Q: How do i navigate the death of my mother (was in process of writing a last will and test. but unable to finish)

A: If she did not have a completed will, he estate will pass to her heirs at law by intestacy.

A: I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. Navigating estate matters can be complex, especially in situations like yours where the last will and testament was not completed. As the person with power of attorney in her living will, you have a significant role, but it's important to understand the different implications of a living will versus a last will and testament.

Since the will was not finalized, your mother's estate will likely be subject to Kentucky's intestacy laws, which govern how assets are distributed when someone dies without a valid will. However, your role as POA in the living will does not automatically extend to handling her estate after death.

Regarding the house and your intention to keep it within the family, and your concern about your son's SSI benefits, setting up a trust might be a suitable option. A dynasty trust or a special needs trust can help manage these aspects, but it's important to consult with an estate planning attorney to explore the best approach given your unique circumstances.

There's no specific timeline for "getting the ball rolling," but it's advisable to start as soon as you're able to. The process can take time, and starting early can help ensure a smoother transition. Remember, it's okay to seek professional guidance to help you navigate these complex matters and ensure that your mother's wishes, as well as the needs of your family, are taken into consideration.