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2 Answers | Asked in Child Support, Divorce and Family Law for New York on
Q: If child support isn’t court ordered , does it have to be paid ?

My kids dad and I have a separation agreement he has to pay 2,600 but it says once it’s approved by the judge … so he doesn’t have to pay child support till then ? Bc he was and now he isn’t . So can I take him for back child support? Or no because he isn’t forced to pay till the divorce... View More

Michael J Stachowski
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answered on Jan 15, 2024

That is not true once the agreement is signed the obligation for child support is in effect. His obligation commenced when he entered into the agreement. You can go to Family court to enforce it it is not an executory agreement as he suggests requiring an incorporation into a Divorce decree to be... View More

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3 Answers | Asked in Family Law, Divorce and Child Support for New York on
Q: following the exaction of this agreement means?

Husband shall pay to the Wife the sum of $2,600.00 per month as and for basic child support which shall be made by certified funds on or before the first day of each month following the exaction of this agreement. So that means if this takes months ..he doesn’t have to pay child support till this... View More

Michael J Stachowski
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answered on Jan 15, 2024

The answer is simple. Your agreement states child support payable first month after execution of the agreement. Therefore child support is payable and is accruing. You will have to go to court to enforce it. You should get a lawyer. He may also be responsible for fees. Consult a lawyer

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for New York on
Q: I’ve been divorced for 5 years. My ex wife still calls me to tell me my daughter is rude to her and I need to handle it

This has become harassment because it is constant. Is there anything that I can do?

Marco Caviglia
Marco Caviglia
answered on Jan 10, 2024

To constitute harassment, there has to be some criminal intent, especially for the crime of aggravated harassment (using the phone to do so). However, in the general sense it is used, that she is being a bother, the question is what is your relationship with the daughter? Are you exercising... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for New York on
Q: Are all higher earning spouse always has to pay spousal support? Even in relationship abandonments situation?
Marco Caviglia
Marco Caviglia
answered on Jan 10, 2024

The spouse with more earnings is not necessarily always obligated to pay spousal support, although that is essentially the presumption. In fact, you can find out how much the recipient spouse would be given, at least temporarily while litigation proceeds, by a calculator available from the Office... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Tax Law, Divorce and Family Law for New York on
Q: How does my husband change my last name before we get a divorce as well as put stuff under my name tax returns go back y
James L. Arrasmith
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answered on Jan 8, 2024

To change your last name before getting a divorce, you need to file a formal petition with the court in New York. This process involves submitting a name change application, paying required fees, and possibly publishing the change in a local newspaper, as required by state law. The court will then... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for New York on
Q: Please, what is the statute of Limitations for filing an action to set aside a divorce agreement in NY? Can you cite it?
Peter Christopher Lomtevas
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answered on Jan 3, 2024

Contracts procured by fraud have a six year statute of limitations, CPLR213(8), but divorce agreements are not any ordinary contract. Divorce agreements are "allocuted" which means the judge asks questions about whether both parties entered into the agreement freely, knowingly and... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for New York on
Q: Please, what is the statute of Limitations for filing an action to set aside a divorce agreement in NY? Can you cite it?
Marco Caviglia
Marco Caviglia
answered on Jan 10, 2024

Six years, but you are not merely seeking to void a "divorce agreement." You are attempting to undo a very detailed proceeding by the Supreme Court to ensure that everything was done properly and consensually. Even if timely, you may be blocked anyway if you benefitted from the divorce... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for New York on
Q: If I had a separation agreement signed and notarized, but not court approved, can I change my mind about the stipulation

My husband and I had a separation agreement notarized and signed and sent to his attorney, but it was never seen by a court bc it’s going to be

Incorporated into the divorce. He’s not following the rules of the agreement. So can I now get an attorney and say I don’t want the... View More

Howard E. Knispel
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Howard E. Knispel
answered on Dec 28, 2023

A separation agreement, if properly executed, is enforceable. It does not have to be approved by the court. You can enforce it through a divorce action or a plenary action. However, you can not unilaterally toss it aside. If you start a divorce action, your spouse can seek to enforce the terms... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for New York on
Q: My ex husband filed divorce in New York where he lives I live in Tennessee. How can he send me the final divorce decree?

He claims the court says he cant send this paperwork through the mail. He has my certified copy of the divorce papers.

Marco Caviglia
Marco Caviglia
answered on Jan 10, 2024

I assume that by "divorce papers" you mean those papers to start an action in New York for divorce, not an actual divorce decree, which would be a done deal. To sue you for divorce as a resident of a "foreign" state, the Supreme Court in a matrimonial action may exercise... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for New York on
Q: My ex husband filed divorce in New York where he lives I live in Tennessee. How can he send me the final divorce decree?

