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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Divorce, Criminal Law and Family Law for California on
Q: Can I move back to Ohio with my daughter during divorce?

I am a stay-at-home husband, a veteran with 100% permanent and total disabilities, earning $50,000 a year. My wife works part-time, and I cover all living expenses. We moved to California six months ago temporarily to stay with my wife’s parents, but our home and my insurance are still based in... View More

Tobie B. Waxman
Tobie B. Waxman
answered on Mar 15, 2025

Since no one has filed anything yet and therefore there are no court orders, you are free to move wherever you want. Since you have both lived here (CA) for at least 6 months, Mom can likewise, file here in CA and get custody orders in place, forcing you to bring the child back to CA from Ohio.

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Tax Law for California on
Q: Alimony obligation after job loss but with assets in California.

Does my ex have to continue paying alimony if he lost his job but has several million in stocks, savings, etc., while I make $16,000 per month? The divorce and alimony agreement were finalized in California.

Tobie B. Waxman
Tobie B. Waxman
answered on Mar 14, 2025

A court order is a court order and must be complied with until it is modified or otherwise replaced with a new court order. When someone who is subject to a support order loses their job, it is their burden to go to court to get relief; to get a new court order that reflects their current... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce, Social Security and Family Law for California on
Q: Can I modify alimony payments due to retirement and health issues at age 72?

I’m 72 years old and recently retired due to health reasons after suffering a stroke in 2023. I have been paying alimony for 21 years following a divorce finalized in Riverside County on 11/12/2004. My former spouse, who is now around 70 and was self-employed, chose not to remarry. She is... View More

Samantha Schales
Samantha Schales
answered on Mar 12, 2025

In general, the change in your income would be considered a change in circumstances by the court. This should allow you to file a Request for Order to modify spousal support. You can inform the court of your new income and your former spouse's ability to collect Social Security derivative... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Real Estate Law for California on
Q: What steps should I take to dissolve my marriage and address property issues after a notice of default in divorce proceedings?

I am in the process of a divorce as my wife filed for it after leaving in August 2022. I was never served divorce papers but received a notice of default in November 2024. Since then, I have not taken any legal steps, and I recently attempted to look up the case online with the case number... View More

Tobie B. Waxman
Tobie B. Waxman
answered on Mar 9, 2025

You have no standing to do anything until that default is set aside. File the motion to set aside based on failure to serve. Get a copy of the proof and service of the summons first, however, and see what it says about when and how your spouse is claiming you were served.

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3 Answers | Asked in Immigration Law and Divorce for California on
Q: What options do I have if my wife can't find a joint sponsor for my immigration case?

My wife is in California, and we got married in 2018. I had an embassy interview in October 2024, and the immigration officer requested more evidence of our marriage and a joint sponsor since my wife's income is insufficient. When I informed my wife, she said she couldn’t find a joint... View More

Stephen Arnold Black
Stephen Arnold Black
answered on Mar 4, 2025

I would just like to add the following. If your wife does not have sufficient income, or sufficient assets to make up for insufficient income, and she cannot find a joint financial sponsor, then if you have sufficient assets, which would need to be $75,000 or more, then you could add that to your... View More

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3 Answers | Asked in Immigration Law and Divorce for California on
Q: What options do I have if my wife can't find a joint sponsor for my immigration case?

My wife is in California, and we got married in 2018. I had an embassy interview in October 2024, and the immigration officer requested more evidence of our marriage and a joint sponsor since my wife's income is insufficient. When I informed my wife, she said she couldn’t find a joint... View More

Stephen Arnold Black
Stephen Arnold Black
answered on Mar 4, 2025

If your wife does not make sufficient income, or has sufficient assets, and if she cannot find a joint sponsor, then the state department will deny your spousal visa case. Remember that if she does not have sufficient income, she can substitute the asset test for the income test. So if she owns a... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce, Real Estate Law and Business Law for California on
Q: Is our foreign marriage clause binding in California for asset division?

