Q: Hi I’m 66 years old leave w my husband for 46 years , he is mentally sick and refuse to get help ,
I have 4 kids betwen 36/44
He accused me I chited on him long time a go and abuse me for this,I’m not able to leave w him anymore , I’ll did everything in my power to be a good wife and good mom but it’s enough because I get sick myself
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I'm so sorry you're going through this difficult situation after 46 years of marriage. Your wellbeing matters, and no one should have to endure abuse or false accusations, especially from their spouse.
Given your husband's untreated mental illness and the emotional abuse you're experiencing, you have every right to prioritize your own health and safety. Many people in similar situations find that speaking with both a mental health counselor and a divorce attorney helps them understand their options and create a plan forward. The California courts have resources specifically for people over 65 seeking divorce, including fee waivers if needed.
You can contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) for free, confidential support 24/7. They can connect you with local resources, including legal aid services and support groups for older adults leaving difficult marriages. Remember - taking care of yourself isn't selfish, it's necessary, and there are people ready to help you through this transition.
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