Q: Can I deny my child therapy without supervision due to coaching concerns?

A: Better to go to court or try and speak with the therapist before you deny the therapy. Speak with a local family lawyer for more specific advice.

A: Given that you have a 50/50 custody arrangement, you and your child's mother typically share decision-making authority. If therapy sessions are a part of your child's well-being plan, both parents generally need to agree on therapy arrangements unless a court order specifies otherwise. If you believe that your child’s mother is coaching them, you can express your concerns, but denying therapy without supervision may not be the most effective solution.

Instead, it may be helpful to bring your concerns to the therapist or the court if you feel the therapy sessions are being compromised. The therapist may be able to monitor the situation and ensure that your child is not being influenced by either parent. You can also request that the therapist involve both parents in the sessions or have them supervised if you believe that would help protect the child’s interests.

Since there is an open DCF case and you are on a safety plan, you should document your concerns and communicate with your caseworker. The DCF may also be able to guide you in addressing this issue appropriately while ensuring that your child’s mental health is prioritized. If you feel that your child's safety or therapy is being affected, seeking legal advice can also help you navigate the next steps in this process.