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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: In OK if a child is in an auto accident with a foster family, is parent who still has rights able to get accident report

The parent maintains parental rights and would like a copy of the police report.

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answered on Aug 22, 2023

In Oklahoma, if a child who is under the care of a foster family is involved in an auto accident, the parent who still retains parental rights may have the legal right to obtain the accident report. Typically, parents have the right to access information related to their child's well-being and... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: I have a friend that has a baby mama that is withholding him from seeing his child though he has custody is that legal?

There is no court order for this and they are trying to bribe him with 5k to sign his rights over even though he wants to see his son is this legal

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Aug 16, 2023

If he has custody and the other parent is withholding the child, he needs to quickly take legal action to enforce the court order. The court can only help him if he is takes the proper steps to bring this matter to court.

Best of luck!

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: I have a friend that has a baby mama that is withholding him from seeing his child though he has custody is that legal?

There is no court order for this and they are trying to bribe him with 5k to sign his rights over even though he wants to see his son is this legal

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answered on Aug 16, 2023

If your friend's baby mama is not complying with the custody order, your friend may need to take legal action to enforce the order and ensure he can spend time with his child as outlined in the court-approved arrangement. This might involve going back to court and seeking enforcement of the... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Family Law and Child Custody for Oklahoma on
Q: Marriage in 2006, have not lived or been together since 07-08, my children aren't his, do they need mentioned in papers?

I was 17 at time of marriage (mother signed consent) and husband was 21. Husband was hurt at work resulted in him having double knee surgery. I dropped out of high school to stay home for his care. Husband became an addict to prescription pills and habitual drunk. We have not lived as husband and... View More

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Aug 12, 2023

If the children were born during the marriage, the husband is considered the legal father. If the husband is not the biological father, then this will need to be addressed in the divorce and there is a procedure to resolve this issue. You will need an attorney to make sure this is done properly.... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Divorce and Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: filling a divorce but have been separated. talked about moving in with new partner Spouse and I have kids any problems?

Any problem with moving in with new partner?

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answered on Aug 9, 2023

In Oklahoma, divorce laws can vary, and the impact of moving in with a new partner while going through a divorce could potentially affect matters like child custody, property division, and spousal support.

If you and your spouse have children, moving in with a new partner could potentially...
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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Oklahoma on
Q: I need motion of contempt. Motion for drug test to show as positive. Motion for judge to follow rules and procedures

I don't know where to find or how to draft. Unable to retain lawyer. But judge isn't following proper procedures, opposing counsel allowed to make hearings without motions per decree. Contempt motions. Motion for refused drug test to show as positive. And more..but where do I find these?... View More

Charles Watts
Charles Watts
answered on Jun 15, 2023

It is unfortunate that you feel the judge is ignoring procedure and the opposing party is getting away with things you do not agree with. You will not find any such forms here. This is a forum to get general answers to questions. I am not sure why you are unable to retain an attorney, but if you... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support, Divorce and Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: how do i get a divorce court moved to another state due to conflict of interest?

my ex is an attorney in the court that we were divorced in. He is well known in the county and state that the divorce took place in. Im unable to pay for an attorney nor have i been able to get help from legal aid in this matter. I live in missouri now and I want the divorce court to be move to... View More

John Michael Frick
John Michael Frick
answered on May 24, 2023

There is no law that allows a divorce court or case to be transferred from one state to another. Each state has its own divorce courts. Once a divorce case has been properly began in one state, that state retains jurisdiction through the entry of the final decree. It sounds to me from your... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Adoption, Child Custody and Native American Law for Oklahoma on
Q: What's the actual law for child an parent bond & what can I do my oldest kid is missing and she's in icw custody

She's been missing since April 14

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answered on May 22, 2023

The actual law regarding the parent-child bond can vary depending on the jurisdiction and specific circumstances. In general, the law recognizes the importance of maintaining a strong bond between parents and their children. If your oldest child is missing and in the custody of ICW (Indian Child... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law, Child Custody, Civil Litigation and Civil Rights for Oklahoma on
Q: Is the statue for interrupting a 911 call beyond a reasonable doubt to be found guilty or other form?

Witness to testify it did not happen.

Tracy Tiernan
Tracy Tiernan
answered on May 1, 2023

Before a defendant can be sentenced to any period of incarceration, pursuant to a criminal statute or ordinance, each and every element of that crime must be proved to a trier of fact (meaning a judge or jury) by the standard “beyond a reasonable doubt.”

This concept involving how...
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1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law, Child Custody, Domestic Violence and Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: If a mother filed charges on the father for child abuse with injury and decides to drop the charges what are the

consequences for the mother if she drops charges and a protective order? He doesn’t live in their home. She was told she could be charged with a misdemeanor. Is that true?

Tracy Tiernan
Tracy Tiernan
answered on Mar 28, 2023

This question depends a lot on the involvement of the department of human services in the matter. However, as a general rule, if a man has abused one of the children in the home (doesn’t matter whether they are his biological children, stepchildren or children of a girlfriend in a relationship)... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: Do I have to introduce my child father to my current boyfriend before my child?

I have been dating someone for over 2 years and he has never met my daughter but he is aware of her. My current boyfriend recently expressed that he’d like to meet my child. My daughter told her dad that she will be meeting mom’s boyfriend, now her dad is threatening me saying he wants to take... View More

John Michael Frick
John Michael Frick
answered on Mar 24, 2023

A non-custodial parent can take a custodial parent back to court to modify custody or to modify the terms and conditions of possession at any time until the child reaches 18 years of age.

