Pryor, OK asked in Child Custody and Domestic Violence for Oklahoma

Q: Can a 15-year-old in OK choose which parent to stay with in a custody dispute?

I am 15 years old, and my dad has half custody of me. My mom is involved in a court case, and recently, my dad and stepmom filed an emergency custody order against my mom. In the past two weeks, my dad and stepmom have been fighting with me, and my stepmom got into a fistfight with me. Although my dad put his hands on me once, it has not been reported to authorities. I want to know if my dad can force me to stay with him instead of going with my mom, whom I prefer staying with.

1 Lawyer Answer

A: Your preference is only a factor the court will consider when determining your best interest. There are multiple factors the judge uses and yes you preference is one of those factors.

You would need one of your parents to contact their lawyer and insert the preference. Good luck.

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