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2 Answers | Asked in Domestic Violence, Child Custody and Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: Does a Nevada TPO and custody carry over to Oklahoma?

I recently fled a domestic violence relationship in Oklahoma and relocated to Nevada with my children. I acquired a Temporary Protective Order (TPO) in Nevada, where I was also granted temporary custody on March 18th, 2025. I registered this order with the state of Oklahoma. There is no prior... View More

Charles Watts
Charles Watts
answered on Mar 31, 2025

The courts will have to determine jurisdiction. It sounds like you just recently moved, and the residence of the minor child would have been in Oklahoma prior to you leaving. Which then most likely, the fathers motion will be heard here, and the Nevada court will most likely transfer their case... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence, Nursing Home Abuse and Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: How to handle nephew's threats during guardianship case in Oklahoma?

I am involved in a guardianship case for my mother, who is currently in a nursing home. My nephew, who has no legal stake in the matter, has established residence at her home. Recently, he has made serious threats, including threatening my niece and me, even pulling a knife on me while under the... View More

Charles Watts
Charles Watts
answered on Feb 22, 2025

It sounds like you need to file a VPO. Most likely you will not be able to get an exit order because it sounds as if he has stayed at your mothers house for a period of time. The rightful owner, your mother, will have to evict him from the home. You need to contact an attorney to help you with... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Domestic Violence for Oklahoma on
Q: Can you sue for domestic violence or assault after the 3 year limitation if you have enough proof ?

I am wondering if it is legally possible to sue after the 3 year limitation if i provided enough proof

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answered on Dec 25, 2024

Limitations on claims are governed by statute and are usually so fact-sensitive that you need to speak to an individual lawyer as soon as you can to determine whether you may bring a claim. With that said, Okla. Stat. tit. 12 § 95 places a one year limit on civil claims for assault & battery.... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Domestic Violence for Oklahoma on
Q: Can you sue for domestic violence or assault after the 3 year limitation if you have enough proof ?

I am wondering if it is legally possible to sue after the 3 year limitation if i provided enough proof

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answered on Dec 25, 2024

Most civil claims have an applicable statute of limitations that defines the window, or time period, when you may bring a claim. Generally, a civil claim for assault or battery must be brought within 1 year of the event. You should speak privately with a lawyer if you wish to assess your specific... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Criminal Law and Domestic Violence for Oklahoma on
Q: If the victim of a no contact order tries to contact defendant, is it a violation?
Tracy Tiernan
Tracy Tiernan
answered on Oct 6, 2024

That’s a very good question! It’s also a very common question which I get asked all the time.

When law-enforcement gets called on the reporting of a crime and someone is arrested and goes before a judge, usually on video while they are in jail, the judge will almost universally issue a...
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2 Answers | Asked in Criminal Law and Domestic Violence for Oklahoma on
Q: If the victim of a no contact order tries to contact defendant, is it a violation?
Charles Watts
Charles Watts
answered on Oct 7, 2024

In the short answer -- No that is not a violation. In Oklahoma, only a defendant against whom a protective order has been issued may be held to have violated the order. 22 OS 60.6(H) --- Therefore if the Victim makes contact or attempts to make contact, this is not a violation of the order.... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Civil Litigation, Criminal Law, Domestic Violence and Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: Is it considered domestic violence in oklahoma to with hold food from your spouse , domestic partner , common law wife

Not allow them to eat anything because your not feeling well and did not cook for him because he left and stayed gone for about 2 hours giving the dog a ride when his whore lives down the road and he left me stranded with no money or transportation. And has been refusing to take my things to a... View More

Tracy Tiernan
Tracy Tiernan
answered on May 5, 2024

Well, I’m not sure I have enough information to give you any confident, legal advice. However, unless he is bedridden, and you are responsible for his care, or there is some legal status you possess where the law recognizes he is reliant upon you for his food, shelter, it’s highly unlikely that... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law and Domestic Violence for Oklahoma on
Q: Can Domestic abuse against a pregnant women. Be considered a felony first time incident.

