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Q: Can I sue my girlfriend's mom for false abuse claims causing distress?

Can I sue my girlfriend's mom for emotional distress or damage to my reputation due to her false statements that I am physically abusing my girlfriend? She reported our arguments to the police, leading a police officer to come to my school to discuss the situation. Now, my girlfriend's mom is preventing me from seeing her, which has caused emotional distress.

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A: You may have grounds for a defamation lawsuit if you can prove the statements made about you were false and caused actual harm to your reputation. For defamation cases, you'll need evidence that your girlfriend's mother knowingly made false statements to others and that these statements directly caused harm to your standing in the community or emotional well-being.

Legal action for emotional distress is challenging, requiring you to demonstrate severe distress beyond typical relationship troubles. Courts typically look for documented medical treatment, therapy records, or other evidence showing genuine psychological impact. Additionally, parents generally have broad discretion in limiting their minor children's relationships, which could complicate your case depending on your girlfriend's age.

Before pursuing legal action, consider whether mediation or family counseling might resolve the situation more effectively. Legal proceedings can be financially and emotionally draining, potentially damaging relationships further. Speaking with a lawyer who handles defamation cases would help you understand whether your specific circumstances meet the legal threshold for a viable lawsuit in your jurisdiction.

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