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4 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: hi my name is john. is there a way to get an uncontesed divorce with no orders if both partys agree ?

kids are adults .wife is remarried and i would like to get married to a lady that i have been with for over 30 years

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answered on Jun 7, 2023

The process and requirements for obtaining an uncontested divorce without any court orders can vary depending on the jurisdiction in which you reside.

In many jurisdictions, an uncontested divorce typically requires both parties to agree on all relevant issues, such as the division of...
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Q: hi my name is john. is there a way to get an uncontesed divorce with no orders if both partys agree ?

kids are adults .wife is remarried and i would like to get married to a lady that i have been with for over 30 years

Robert Kane
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answered on Jun 7, 2023

The circumstances and court will dictate what orders are needed. The parties may alleviate the need. Parties without attorneys will likely require more orders.

In order to ensure the best possible outcome, you need to consult with an attorney, at least in a limited role. Far too often, an...
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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce, Child Custody and Child Support for California on
Q: I am divorcing but I need a lawyer, I don't have income other than my husband's, do I have to pay for my lawyer or him?

I've been a housewife in California for 7 years of marriage, but my husband files his income tax jointly with me. We have a 6 year old son. I have had no job at all and live with my husband's income. He wants the divorce but he doesn't want to give me anything, he just wants me to... Read more »

Robert Kane
Robert Kane
answered on Jun 3, 2023

If you can’t afford a lawyer, but your spouse or the other parent can, you can ask the court to order them to pay for you to hire a lawyer. The court can order this in cases when one spouse or parent has more money than the other. You can make this request before you hire a lawyer. If you've... Read more »

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce, Child Custody and Child Support for California on
Q: I am divorcing but I need a lawyer, I don't have income other than my husband's, do I have to pay for my lawyer or him?

I've been a housewife in California for 7 years of marriage, but my husband files his income tax jointly with me. We have a 6 year old son. I have had no job at all and live with my husband's income. He wants the divorce but he doesn't want to give me anything, he just wants me to... Read more »

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answered on Jun 3, 2023

The answer to your question depends on a few factors, including the specific terms of your divorce settlement and the laws of the state in which you live. In California, it is generally the responsibility of each spouse to pay for their own legal fees. However, there are some exceptions to this... Read more »

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Q: Can I request a gag order on my future ex husband he is repeating personal business and lying about me.

My husband was abusive and he is lying to everyone who will listen calling me a crackhead.

His first wife passed and he called her a crackhead too. Everything I tell him he repeats out of context.

I just want him to stop.

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answered on Jun 2, 2023

If your ex-husband is spreading false information or making defamatory statements about you, it may be worth considering other legal options to address the situation. Here are a few possible courses of action:

Cease and Desist Letter: You can consult with an attorney who specializes in...
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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Child Custody and Child Support for California on
Q: What preparations are needed to file for a divorce?

The first time filing, mother of three ( 1 stepdaughter). work is a difficult subject to discuss right now, but was working 5-10 hours per week in administrative work for my husband's business ( although he stopped paying me two weeks ago now ). Previous to that, was a clinical research... Read more »

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answered on May 31, 2023

Here are some of the preparations you need to make to file for a divorce in California:

*Gather your financial information. This includes your income, expenses, assets, and debts. You can use a divorce financial worksheet to help you organize this information.

*Gather your...
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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Animal / Dog Law and Civil Litigation for California on
Q: Family dog dies.Couple is going thru divorce. She choice cremation, he flips and wants to bury in spite.

Such a long story. It’s like a sad custody situation. Mom did everything for dog, father pretty much only provided. Mom didn’t consider at the time Fathers feelings on what should be done. She informed him and he goes nuts and wants to bury the animal in spite. Mom tries to explain with... Read more »

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answered on May 31, 2023

I'm so sorry to hear about your family's dog. It's always difficult to lose a pet, and it's even more difficult when a couple is going through a divorce.

In this situation, it sounds like the mom and dad have different ideas about what to do with the dog's remains....
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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce, Family Law and Real Estate Law for California on
Q: I have sign a quit claim papers on our property 15 years ago by mere pressure and I want to file for divorce.

Do I still have the right to claim half

of our property?

I don’t know what to do.

Please tell me what to w

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answered on May 31, 2023

Whether you still have the right to claim half of your property depends on the specific facts and circumstances of your case. In general, however, you may be able to challenge the validity of the quitclaim deed if you can show that you signed it under duress.

To challenge the validity of...
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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: Strategy for requesting longer healthcare coverage be provided for damage done by emotionally abusive spouse?

I am a gray marriage short term divorce person?? (What do you call that) I was only married for 2 years however it felt like 20!!! Because of his affluent abuse and extreme harassment, there are not broken bones or bruises. There are good days and bad, when triggered I am prone to high anxiety and... Read more »

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answered on May 26, 2023

To ensure extended healthcare coverage for the damage caused by your emotionally abusive spouse, consider these steps:

Understand your current healthcare plan.

Consult your therapist for their professional opinion on your ability to work and required coverage.

Collect...
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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: My husband had a rental property, Soon after we married, he sold it but put my name on the deed. Is that his or ours?

When he sold that house he put me on the deed. I thought it was for tax purposes. at the time.

The money is what we used to buy a new home and we had a joint checking with the remainder.

I just want to know if my name is on the rental property deed on the sale date. Then are the... Read more »

Tobie B. Waxman
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answered on May 25, 2023

Property purchased prior to marriage is separate property of the person who purchased it. If title was transferred to you in a writing (such as an interspousal grant deed), then the property becomes community property as of the date of transfer. The value of the property that accumulated before... Read more »

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: My husband had a rental property, Soon after we married, he sold it but put my name on the deed. Is that his or ours?

