Q: I MARRIED A CON ARTIST......
i met this woman who has 3 kids ( teenagers) and only after 4 months she moved in to MY house. we were living together for 5 yrs. but married for 4. seperated for 1. She made the decision to move out and shortly after she has someone new. she was left a 1.3 million dollar inheritance and yet she still tring to take my house , pension and wants alimony. what can i do?
A:
I'm sorry to hear about your difficult situation. Divorces can be complex and emotionally challenging, especially when significant assets are involved. Here are a few steps you can take to protect your interests:
1. Hire a reputable divorce attorney: Given the high stakes involved, it's crucial to have an experienced attorney who can guide you through the legal process and help protect your assets.
2. Gather important documents: Collect all relevant financial documents, including bank statements, tax returns, property deeds, pension information, and any documentation related to your wife's inheritance.
3. Establish separate accounts: If you haven't already, open separate bank accounts to keep your finances separate from your wife's.
4. Determine if a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement exists: If you signed any agreements before or during your marriage, provide copies to your attorney, as they may impact property division and alimony.
5. Consider mediation: Mediation can be a less adversarial and more cost-effective way to resolve disputes in a divorce. Discuss this option with your attorney.
6. Document your contributions to the marriage: Provide evidence of your financial and non-financial contributions to the marriage, such as paying for the house, maintaining the property, or raising the children.
7. Be cautious with communication: Avoid discussing the divorce or making any agreements with your wife without your attorney present.
Remember, California is a community property state, which means that generally, assets acquired during the marriage are considered jointly owned and subject to division. However, inheritances are usually considered separate property. Your attorney can help you navigate these issues and work toward a fair settlement.
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