Any such case will be adjudicated based on the facts and circumstances proven by the admissible...
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1 Answer | Asked in Adoption, Child Custody and Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: My cousin is wanting to give me her unborn child because her and her husband are unable to care for her.

They are in AZ but willing to come to Oklahoma to have the baby. Where do I start? How do I bring home the baby when she is born

Charles Watts
Charles Watts
answered on Mar 10, 2023

If she comes here to have the baby then you will most likely avoid the legal issues of multiple states and thus making it easier and cheaper for you. Kinship adoptions are a fairly simple procedure and most adoption attorneys can assist you and most of us will give a free phone consult to make sure... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Adoption, Child Custody and Child Support for Oklahoma on
Q: In Oklahoma, I am the custodial parent, I have been married to my wife for 3 years we have been together since 2018.

The non custodial has been absent since 2017 and paid child support only one time in dec 2020 is my wife able to adopt my daughter? The non custodial parent lost her rights in court and has failed to cover her part of support and has had little to no contact over the last 6 years.

Charles Watts
Charles Watts
answered on Mar 3, 2023

Step parent adoptions are very common and to answer your question, and based on your given facts, probably yes. There are some avenues we often pursue to get that permitted through the courts. This is not something you will want to do on your own if you suspect resistance. Contact an adoption... View More

3 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Oklahoma on
Q: Who can make the father give the mother back her child if they were never married, and there is no custody order?

In Oklahoma, father (on birth certificate) is keeping (under 1 year old) away from mother. Father has protective order against mother and hasn’t let mother see child in over a month. Is there someone she can call to make him give her the child?

Charles Watts
Charles Watts
answered on Dec 23, 2022

As both my colleagues have indicated - there is a potential to have this resolved. You will need an attorney to help you fight. There is always more facts that come out once the paperwork is all in front of the attorney. However, an action can be filed that establishes custody (joint, full, equal,... View More

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3 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Oklahoma on
Q: Who can make the father give the mother back her child if they were never married, and there is no custody order?

In Oklahoma, father (on birth certificate) is keeping (under 1 year old) away from mother. Father has protective order against mother and hasn’t let mother see child in over a month. Is there someone she can call to make him give her the child?

Timothy Carignan
Timothy Carignan
answered on Dec 22, 2022

She can go to family court and get a custody agreement in place. Even if father and mother can’t get along, the child has the right to have as much time as possible with each parent.

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3 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Oklahoma on
Q: Who can make the father give the mother back her child if they were never married, and there is no custody order?

In Oklahoma, father (on birth certificate) is keeping (under 1 year old) away from mother. Father has protective order against mother and hasn’t let mother see child in over a month. Is there someone she can call to make him give her the child?

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Dec 22, 2022

Yes, any family law attorney in your part of the state can help her. Take a copy of the protective order and any other court documents to the attorney. Once they review what has been filed they will then be able to tell you exactly what needs to happen next.

Best of luck and happy holidays.

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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Divorce and Child Custody for Oklahoma on
Q: In custody agreement plan, "any other mutually agreed upon time" is violated, is this action enforceable by police.

Rewording question for vagueness. In regards to custody exchange agreement the phrase "any other times mutually decided and agreed upon" I am aware that this does not mandate additional time. Ex spouse reason for not allowing additional time is both parties agree to additional time and... View More

Charles Watts
Charles Watts
answered on Nov 1, 2022

Again the answer is the same. The officer does not have anything to enforce because the mutual agreement is an above and beyond clause. The officer can address any definite order from the court - such as a specific holiday or where one person is supposed to meet at a specific time ((that is in the... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for Oklahoma on
Q: I have a teen who ran away from the state of Kansas custody. I live in Oklahoma City will I have to send her back

I am teens biological mother but my rights were terminated to her 15 years ago. She has recently been taken by the state again but from her aunt that adopted her and doesn't want her back. she wants to be with me. I don't want them to come pick her up and not sure what I can do at this point

Charles Watts
Charles Watts
answered on Oct 29, 2022

Unfortunately for you you have no legal standing in keeping her if your rights were terminated. Her aunt “may” grant you guardianship which would essentially give you permission for custody but would not change your status in regards to the parental rights. This is all conditional on the courts... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Oklahoma on
Q: Is "any other times mutually decided and agreed upon by and between parties" enforceable?

In current permanent parenting plan, custody exchanges are detailed except one. The phrase "Any other times mutually decided and agreed on by and between the parties" is included. Ex spouse refuses any and all requests for this as she believes that this is not enforceable if one party... View More

Charles Watts
Charles Watts
answered on Oct 28, 2022

Your question is a bit vague and not sure what the law enforcement provision is regarding to. In general “any other times” is just that times that are not specifically mentioned in the plan (ie. Regular visits, holidays, summer, etc…) and thus these times are merely optional so long as both... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Oklahoma on
Q: Do you have to have your ex signature to sign away your rights as a parent

Due to extenuating circumstances and the fact that my ex has parental alienated my kids that they absolutely refuse to have anything to do with me, do I need her signature to relinquish my parental rights.

Charles Watts
Charles Watts
answered on Sep 10, 2022

Once a parent always a parent until your rights are relinquished as a process of law. You cannot just simply waive the rights unless you are giving consent for a step-parent to adopt. Even if you attempted to waive the rights you are still responsible for support until someone else fills that role... View More

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