He claims the court says he cant send this paperwork through the mail. He has my certified copy of the divorce papers.

Howard E. Knispel
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Howard E. Knispel
answered on Dec 23, 2023

He is not being truthful. He can send the divorce judgment through the mail just like any other document. We usually send the judgments to our clients by mail. You can contact the county clerk in the county where the Divorce was granted and get a copy but you may be required to provide... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for New York on
Q: what do i need to file divorce under abandonment and how long does it take for the divorce to be final
Howard E. Knispel
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Howard E. Knispel
answered on Dec 7, 2023

Under current NY law you do not need cause to file for divorce. You do not need to prove abandonment. If the divorce is uncontested, meaning it is agreed to by both parties, it could take several months depending on the county it is filed in. If it is not uncontested then there is no way of... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce for New York on
Q: My Spouse started a divorce online using onlinedivorce.com program

The divorce was started in early September. We both reside in NY State. The only thing that I have received and completed was the questionnaire. I consulted the company several times about the status of my case however, I was told that they are not a middle man. Per a court order, I am not allowed... View More

David P. Badanes
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David P. Badanes
answered on Nov 24, 2024

Yes, you can file your own papers. If it turns out that your spouse filed papers before you, then one of the divorces will need to be cancelled.

2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody and Divorce for New York on
Q: My husband and I would like an amicable divorce
David P. Badanes
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David P. Badanes
answered on Nov 11, 2024

If you are located in Suffolk, Nassau or New York City, I can help you. Please email me at david@dbnylaw.com.

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Domestic Violence and Identity Theft for New York on
Q: I believe I may have been a victim of Human Traffic committed by my ex. How to address this on my divorce case?

We met in Brazil in 2007, and reconnected in 2011. He filled bankruptcy in NYC, went to Brazil to attest he loved me and convinced me to move to NYC later that year. Less than 6 months later, he proposed, but because of Defense of Marital Act, we only got married in 2013. My ex issued the first... View More

Peter Christopher Lomtevas
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answered on Nov 3, 2024

First and foremost the asker must retain a lawyer to represent her and guide her throughout her divorce. We cannot provide such a service here online. Secondly, the asker makes rather bombastic allegations that should appear in the pleadings prepared by her lawyer. Some facts are important while... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Divorce for New York on
Q: Hello My husband and I are separated but not legally divorced. In writing my will how do I protect my 3 kids?

Will any money I may inherit go to him as well?

Jack Mevorach
Jack Mevorach
answered on Oct 31, 2024

No. Inherited money remains separate property as long as it is not comingled.

Jack

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody and Divorce for New York on
Q: What is the process for divorce with children involved and custody arrangements

Currently married but might look to divorce and need to know about custody steps

Howard E. Knispel
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Howard E. Knispel
answered on Sep 13, 2024

Custody can be addressed in the Divorce case or you can file for custody alone in Family Court. Speak to an attorney.

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce for New York on
Q: Validity of one-page signed postnuptial in divorce?

I was divorced on October 2023 and had a notarized postnuptial agreement not honored during the divorce proceedings. The agreement was signed by both parties but the notary in error signed on a second page belonging to the parties involved and the notary, which we did not sign. Leaving the parties... View More

Howard E. Knispel
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Howard E. Knispel
answered on Sep 8, 2024

A divorce agreement must be executed in a certain manner and contain certain language. If it does not it is invalid. You needed to have a professional prepare it properly for it to have been valid. Contact an attorney.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for New York on
Q: I’m not legally separated from my husband, but currently living in the basement do I have to pay him rent every month?

Living in the basement with my daughter.

David P. Badanes
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David P. Badanes
answered on Sep 5, 2024

If no divorce action or legal separation action has been started, then you do not have to pay rent to your husband.

However, you and your husband have a legal obligation to take care of your daughter (provide her food, shelter).

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce for New York on
Q: HiAm I being tricked?

It is the second time that the opposing counsel "the Plaintiff" sends messages to me "the defendant" in a matrimonial proceeding in Supreme Court Kings County NY that I should stipulate the court and request a 90 day postponement to our proceeding "let your attorney draft a... View More

Kenneth A. Eiges
Kenneth A. Eiges
answered on Aug 28, 2024

I have no idea. I would have to have all the information about your case.

2 Answers | Asked in Divorce, Family Law and Real Estate Law for New York on
Q: what is the course of action for unmarried couple that brought house and now split and cant agree on what to do with hom

she put up down payment I've paid mortgage insurance and taxes both of us did various renovations we made no special arrangements or anything in writing in regards' to the house both our names on deed

Anthony M. Avery
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answered on Aug 12, 2024

Hire a NY attorney for file suit for a Sale For Partition.

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