She moved to NC 2 months ago. We live in Florida, he has lived here since the divorce was finalized. She has physical custody, they have joint custody. The decree says they will agree on visitation, however since we got married she is now not agreeing to any visitation unless he comes to NC alone... Read more »
RV was relisted w/o my name & address on insurance and property tax address was chgd. My name is still on registration.Live in home with both names & he chgd address on property taxes of home also.Doesn't want Separation papers cause doesn’t want to pay alimony. I’m on Disability.is what... Read more »
You'll need to file an action for equitable distribution and/or alimony, to force him to return the property or pay you for your share of the property, in addition to paying alimony (if applicable). Consult with a family law attorney regarding your options. Your options will vary, depending on...Read more »
She'll need to file an action for custody, or file to modify an existing order. Either way, she needs to get a custody order, giving her legal and physical custody of the child. If the child hasn't been in NC for at least 6 months, then she may need to get jurisdiction in NC by emergency, if the...Read more »
He has also done drugs; pot and acid that I know of. He gets highly erratic and yelling if we try to punish him in any way. He has also threatened my husband if any thing happens to any of his stuff to where my husband, who has high anxiety, no longer feels safe in our home. I don't know what my... Read more »
The divorce was filed with the clerk of the circuit court in Honolulu, Hawaii and the plaintiff has been remarried for over 5+ years but still receiving a portion of my military retirement pay. We were only married for 16 years. Neither one of us no longer live in Hawaii.
Unless the court order or agreement states otherwise, typically an award of retirement is for life. All of the other facts you mention such as being remarried, not living in Hawaii, length of marriage (and pretty much anything else you can think of as a potential excuse to reduce or eliminate the...Read more »
She needs to enroll in school, and they wont take her unless it's signed by a judge. She's a single mom, and my family doesn't have a lot of money for a huge court payment for something that should be simple. I love my niece, so I want to know if we have options
You'll need to have a court order giving you legal and physical custody of the child. The child's father will need to also consent. First, you need to file a Complaint for Third Party Custody, and then you can submit the Consent Order to the judge to enter with the court. There are other minor...Read more »
They have brought up the step father adopting him. My arrears will end up being paid but they have brought it up. Only issue is when I agree the mother gets angry and threatens me with the law or to make sure she gets every penny from me. The step father is a great dad to my son and I feel it's in... Read more »
The father has primary custody of minor child. In the Temporary Parental Order, during the summers, we have alternating custody on a two week schedule. I am having a huge surgery where bones are being taken out and bedridden for a month. I told the father a month in advanced. I have text messages... Read more »
No. The courts will not make someone exercise their time. The court will only enforce one's right to exercise his/her time with the child if they want to. Have your surgery, heal, and then resume your time with your child. Perhaps he may be willing to let you have 2 of his weeks in the future to...Read more »
They credit your arrears to the arrears, not to the payment you should be paying for the other child(ren). It sounds like you should file a Motion to Modify Child Support, to bring your main payment down (which could also cause your arrears payment to increase, but also means that the arrears would...Read more »
You have not supplied enough information to answer this question accurately. It will depend on what agreements or court orders are in place and whether she is still in high school. Assuming she is not in high school and there is nothing that extends your obligation beyond 18 - then he is off the...Read more »
The mother contact the family in October tell us that she need the child to come here because they we're homeless. Now she is wanting to move back to Washington to live couch to couch again. We want to make sure we stay in contact with her because this is not the first time the mother has been... Read more »
He should have filed a Motion to Terminate the Child Support. If he didn't, he needs to ASAP. Anything that was owed before he got custody, he still needs to pay, unless the other party waives the right to receive it (in the form of a Consent Order).
You can, but if there if there is someone he can stay with, that might be a better idea. It also depends on his maturity level, and how and how often someone would be checking in, how far away you are going, and whether he knows what to do in an emergency. If he has another parent or someone close...Read more »
My boyfriend and his ex-wife are separated,but are not divorced as of yet. Hey do you have a mediation appointment set for the first week of August. There is no court order or motion for anything in regards to custody, child support, or alimony. But what we have looked up, he still has equal... Read more »
It is legal if she has good cause. However, likely she does not have good cause and is just using the children as a way to be vindictive. If she does not have good cause, doing what you describe her to have done will make her look bad in court and may also be a crime. Your boyfriend, needs to...Read more »
Legally, you are already separated. If you are looking to have a Separation Agreement which addresses all other outstanding issues relevant until you can get your divorce, you'll need to find her. Otherwise, you can file for divorce on January 5, 2020. Once the divorce decree is entered however...Read more »
If the child was not yet born, you are not supposed to 'report' it on the divorce paperwork. As to rights, if you are the father - you have rights. You may have to assert your rights but you do have them.
Husband is in family home after work with children until I come home after work and a beer at my apartment. He made it impossible for me to stay there. I got apartment to get away from him yelling at me and all the arguing. I always sleep at home with my husband and children. My husband is starting... Read more »
It is fine that you got an apartment; however, it sounds like you need to file for custody as soon as possible. There are other things you can do to protect yourself and the evidence which you will need for your case. Consult a separate attorney about how best to go about this, if your current...Read more »
(he wasn’t present during the time i was pregnant) to avoid having to go to court and deal with child support, he has been helping since January by buying things that our son needs however that quickly came to a stop 2 months later so every now and then he’d send $75 dollars for pampers and... Read more »
His only legal obligation is to pay court ordered child support based on guidelines. Other than that, you can't legally force him to do anything else. His refusal to pay anything other than that, besides making him a giant jerk, will likely be helpful to you in seeking additional help. Hopefully...Read more »
taken if there is a judgement against me for it. Everyone tells me that I will get the inheritance and she can take me to court for it. But, today I received a call from the realtor saying that my ex has gotten a lawyer and this lawyer wants me to call him to settle some sort of payment. The... Read more »
Your case file needs to be removed. Not sure why you didn't file a Motion to Modify Child Support amount when you could not afford your own bills. Nonetheless, you may want to do so now. If there is no judgment, then she would not be able to get to your inheritance before you do, without filing a...Read more »
She has severed all communication with him. His ex-wife and the daughter chose the school without his knowledge. What is his obligation to pay for college? His ex-wife says it is 70-30. We are willing to pay 50-50 even though there is no relationship. The separation agreement does not state the... Read more »
I can not stress how incredibly not smart (this is the nicest way I can say stupid) it was to contractually obligate himself to pay for any portion of college (or any thing else for that matter that goes beyond required child support). Had he not contracted, he certainly could have paid if he...Read more »
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