San Francisco, CA asked in Divorce and Family Law for California

Q: Can I request a gag order on my future ex husband he is repeating personal business and lying about me.

My husband was abusive and he is lying to everyone who will listen calling me a crackhead.

His first wife passed and he called her a crackhead too. Everything I tell him he repeats out of context.

I just want him to stop.

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James L. Arrasmith
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A: If your ex-husband is spreading false information or making defamatory statements about you, it may be worth considering other legal options to address the situation. Here are a few possible courses of action:

Cease and Desist Letter: You can consult with an attorney who specializes in defamation or family law to draft and send a cease and desist letter to your ex-husband. This letter formally requests that he stops making false statements about you and warns of potential legal consequences if he continues.

Restraining Order or Protective Order: If your ex-husband's behavior is threatening, abusive, or causing you emotional distress, you may be able to seek a restraining order or protective order. These orders can provide legal protection and prevent him from contacting or harassing you.

Defamation Lawsuit: If your ex-husband's false statements are damaging your reputation and causing you harm, you might consider filing a defamation lawsuit. An attorney can guide you through the process and help determine if you have a strong case.

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