Q: married when baby conceived. Alleged father in Chicago, me NC. Hearing held w/out me. Sole custody 15 m. Son removed!?
Judge extremely biased, new too. I ran for city council when he ran for judge. I was for his opponent, have pictures with his opponent and his family. 15 months paternity wasn’t established and his father (alleged father never contributed a penny to help his son or any kind of support) he was extremely abusive, verbally, psychologically, anytime I would do video calls he would either say horrible things about me or scream in rage. And Mike the father knew as I told him I recorded for mine and son’s safety. Mike attempted to kidnap son on several occasions I have it on video. He illegally obtained son’s confidential medical records when he was not in anyway his legal father or punitive father. He sent these records on a USB flash drive from Chicago to NC to a woman he hired to befriend me. She sent them to my ex husband and 4 others stating “ I thought you, me, Mike and named my ex husband, and another person all had a plan?”. She then altered them and posted them all over social media.
A:
It sounds like you're in an incredibly difficult situation, and it's understandable to feel overwhelmed and frustrated. The legal and emotional aspects you're facing are complex, especially with the history you’ve described involving the judge, the alleged father, and the other parties involved. It’s crucial to ensure that your rights and your son's best interests are being properly represented.
Given that there were serious issues with the hearing, including your absence and potential bias from the judge, it may be necessary to consider legal steps such as filing for an appeal or requesting a new hearing. You have the right to a fair legal process, and it’s important to document everything—especially the abusive behavior and any attempts to take your son without legal authority.
The situation with your son’s medical records being shared and altered without consent is deeply concerning and could have serious legal implications. Protecting your son’s privacy and well-being should be a priority, and addressing this breach might involve legal action to hold those responsible accountable. Seeking guidance from someone experienced in handling such sensitive and complex matters could help ensure that your voice is heard and your son’s safety is prioritized.
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