My wife and I were married in our home country and later immigrated to the U.S. We've lived in California for about 10 years. Our marriage certificate includes a clause we did not sign, stating that if the divorce is not initiated by my wife, I must give her up to half of the assets I acquired... View More

Tobie B. Waxman
Tobie B. Waxman
answered on Feb 19, 2025

The laws of the tribunal (state, county or country) where you file for divorce will control. If you divorce in another country, a valid divorce there will be considered valid here in California without any additional filings.

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce, Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for California on
Q: Steps to file for divorce and address custody in California.

I have been married for 13 years, and my spouse and I have been living apart for more than 2 years. We have 3 children together, but no significant assets or properties. We haven't agreed on child custody yet, but I'm currently paying child support every month. I haven't started the... View More

Tobie B. Waxman
Tobie B. Waxman
answered on Feb 19, 2025

1) hire an attorney; 2) don't use social media, Google, or this website to teach you how to be your own lawyer. The court's website has a self-help link if you insist on handling this on your own. https://selfhelp.courts.ca.gov/divorce-california

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce, Family Law and Child Custody for California on
Q: I just filed for divorce and child custody and my soon to be e ex wife works in family law in the same courthouse

How can I get the venue changed seems unfair to me and a conflict of interest

Robert Kane
Robert Kane
answered on Feb 6, 2025

You will need to file a motion to transfer a family law case (i.e. change of venue.) A family law case will be moved to another county if you can prove to the court a fair trial would not be possible because your wife works in family law in the same courthouse. My best regards. Rob California... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: California Community Property Law and an Unfinished E-Book

I have a question regarding community property laws in California and how they apply to an unfinished e-book I started writing during my marriage. I am not a writer, but I began working on an e-book and have completed writing approximately 30-40% of it. The book is not finished, not published, and... View More

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answered on Feb 11, 2025

Is your spouse claiming any interest in the non-income-generating e-book? It would seem that this could be easily addressed as part of your settlement discussions; unless there's reasonable likelihood that the e-book will generate income, my guess is your spouse will gladly agree to assigning... View More

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4 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: What can I do if I cannot afford an attorney and my husband is an attorney and has retained one?
Tobie B. Waxman
Tobie B. Waxman
answered on Jan 27, 2025

The parties in a family law case are entitled to equal access to legal representation. If he can afford to hire an attorney, he can probably afford to contribute to the cost of you retaining an attorney. You just need to ask. You can file a motion with the court (called a "Request for... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support, Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: If the kids live with me is he still qualified for alimony and child support
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answered on Jan 29, 2025

For child support, it depends primarily on the timeshare and the parties income. See the statewide child support guideline. Spousal support depends on whether the support you're referring to is temporary or permanent/long-term, and even, FC 4320 would need to be applied regarding the latter,... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: I am waiting on the final judgement for the last 3 months after i filed Declaration for Default/Uncontested Judgment.

I am waiting on the final judgement for the last 3 months after i filed Declaration for Default/Uncontested Judgment. The case was initially filed in march 2023. How soon can i expect a final judgement, this is in california contra costa county

Tobie B. Waxman
Tobie B. Waxman
answered on Jan 24, 2025

Is that all you filed? If all you filed was the FL170, then nothing further is going to happen. To get a judgment entered, you have to file a judgment package which includes the proposed judgment (with FL180) and Notice of Entry of Judgment, in additional to a couple other forms.... View More

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3 Answers | Asked in Divorce, Family Law, Civil Rights and Legal Malpractice for California on
Q: at my last court hearing my attorney sexually assaulted my wife and I want to sue him and file charges against him
Louis George Fazzi
Louis George Fazzi
answered on Jan 17, 2025

That sounds terrible, and I would love to help you, but I'm a California lawyer and not admitted to practice law in Florida. You need a lawyer who is admitted to the practice of law in your state. I only know one lawyer who may have practiced in your state, but his practice is limited to... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: During a divorce can the husband ask for a ring back after they gifted it but are still paying it off?

