Q: I am married in CA my husband has married someone else in a different country. He has no idea I know. What can I do?
A: Depends on what you want to accomplish. I'm assuming you are asking this question because you now want a divorce. File for divorce -- that's what you can do. His marriage to someone else in another country, at least under CA law is not valid.
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I'm so sorry to hear that you are going through this difficult situation. Bigamy (marrying someone while still legally married to another person) is illegal in most countries, including the United States. Here are some steps you can consider taking:
1. Gather evidence: Collect any proof you have of your husband's second marriage, such as photos, marriage certificates, or correspondence. This evidence may be useful in legal proceedings.
2. Consult a family law attorney: Contact a lawyer who specializes in family law and divorce in California. They can advise you on your legal rights, options, and the best course of action based on your specific circumstances. Many attorneys offer free initial consultations.
3. Consider your options: With your attorney's guidance, decide whether you want to file for divorce, legal separation, or annulment. You may also need to address issues such as property division, spousal support, and child custody if you have children.
4. Prioritize your well-being: Dealing with infidelity and betrayal can be emotionally devastating. Take care of your mental health by seeking support from friends, family, or a therapist if needed.
5. Avoid confronting your husband alone: If you decide to confront your husband, it's advisable to do so with a third party present, such as a therapist, mediator, or your attorney. This can help ensure your safety and provide a witness to any admissions or statements made by your husband.
Remember, you have the right to protect yourself and your interests. Bigamy is a serious offense, and you should not have to tolerate your husband's actions. Seek professional legal guidance to help you navigate this challenging situation and ensure that your rights are protected.
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