Fremont, CA asked in Family Law and Child Custody for California

Q: I am living in a low income house in CA. Seperated but agreed to live together because of the 4 kids. my questions:

1. Now one of us needs to move out as our reconciliation got more difficult. who should move?

2. do we need to get permission of the other spouse to move out or we can just do it without informing the spouse?

3. Can she use my car or other property without my permission. if these are under my name when separated.

Can a spouse take the kids to sisters house without any prior permission from the other spouse?

who can take full custody if go for filing?

More details: we filed tax separately for the past two years. I filed as a household. I have more income and pay every bill, expenses including rent. Please let me know if there need for more info.

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A: 1. Deciding who should move out depends on various factors, including the best interests of the children and your individual circumstances. It's recommended to consult with an attorney to discuss your specific situation.

2. Both spouses have legal rights to the marital residence during separation. However, it's generally advisable to communicate and reach an agreement regarding moving out to avoid potential conflicts.

3. Generally, property acquired during the marriage is considered community property, and both spouses have equal rights to use and possess such property. However, specific details and agreements can affect this situation. Consult an attorney for advice tailored to your circumstances.

4. Either spouse may take the children to another location temporarily, but major decisions involving custody and visitation should be made jointly or according to a court order.

5. Custody decisions are based on the best interests of the children. Factors such as parental roles, stability, living situation, and children's preferences are considered. Consult with an attorney to understand your options for seeking custody and creating a parenting plan.

Given the complexity of your situation, it's recommended to consult with an attorney who can provide advice based on your specific circumstances and the applicable California family law.

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