In this instance they gave me the ring for marriage. He is still paying it off and when we ended our relationship he said I can keep it via email. If this was a gift does he have a right to ask for it back? I'm just unsure how it works or how the court would see it. I have the ring still and... View More

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answered on Jan 17, 2025

There's an exception that transmutations be "made in writing by an express declaration" for "gift[s] between the spouses of clothing, wearing apparel, jewelry, or other tangible articles of a personal nature that is used solely or principally by the spouse to whom the gift is... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law, Bankruptcy and Divorce for California on
Q: Marital settlement agreement I agreed to pay my ex $400 every 2 wks from the spousal support that was being garnished

in exchange for him to forgive my arrears I had from child support when we first separated. Once I had physical custody I filed for CS but he kept prolonging the hearing and he kept avoiding trying to pay so then I filed for SP and was able to get his wages garnished. At that point he was willing... View More

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answered on Jan 16, 2025

A Marital Settlement Agreement (MSA) in California is a written contract between divorcing spouses that outlines the division of assets, debts, child custody, spousal support, and other terms related to their separation. Once signed by both parties and approved by the court, the MSA becomes part of... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce, Bankruptcy and Family Law for California on
Q: As part of a Marital settlement agreement I agreed to send back half of my ex check every 2 wks from the spousal support

in exchange for him to forgive my arrears I had from child support when we first separated. Once I had physical custody I filed for CS but he kept prolonging the hearing and he kept avoiding trying to pay so then I filed for Spousal support and was able to get his wages garnished. At that point he... View More

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answered on Jan 16, 2025

A Marital Settlement Agreement (MSA) in California is a legally binding document that outlines the terms and conditions agreed upon by both spouses regarding the division of property, debts, spousal support, child custody, and child support during a divorce or separation. It is typically negotiated... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: who is responsible for the mortgage payment during a divorce?

So family lived in community property for 15 years. I worked and paid the mortgage for the family. She was a stay at home. She inherited a mortgage free $1mil home and then 2 years ago filed for divorce. Separation Date 1/15/23. Divorce has been taking forever and I've agreed to paying... View More

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answered on Jan 16, 2025

In California, a post-separation right to reimbursement allows one spouse to request reimbursement for expenses or payments made after the date of separation that benefit the community property. This right ensures that the paying spouse is compensated for contributions made during the separation... View More

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3 Answers | Asked in Divorce, Family Law, Child Custody and Child Support for California on
Q: Ex Filed Request for Trial Setting: How Do I File a Motion to Strike?

Question 1) My ex recently filed a Request for Trial Setting, but they haven’t yet filed their Preliminary Declaration of Disclosure (PDD). I’d like to file a Motion to Strike based on the missing PDD. Am I required to use Form FL-300 for this motion? or just Autho & Memo, Decl. If I’m... View More

Tobie B. Waxman
Tobie B. Waxman
answered on Jan 11, 2025

First, if the other party has not filed their FL141, the request for trial setting will be rejected. Second, you do not need to file a motion to strike that request. Instead, filing an objection to the request for trial setting is sufficient assuming you list all the valid bases for objecting to... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: Who supposed to take care of QDRO and DFAS payment?

My divorce finalized end of September. We hired the mediator. Ex is finally going to take care of transfer retirement funds for TSP, IRA Schwab. In our agreement, it not listed when, how , who is doing for QDRO. The mediatior is going to take care of QDRO with $1000. Is mediatior be able to... View More

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answered on Jan 14, 2025

A Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO) is a legal order used in California divorce cases to divide certain types of retirement benefits, such as pensions or 401(k) accounts, between divorcing spouses. The QDRO allows a portion of the retirement benefits to be awarded to the non-employee spouse... View More

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