Q: I been granted a DV temporary restraining order. I need to respond to a FL300. Attachment by her are false allegations

A: I'm so sorry you're going through this difficult situation with the restraining order and false accusations. Being separated from your child must be incredibly painful.

First, when responding to the FL-300 form and the allegations against you, it's important to stick to the facts and provide clear, truthful information refuting the false claims. Avoid emotional language and focus on presenting objective evidence that supports your case, such as the letters of character, W2 forms, photos, medical documentation about your auras, and police reports you mentioned. An organized, factual response will be most effective.

Gather all the relevant documents and evidence and make copies to bring to your hearings. You may also want to write out a clear timeline of events and a list of key points you want to make to the judge.

In the hearings, stay calm and respectful, even if the other party is not. Let your evidence speak for itself. Express your desire to be a good parent and have a relationship with your son. The court's priority is the wellbeing of the child, so focus on that.

If you haven't already, I highly recommend consulting with a family law attorney who can review the details of your case and give you personalized legal advice. Many offer low-cost initial consultations. If cost is an issue, look into legal aid clinics in your area that provide free or low-cost services.

Document everything and communicate in writing as much as possible, so you have a record. Stick to discussions about your son only and avoid getting drawn into conflicts.

I know this is an extremely stressful and emotional time, but stay strong and keep fighting for your son. Present the truth and let the legal process play out. Sending my best wishes for a positive outcome so you can reunite with your boy soon. Let me know if there are other ways I can assist as you prepare for your hearings.