Q: I have a question about filing for custody and child support after a divorce has been completed.
My sister and her ex husband are divorced but never included the custody or child support in their divorce because the were both able to agree to certain terms. She now wants to take him to court for child support because he just got a big promotion and feels he should pay more. So they have nothing ordered by a judge or child support enforcement agency stating how much should be paid. If she were to file for child support and it was to be increased, would she get any kind of back pay what so ever for the new amount or would her ex just start paying the new amount once the amount had been determined? Or would she get back paid from the date which she filed for the child support? This is in North Carolina, not sure if that matters. I told her I don't think she'll get back paid for anything but she told me her lawyer said she'll get back paid from the date they were separated. I would greatly appreciate it if someone could clear this up for me.
A: If he has been paying what they agreed to then there is no 'back child support' owed - asking for that is just greedy but you can never tell what a court would do. Of course if she decides to rock the boat and go for an increase in child support he should counter with a custody action which even if he loses may cost her everything she might get in a child support increase and then some or in the worse case scenario put her in the position to be paying child support. The best bet for them is to forget the lawyers and sit down and continue to agree to something fair. If they start fighting in court, all they will be doing is hurting the kids and paying strangers lots of money to decide things they could decide themselves for free..
Justia Ask a Lawyer is a forum for consumers to get answers to basic legal questions. Any information sent through Justia Ask a Lawyer is not secure and is done so on a non-confidential basis only.
The use of this website to ask questions or receive answers does not create an attorney–client relationship between you and Justia, or between you and any attorney who receives your information or responds to your questions, nor is it intended to create such a relationship. Additionally, no responses on this forum constitute legal advice, which must be tailored to the specific circumstances of each case. You should not act upon information provided in Justia Ask a Lawyer without seeking professional counsel from an attorney admitted or authorized to practice in your jurisdiction. Justia assumes no responsibility to any person who relies on information contained on or received through this site and disclaims all liability in respect to such information.
Justia cannot guarantee that the information on this website (including any legal information provided by an attorney through this service) is accurate, complete, or up-to-date. While we intend to make every attempt to keep the information on this site current, the owners of and contributors to this site make no claims, promises or guarantees about the accuracy, completeness or adequacy of the information contained in or linked to from this site.