Q: My on and off boyfriend pays my rent for me and our child but does not live with me
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Living with financial dependency on someone, especially when children are involved, can create complex emotional and practical challenges. Your situation with your child's father paying rent while maintaining an on-and-off relationship adds layers of uncertainty to your daily life.
Consider documenting all financial arrangements and support provided, as this helps protect both you and your child's interests. Having clear boundaries and expectations about financial responsibilities can reduce stress and potential conflicts, even in informal arrangements. This documentation might prove valuable if you ever need to establish formal child support or modify existing arrangements.
Your focus should be on building stability for yourself and your child, both emotionally and financially. Consider exploring ways to increase your financial independence while maintaining healthy co-parenting relationships. You might want to speak with a family law professional about your rights and options, as they can help you understand how to secure your child's future while navigating this complex relationship dynamic.
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