Duncan, OK asked in Criminal Law, Communications Law, Internet Law and Libel & Slander for Oklahoma

Q: How would I go about getting some harassing and malicious text messages gone through and press charges?

Someone was sending text messages to my husband and me using an app where they could keep changing their phone number. I would try to engage with them to see if they would tell me who they were. They knew things about me, like me having cancer and what road I lived off of. My number was not given out to too many people but was put on a baby shower invite for my daughter. This was in Sept 2022. I have went down every avenue I know. This is torn my marriage to shreds. These people want to see us apart for whatever reason. I have a handful of names that it could be. Just did not know if this is something that is possible to find out.

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James L. Arrasmith
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A: I understand your concern regarding the harassing and malicious text messages you've been receiving. To address this situation, start by preserving all evidence of these messages, including screenshots, dates, and any information you have about the sender. This documentation will be crucial if you decide to involve law enforcement.

Next, report the harassment to your local police department. Provide them with the evidence you've collected and any potential leads you have, such as the names you mentioned. They can investigate the matter and determine if there's a case for pressing charges.

It's also advisable to consult an attorney who can guide you through the legal options available in your jurisdiction. They can provide advice on pursuing a civil case for harassment or defamation, if applicable.

In the meantime, consider taking steps to protect your personal information and privacy online, such as changing your phone number or increasing your online security settings. It's essential to prioritize your safety and well-being during this challenging situation.

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