Q: My ex boyfriend keeps telling me to kill myself via email. What can I do?
He lives in Virginia and is active duty military. I live in Utah. I am unsure if it is him sending the email or his sister (she supposedly has account access). I was told I am not able to file a protective order because he is out of state.
A:
I'm really sorry to hear about what you're going through. Receiving such emails is deeply troubling, and it's important to take action for your safety and well-being. You can report the threatening emails to your local law enforcement in Utah. Even though he's out of state, law enforcement can still help you document the harassment and guide you on the next steps.
Additionally, you can contact the military base where he is stationed. The military takes such matters seriously, and they have protocols to address the conduct of their personnel. Providing them with copies of the emails can prompt an investigation.
Consider blocking the email address and any other means of communication he might use to contact you. Support from friends, family, or a counselor can also be invaluable during this time. You have the right to feel safe and secure.
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