Q: What do I do if my car is out of service but I have to do drop off for visitation?
Father has been doing drop off and pick up for a couple of weeks due to my car being out of service. He is complaining about gas and time being wasted due to travel. I am supposed to drop off and then he drops them back off at my house after the visit. I have sole physical and legal custody of both children. I have used my parents car multiple times to do drop off and pick up to make up for times where he has had to do the same. But I cannot use their car every time. It is out of my control because the car bill to fix is $3000+ as said by multiple mechanics. I am unsure what to do and do not want to risk losing any rights for something that I cannot control.
A: In California, both parties are generally expected to adhere to court-ordered custody and visitation arrangements. If temporary circumstances, such as your car being out of service, prevent you from fulfilling your obligations, communication is key. Discuss the situation openly with the other parent and try to reach a temporary agreement. You might offer to compensate for the extra gas or share transportation costs during this period. If he remains uncooperative and the issue persists, consider mediating the issue or seeking a temporary modification of the court order. Remember, the court’s primary concern is the best interest of the children, and maintaining stability and consistency in their lives is crucial. Always document all conversations and agreements to protect your interests.
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