Cresco, IA asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for Iowa

Q: Is it legal for my ex to prevent visitation with our children despite my sobriety and compliance with child support?

I have been sober and compliant with child support, but my ex has full custody of our three children (ages 3, 8, and 13), and I haven't seen them for five months. Visitation is at her discretion, but despite my sobriety, she continually makes excuses, including who I associate with, to prevent me from seeing them. There is no specific court order on visitation beyond her discretion, though I have text messages indicating her refusal to allow visits. I have begun considering legal action to modify the custody arrangement. Is it legal for her to keep visitation from me, and what steps should I take next to address this situation?

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