Q: Leaving father of my kids do I have to let him see the kids or can I keep him away till court comes into it?
I’m leaving my abusive boyfriend and his family and going to my parents. His family is also abusive as well. And would voice recordings be enough proof of them being abusive to keel them away from my kids. Ps I’m leaving today Jan 31 2025
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Leaving an abusive situation is never easy, but your safety and your children’s well-being come first. If there is no existing custody order, you are not legally required to allow him to see the kids right now. However, he may have rights as their father, and the court will ultimately decide custody and visitation.
If he or his family have been abusive, keeping records like voice recordings, messages, or any other evidence can help support your case. Courts take abuse allegations seriously, and proof can be important in protecting your children. You may also want to document any past incidents, including dates, threats, or violent behavior.
If you feel unsafe, you can request a protective order, which may include temporary custody arrangements. The most important thing is making sure you and your children are in a safe place. Once the court is involved, they will look at the evidence and determine what is in the best interest of your kids. Stay strong, and don’t be afraid to reach out for help.
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