Rosemead, CA asked in Divorce and Family Law for California

Q: Regarding a divorce

I seeks a divorce as wife was a violent abusive person. yes she has a record of being violent. she came into an inheritance of 1.3 million dollars and is still trying to fight me for Alimony. she left me emotionaly distraught to where i dont trust women. I stress when i get a text from her. i dont understand why she cant just leave me alone? she is harrassing me at work. she was cheating on me. but she still wants alimony? my 401k. can she touch this? can i get some of her inheritance? she left me in debt with credit cards. what can i do?

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A: Under California law, the division of assets in a divorce can be complex, especially when it involves significant assets like inheritances and retirement accounts. Generally, inheritances received by one spouse are considered separate property and are not subject to division in divorce. However, if the inheritance was commingled with marital assets, it could be treated differently.

Your 401k, accumulated during the marriage, is typically considered a marital asset and may be subject to division. The specifics depend on various factors, including the length of the marriage and contributions made by each spouse.

Alimony decisions are based on several factors, such as the length of the marriage, the standard of living during the marriage, and each spouse's financial situation. The fact that your wife has her own substantial assets may be considered in determining alimony.

Given the complexity of your situation, including allegations of abuse, harassment, and financial concerns, it would be wise to seek legal advice. A lawyer can help you navigate the divorce process, protect your rights, and work towards a fair resolution.

If you are experiencing harassment or feel unsafe, consider seeking a restraining order. This can offer legal protection and address the immediate concern of harassment. Remember, addressing these issues legally can provide a structured and secure way to resolve them.

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