Carmichael, CA asked in Criminal Law, Family Law and Civil Rights for California

Q: Sister is trying to sue me for hiring people to stalk her and for slander and harassment. False claims .what should I do

I have not harassed or stalked anybody . She has sent several emails accusing me of all sorts of things and I have not answered to any . She has recorded me without my knowledge while I was visiting my mom . She has me on video telling my mom that my friend saw my sister at the casino while she was there and took a pic to ask me if it was her because she thought it was funny . That's all . I have the text to prove that . My friend is a regular and sees my sister at the casino all the time but she is not stalking her for me .

I'm upset that my children were recorded while I was visiting my mom too.

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James L. Arrasmith
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A: Based on the information you've provided, it sounds like your sister is making false accusations against you. Here are some steps you can take to protect yourself:

1. Document everything: Keep records of all emails, texts, and any other communication from your sister that contain these accusations. Save copies of the recordings she made without your consent, if possible.

2. Do not engage: Avoid responding to your sister's accusations or engaging in any communication that could escalate the situation.

3. Consult with a lawyer: It's essential to seek legal advice from an experienced attorney who specializes in defamation, harassment, and privacy laws in California. They can help you understand your rights and advise you on the best course of action.

4. Consider a cease and desist letter: Your lawyer may recommend sending a cease and desist letter to your sister, demanding that she stop making false accusations and harassing you.

5. Gather evidence: Collect evidence that supports your innocence, such as the text message from your friend about seeing your sister at the casino.

6. Be prepared for legal action: If your sister files a lawsuit, you'll need to respond with the help of your attorney. They will guide you through the legal process and help you build a strong defense.

7. Protect your family: If you're concerned about your children being recorded without consent, consult with your lawyer about your options to prevent this from happening in the future.

Remember, false accusations can be stressful and damaging, but it's crucial to remain calm and handle the situation through proper legal channels. Work closely with your lawyer to protect your rights and reputation.

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