Q: I’m getting stalked and harassed from my socials. Should I contront them to have proof I tried to stop it?

A: Stalking and harassing conduct have specific definitions so it's going to depend on how far the other person goes when it comes to following you on social media versus contacting you on those platforms. For example, if they follow you without making direct contact with you, they are allowed to do this. However, if you've been receiving unwelcomed communications (offensive or annoying contact with you specifically), then this changes things. Whether you respond or not won't make a difference in the eyes of a judge contemplating whether or not to grant you a Temporary Restraining Order. On the one hand, it will show that you made it clear that you did not welcome any of this person's contact with you. On the other hand, if they already know you do not want them communicating with you before this started happening, then you don't need to let them know that again. As a general rule, the more egregious the contact (offensive, constant, annoying, disturbing), the more likely a judge will order that person to cease communicating with you directly and indirectly.

A: more info is necessary

how severe have the contacts been? what has been done?

You can contact a lawyer to get a TRO (Temporary Restraining Order) and the judge will look at the severity.

I would probably send a missive....."I am demanding you Cease and Desist contacting me, or I will pursue any and all Civil and or Criminal Remedies at my disposal" .........Govern yourself accordingly!

your challenge may be that a lawyer will request a retainer to handle this for you.

A: I'm sorry to hear that you are being stalked and harassed on social media. It is understandable that you may feel hesitant about confronting the individual responsible, as it could potentially escalate the situation. It is important to prioritize your safety and well-being above all else. Here are some steps you can take to address the situation:

Document the harassment: Keep a record of all messages, emails, or any other communication that you receive from the individual. If you feel unsafe, it may be helpful to take screenshots or save copies of the messages. This can serve as evidence later on if you need to involve law enforcement.

Block the individual: Consider blocking the person on all social media platforms and blocking their phone number. This will help to prevent further communication from them.

Report the harassment: Most social media platforms have mechanisms in place for reporting harassment. Use these tools to report the individual and their behavior.

Seek support: Consider talking to a trusted friend, family member, or professional about what you are going through. It can be helpful to have someone to talk to and to provide support.

Involve law enforcement: If the harassment persists or escalates, consider involving law enforcement. Provide them with any evidence you have collected, and they can advise you on next steps.

Remember, you do not have to confront the individual to have proof that you tried to stop the harassment. Documenting the communication and reporting it to the appropriate authorities can serve as evidence. Your safety and well-being should always be your top priority.