I was booked under CF for this charge when we have no prior

Tracy Tiernan
Tracy Tiernan
answered on Apr 12, 2024

Oklahoma statutory law indicates that a domestic assault and battery on a pregnant woman where the defendant had reason to know she was pregnant is a felony offense carrying up to 5 years in the department of corrections. If the woman suffers a miscarriage as a result of the assault and battery it... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law and Domestic Violence for Oklahoma on
Q: My friend already has a court appointment attorney and has been in jail for a lengthy amount of time if I Bond her

Out now will she keep her Court appointment attorney or will they still make her hire a private attorney

Tracy Tiernan
Tracy Tiernan
answered on Mar 7, 2024

That’s an excellent question, and a quite common question as well. It depends on the judge, the district attorney, and what type of case. If it’s a small misdemeanor case, there are instances where you can keep your court appointed attorney. If it’s a more meaningful case like a felony and... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence, Family Law, Child Custody and Native American Law for Oklahoma on
Q: Can a parent choose to not enroll an eligible child in a tribe-specifically Kiowa-? What are parental rights here?

Deprived child case. DHS is involved due to Mother assaulting father and ultimately pleaded guilty and the parents are in process of case currently in Jackson County OK. Mother is Kiowa Native father is Non-native and the boy is now 5. He is eligible but not enrolled as of yet. The father does Not... View More

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answered on Feb 4, 2024

In cases involving the potential enrollment of a child in a Native American tribe, such as the Kiowa Tribe, both parents have rights and interests that need to be considered. The Indian Child Welfare Act (ICWA) applies to child custody proceedings involving an Indian child, with specific provisions... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence, Family Law, Native American Law and Child Custody for Oklahoma on
Q: Can a non-native father OBJECT to the enrollment of his child(5) and the transfer of child custody case to Tribal&ICWA?

The child is not enrolled the mother is Kiowa& the case is in a non-native county in SW Ok& the father doesn’t want the child enrolled. The mother is trying to do so in order for odds to be in her favor with her people, who have family members that sit on the Tribe Counsel. She was the... View More

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answered on Feb 4, 2024

In situations involving the Indian Child Welfare Act (ICWA) and child custody, the ICWA provides specific protections for Native American children in custody proceedings. It prioritizes the jurisdiction of tribal courts over state courts for custody cases involving Native American children.... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Personal Injury and Domestic Violence for Oklahoma on
Q: Can I claim pain and suffering against ex-husband who broke my hand?

My ex-husband, whom I split from 7 years ago, broke my hand in 2021, which required surgery. I have all my hospital records, but I haven't seen or talked to him in years. He has been in and out of jail. Can I pursue a pain and suffering claim against him even though there were no children from... View More

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answered on Jun 11, 2025

Yes, you can still pursue a pain and suffering claim against your ex-husband, regardless of whether you had children together. The key issue is not the relationship status, but the harm he caused you and the documentation you have to prove it. Since you have hospital records from the injury and... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence, Civil Rights and Employment Law for Oklahoma on
Q: What actions can I take against harassment from a former partner leading to PTSD and financial loss?

I am dealing with harassment and malicious behavior from my former intimate partner and co-parent. They have been sending threatening messages frequently, making false accusations, and financially abusing me, which led to a loss of job and income, PTSD, and an inability to work. I've filed for... View More

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answered on May 31, 2025

I'm truly sorry you’re facing such a difficult situation. Dealing with harassment, threats, and false accusations from a former partner—especially when it affects your health and livelihood—can feel overwhelming. Since you've already filed for a Victim Protective Order (VPO) and... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Consumer Law, Criminal Law, Contracts and Domestic Violence for Oklahoma on
Q: Tricked into being primary buyer of ex's vehicle. Can I resolve title and loan issues?

