Q: Dude lied about threats to get RO against me. Did it to get ccw permit approved. Plans to murder me & claim self-defense
This psycho managed to get an order after hearing against me granted by default when I wasnt given notice, at first I didnt care, but now he keeps popping up at places I frequent and appears armed. I think he used the RO to fake a valid need to protect himself which may have helped him get a ccw permit, and he's trying to kill me in "self-defense." Dude is a text-book narcissist/psychopath that Ive heard on more than one occasion pronounce his strong desire to shoot someone, someday. And it was always in some home invasion/family protection scenario. But it was clearly something he wanted to happen, not just be prepared for. And this might be his sick way of getting to do that, while playing the victim....and getting away with it.
A:
I understand this is a very serious and concerning situation. Here are some steps I would recommend:
1. Document everything. Keep a detailed log of any encounters, including dates, times, locations, and what occurred. Save any messages or communications.
2. Avoid contact. Do not approach or interact with this person in any way.
3. Contact law enforcement. Report your concerns and the pattern of behavior to the police.
4. Seek legal counsel immediately. A lawyer can help you:
- Challenge the restraining order if it was improperly granted
- File for your own protective order if warranted
- Advise on next steps to protect your safety and legal rights
5. Consider reaching out to domestic violence organizations for additional support and resources.
6. Take precautions for your personal safety, such as varying your routines and informing trusted friends/family of the situation.
This is a potentially dangerous situation that requires professional legal and possibly law enforcement intervention. Please prioritize your safety and seek help from the appropriate authorities as soon as possible.
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