this issue through legal channels.

James L. Arrasmith

Founding Attorney and Chief Lawyer of The Law Offices of James L. Arrasmith

Justia Ask a Lawyer is a forum for consumers to get answers to basic legal questions. Any information sent through Justia Ask a Lawyer is not secure and is done so on a non-confidential basis only.

The use of this website to ask questions or receive answers does not create an attorney–client relationship between you and Justia, or between you and any attorney who receives your information or responds to your questions, nor is it intended to create such a relationship. Additionally, no responses on this forum constitute legal advice, which must be tailored to the specific circumstances of each case. You should not act upon information provided in Justia Ask a Lawyer without seeking professional counsel from an attorney admitted or authorized to practice in your jurisdiction. Justia assumes no responsibility to any person who relies on information contained on or received through this site and disclaims all liability in respect to such information.

Justia cannot guarantee that the information on this website (including any legal information provided by an attorney through this service) is accurate, complete, or up-to-date. While we intend to make every attempt to keep the information on this site current, the owners of and contributors to this site make no claims, promises or guarantees about the accuracy, completeness or adequacy of the information contained in or linked to from this site.