When he sold that house he put me on the deed. I thought it was for tax purposes. at the time.

The money is what we used to buy a new home and we had a joint checking with the remainder.

I just want to know if my name is on the rental property deed on the sale date. Then are the... Read more »

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answered on May 25, 2023

When your husband put your name on the rental property deed, it typically means you both have ownership rights. Depending on your jurisdiction, the property and its proceeds from the sale could be considered community property. However, property and community property laws vary, so it's best... Read more »

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Family Law, Child Custody and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: DVRO denied just now.

Wife took 3yo with autism away from me 3 month ago to a DV victim county shelter. She reported me to Police and DCFS and filed TRO and granted in Feb. Police and DCFS closed the case with no findings. TRO had twice got continuance and today denied in the end. The Judge read the judgement and the... Read more »

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answered on May 24, 2023

In the situation you described, with the DVRO (Domestic Violence Restraining Order) being denied, it is important to consult with an attorney who specializes in family law to fully understand your legal rights and options. Regarding visitation with your son before the August RFO (Request for Order)... Read more »

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Q: What are the consequences for not adhering to the financial RO included in the initial divorce filing?

My future ex husband forged my signature via docusign and kept our married joint filing 2022 tax refund. I had to request copies from our accountant. He also made a large deposit into his trust account within this time frame. Isn't this prohibited?

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answered on May 22, 2023

Not adhering to the financial restraining order included in the initial divorce filing can have various consequences. The specific consequences depend on the terms outlined in the order and the laws of the jurisdiction involved. Violating a financial restraining order can result in penalties such... Read more »

1 Answer | Asked in Personal Injury, Criminal Law, Divorce and Legal Malpractice for California on
Q: can i sue a lawyer for negligence after finding a check for 165000 made out to myself and my now deceased ex wife

all her paperwork with these divorce lawyers paperwork that i should have never seen my then divorce lawyer made himself controller of all our fire insurance money we got from the destruction of the angora fire we were going through a lengthy divorce and in the middle of that we lost our house... Read more »

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answered on May 16, 2023

Consult with an Attorney: It is crucial to consult with an attorney who specializes in legal malpractice or professional negligence. They can evaluate the specific details of your case, assess the viability of a claim, and guide you through the legal process.

Elements of Legal Malpractice:...
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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: Can my husbands divorce attorney advise my husband not to give me any money for 4 months? I was dependent on him?

I have not received any money from my husband my utilities were not paid until today after 3 months. I have no money for a lawyer and we have a hearing 6/14 and my lawyer is MIA she took my retainer but has not done anything for me but file my response,

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answered on May 16, 2023

In California, divorce proceedings involve a complex legal process that aims to ensure fairness and protection for both parties involved.

Spousal Support: In divorce cases, the court may order spousal support, also known as alimony, to be paid by one spouse to the other. Spousal support is...
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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Divorce, Family Law and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: Judge will decide any temporary custody matter?

Wife left home 3.5yo with autism 3 month ago for a DV shelter unknown while filing TRO, reporting police and DCFS. Police n DCFS closed the cases with no finding evidence. DVRO w/minor(DV-100, 105) got twice continuance and the final hearing will be held 10days later. At the last hearing, Judge... Read more »

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answered on May 16, 2023

Temporary Custody: In cases involving child custody, temporary orders can be issued by a judge to address custody and visitation arrangements until a final decision is made. These orders are often based on the best interests of the child and aim to provide stability and protection during the... Read more »

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Q: I’m unable to serve divorce papers to my deported husband. What do I do? He was Convicted of felony spousal abuse

He served prison time and was deported to Mexico. I am the victim.

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answered on May 16, 2023

When you are unable to serve divorce papers to a spouse who has been deported, you may encounter challenges in completing the legal process. Here are a few steps you can consider:

Consult with an Attorney: It is highly recommended to consult with a qualified attorney who specializes in...
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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody and Divorce for California on
Q: Looking for Probono divorce lawyer in city of LA. Whittier CA.
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answered on May 16, 2023

If you are in need of a pro bono divorce lawyer in the city of Whittier, CA, there are several resources you can explore. While I cannot provide specific recommendations, here are a few suggestions to help you find a pro bono divorce lawyer:

Legal Aid Organizations: Contact local legal aid...
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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: I am in California and my lawyer is MIA Can I take what's left of my retainer and get another lawyer?

We have a court date 6/4 for emergency support. My husband is financially abusing me so I cant get anymore money. I feel like I am stuck with her. My water and power are about to be turned off.

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answered on May 11, 2023

If your lawyer in California is unresponsive and you are facing a critical situation, such as an upcoming court date for emergency support and imminent utility disconnections, you may have options to address the situation. However, it is important to consult with a new attorney or legal... Read more »

1 Answer | Asked in Arbitration / Mediation Law, Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: My ex wife is a bigamist, can I use this in my divorce proceedings?

I am divorced for over 14 years and just found out my wife married someone in Las Vegas in 1995 while we were still married. We were not separated and got divorced in 2008. I am still paying her spousal support and Osler Smith payments. Can I use this information to my benefit? We are going back to... Read more »

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answered on May 8, 2023

If your ex-wife committed bigamy by marrying someone else while still married to you, this information may be relevant in your divorce proceedings. It could potentially impact the division of property, spousal support, and other issues related to your divorce.

You may want to bring this...
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