First, you'd need an attorney to file a divorce from bed & board (which BTW despite the name is not an actual divorce) - that isn't something you or your spouse could do yourselves. Second, there's no way it'd be ready or even needed if you are moving out in the time frame you say you are....Read more »
My GF's ex husband is requesting she give him my address, full name, and birth date. I am against this because he has a history of domestic abuse, and he lied to the parent coordinator in order to get this info. He claimed her children spend nights at my house, but that is not true. And I've... Read more »
Neither you nor your girlfriend are required to provide this information. However, unless the ex is a total idiot he can likely find out everything he wants to know about you whether you like it or not. If you have safety concerns - get a gun.
If you at least know the divorce was granted in North Carolina, the most common place people file is the county they resided in. So you pretty much have to give it you best guess and start contacting the clerk of civil district court for each of the 100 North Carolina counties until you hit a...Read more »
Sounds very much like you do not have an attorney of if you do, that you have paid them to complete the job. The short answer to your question is, yes, under certain circumstances, a Judge can take your property. They don't even need to force to to sign anything - the Judge will just sign your...Read more »
You should have hired an attorney - it likely would have been cheaper and you wouldn't have had to bother schlepping to court or dealing with surprises. Typically, in Wake county if the 30 day extension has expired, you will likely need to file a Motion for Default Judgment (also called a Motion...Read more »
If the divorce is done in North Carolina - yes. If the divorce is done in Massachusetts then no, unless the attorney is also licensed there but even in that case travel with likely be cost prohibitive expense. If you expect the divorce to be uncontested and wife has resided in NC for at least the...Read more »
Is it legal for him to want it? Sure, he can want what whatever he wants. However, you have a marital interest in the property so he can not legally force you out unless you want to leave. You likely need to consult with a local family law attorney ASAP who can review your situation in more...Read more »
She won't sign. She requested a 30 day extension and it's been 60. I haven't heard anything. What should I do? The attorney can't do anything else since she's contesting. I think she want half of my 401k. We have no children or any property to divide.
None of what you are saying makes any sense what so ever. You say she won't sign - I can only think you mean sign for service of process because that's the only thing she'd need to sign for. She is not required to sign any paperwork in order for you to divorce her. You then say she requested a...Read more »
You may qualify to have court cost and service of process fees waived IF you are indigent (extremely low or no income) but you will still have to do quite a bit of work to do yourself which the court is not allowed to help you with. Even if you are indigent and eligible to have court cost waived,...Read more »
They work together, I have proof that she asked and knew about me and pursued him further, via witness testimony (other employees). I have witness testimony of them being together, and even the higher ups have said something to him because he was happily married.
You can but you need to make sure she has non-exempt assets that can be gotten otherwise even if you win the case (which even in the best of circumstances, the odds are never good) you will likely end up with a judgment that has about the same worth as used toilet paper.
My boyfriend and his ex-wife are separated,but are not divorced as of yet. Hey do you have a mediation appointment set for the first week of August. There is no court order or motion for anything in regards to custody, child support, or alimony. But what we have looked up, he still has equal... Read more »
It is legal if she has good cause. However, likely she does not have good cause and is just using the children as a way to be vindictive. If she does not have good cause, doing what you describe her to have done will make her look bad in court and may also be a crime. Your boyfriend, needs to...Read more »
The only way you will save money doing your own divorce id if you are indigent (extremely low or no income) and eligible to have court cost waived. You may not qualify. However, if you make a $1000 a month - you can afford us. Visit easyncdivorce.com to see if our service is a good fit for you....Read more »
If the child was not yet born, you are not supposed to 'report' it on the divorce paperwork. As to rights, if you are the father - you have rights. You may have to assert your rights but you do have them.
Husband is in family home after work with children until I come home after work and a beer at my apartment. He made it impossible for me to stay there. I got apartment to get away from him yelling at me and all the arguing. I always sleep at home with my husband and children. My husband is starting... Read more »
It is fine that you got an apartment; however, it sounds like you need to file for custody as soon as possible. There are other things you can do to protect yourself and the evidence which you will need for your case. Consult a separate attorney about how best to go about this, if your current...Read more »
I am assuming you did your own divorce because the way you are describing things is not typical. If the house is in your name only, why were you the one to leave to start the separation period? And if you are already now divorced why was this issue not resolved during the divorce? At this point,...Read more »
Depends on what you mean by 'legal separation'. There is no such thing in North Carolina but if you mean she has entered into a formal written separation agreement then it is possible that it could have been drafted so that she can sell the property. Without looking at the agreement or any other...Read more »
Her family is handling everything for her due to a disability. They have aid lined up for her care, but it won't start until her assets are $2000 or less. They plan on taking early withdrawal on the retirement funds from me, then using them up so her aid will kick in. I want to be fair about... Read more »
The bottom line is if she is entitled to a portion of your retirement - you ought not get to dictate how it is used. In essence, what you are suggesting is that because you don't approve of how her family plans to spend the portion of your retirement that she is entitled to - you basically think...Read more »
We have been separated since 2008. He resides in Maryland and I have been living in NC since August of 2018. I don’t have the money for a high priced attorney and he knows that by him refusing to sign I will have to spend more money. Are there any attorneys in Wake County that are willing to... Read more »
If you are filing in North Carolina, then you do not need your spouses's permission, consent or for them to 'sign papers' to divorce them. If you meet the eligibility requirements for a divorce all the is required is that they be properly served. Once that happens, there is nothing your spouse...Read more »
We got married in NC and he just moved to WA. He states he is planning on filing for divorce in WA. Do we need a "separation agreement" tp move forward with a WA divorce? Will a NC issued "separation agreement" be acceptable in WA? All of our joint acquisitions are in NC.
I have no idea what WA requires but in NC a Separation Agreement is often very helpful but not required. A separation agreement is a simple contract that resolves marital issues such as division of property / assets / debts, child related issues, retirement, taxes etc. It will usually keep over...Read more »
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