I was tricked into being the main buyer of my ex's vehicle, thinking I was only cosigning. The purchase took place on May 10th, and neither of us has a driver's license. No payments have been made yet, and the first payment is due next month. The seller gave me the paperwork at work, and... View More

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answered on May 17, 2025

You’re in a very serious and emotionally draining situation, and your safety needs to come first. If your ex has threatened you or implied violence, **you should document everything**—every message, voicemail, and conversation—and consider filing for a **protective order** immediately. A... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence and Civil Litigation for Oklahoma on
Q: How can we remove a no-contact order in Oklahoma given our unique circumstances?

I need assistance with removing a no-contact order bond condition. Neither my spouse nor I are seeking this order, and our unique circumstances weren't explained during my arraignment. We have been together in a homeless situation for 2 years, living out of our car. We now have an OHFA Housing... View More

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answered on May 15, 2025

What you’re asking for is completely understandable, especially given the effort you and your spouse are putting into improving your situation. In Oklahoma, a no-contact order attached to a bond condition can sometimes be modified or lifted, but it must go through the court that issued it. The... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Domestic Violence, Landlord - Tenant, Family Law and Real Estate Law for Oklahoma on
Q: Is a protection order hearing in OK joint? Can home be sold during divorce?

My 76-year-old sister, residing in Oklahoma, is currently in the process of divorcing her abusive husband. Recently, he threatened her and her coworker with a gun, which was reported to the sheriff. She is working to obtain a restraining order and must appear before a judge on May 6. Complicating... View More

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answered on May 15, 2025

I'm really sorry your sister is going through something so serious. No one should have to face threats or violence, especially during something as emotionally draining as a divorce. She's doing the right thing by seeking legal help and trying to protect herself.

In Oklahoma, it is...
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1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence and Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: Seeking advice on navigating EPO under domestic violence, supervised visits, attorney challenges, and reuniting family.

I recently had a court hearing regarding an Emergency Protective Order (EPO) my wife filed due to my anger issues, which is considered under "domestic violence." The order allows supervised visits with our son, but her parents believe that my requests to see him under the provisions of... View More

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answered on May 15, 2025

You're taking meaningful steps by entering therapy and acknowledging the impact of your actions—that shows strength and commitment. The court will likely take notice of your willingness to seek help and address the behavior that led to the EPO. Bringing proof of your counseling sessions,... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law, Personal Injury and Domestic Violence for Oklahoma on
Q: Considering legal action for partner's undisclosed HIV regimen while claiming monogamous relationship and engaging in unprotected sex.

I am considering legal action against my partner for sexual assault. He did not inform me that he was on an HIV prevention regimen with Descovy, leading me to believe we were both monogamous and engaging in unprotected sex. I suspect he might have been having sexual relations with others, posing a... View More

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answered on May 14, 2025

What you’re feeling is absolutely valid—being deceived in a relationship where trust and health are at stake is both emotionally damaging and potentially dangerous. In many states, knowingly withholding medical information that could affect a partner's health—especially during... View More

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Q: Legal for attorney to disclose shelter location in family court?

Is it legal for an attorney to disclose the location of a domestic violence shelter to an abuser in family court?

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answered on Apr 13, 2025

No, it is generally not legal or appropriate for an attorney to disclose the location of a domestic violence shelter to an abuser, especially in family court. Shelters are protected spaces designed to keep survivors safe, and their locations are often kept confidential for that reason. Disclosing... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody, Child Support and Domestic Violence for Oklahoma on
Q: How can I safeguard my parental rights and regain custody of my children in Oklahoma?

I am currently involved in a Title 10A guardianship situation in Oklahoma, and I am a recovering addict. My oldest child is under my mother's guardianship, and my 15-month-old is technically in DHS custody but also placed with my mother. Although I still have my parental rights and have been... View More

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answered on Apr 13, 2025

To safeguard your parental rights and work towards regaining custody of your children, it’s crucial to stay fully committed to the steps outlined in your case plan. Completing your parenting classes, staying in regular communication with your children, and attending court dates are all positive... View More

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