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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for New York on
Q: Sealing a marriage record from the public

I'd like to know if it's possible in NY to seal from public record a fraudulent marriage (the fraud was not committed by me) from 1997 that continues to appear on public websites and google searches.

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answered on Sep 7, 2024

In New York, divorce records are supposed to be sealed for 100 years. If they are not or if you want, you can petition the Court to seal the records. As for public websites or google - if your spouse or someone else gave them that information or somehow they go a hold of that information, it will... View More

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Q: Can I enforce my ex to pay for our son's CIT camp training program based on the language of our agreement?

Ex refuses to pay for our 14-year-old son's CIT training program at the camp he has attended since age 5. He claims he agreed to pay for day camp "until 13 years old" and that son is "old enough to be on his own and doesn't need to be forced into a job so that [I] cam work... View More

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answered on Jun 16, 2024

When a Judge sees the word "reasonable" it should mean reasonable in the eyes of the general public and standards. My opinion is that given the language you quoted, as long as the cost for the CIT training is not excessive, it would seem that your ex would need to pay for it. However,... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody and Landlord - Tenant for New York on
Q: My ex gf who i share a 10year old with wont leave my house for over a year n just damages home. How can i get her out?

Alls she does is drink12-14 beers a day, vandalized and damages my home. Leave child alone when i was at work alone to go drink with her new boyfriend. I have all on camera. How can i evict her asap without selling my house

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answered on Jun 15, 2024

If the child is being left alone, that is the first thing you might want to address. Some 10 year olds are mature enough to stay by themselves, but, I don't think many Judges would approve of that.

Next thing to do is consult with a Landlord-Tenant attorney. If the house is yours,...
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3 Answers | Asked in Child Support and Family Law for New York on
Q: Can my kids mom take me for more child support, if the kids are 18 and 20 and the kids don’t work?

My kids are 18 and 20 and they don’t work , I pay child support and not after 4 years , my kids mom wants more $ so she is filling saying “the cost of living has gone up” my kids are adults and if she needs more help , they should be working also

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David P. Badanes
answered on Jun 15, 2024

In New York, you are responsible for child support until a child turns 21 years old. There are a few exceptions, for example, if the child enrolls in the military; gets married. It doesn't matter if the children work or don't work.

You might try to see if the kids will live...
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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce, Child Custody and Family Law for New York on
Q: If the noncustodial parent doesn't visit their children in an extended period of time, is this considered abandonment?

I know visits are voluntary, however is it considered abandonment to not participate in parental visits and ignore all communication. Not participate in any decision making? Will this be ground to refile for decision making in the future? How long would I wait to refile for full decision making... View More

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answered on Apr 18, 2024

Depending on how many visits have been missed and the reason the non-custodial parent has missed them, you might have a good case to file for a modification of your prior agreement. There are a lot of factors that go into whether or not your modification petition will be successful. I highly... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support, Divorce and Family Law for New York on
Q: How do you get the remaining amount of child support owed per court order that the SCU will not take out of check?

Uward Modification granted. I have a court order for child support stating that the non custodial parents child support obligation is "X" bi weekly and is to be paid through support collections unit. The court order was signed back in November of 2023 and retro active to the date or... View More

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answered on Feb 18, 2024

It is correct that SCU can only take a portion of the payor's income to pay for child support.

However, the Order should have also stated that the non-custodial parent must pay the balance via direct deposit or checks. So the attorney you spoke to is generally correct, you can file...
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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody and Divorce for New York on
Q: What is the process for divorce with children involved and custody arrangements

Currently married but might look to divorce and need to know about custody steps

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David P. Badanes
answered on Sep 13, 2024

If you file for a Divorce, then the issue of custody will be determined in the Divorce process. There is a lot to know about custody and should absolutely consult with an attorney.

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for New York on
Q: I’m not legally separated from my husband, but currently living in the basement do I have to pay him rent every month?

Living in the basement with my daughter.

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answered on Sep 5, 2024

If no divorce action or legal separation action has been started, then you do not have to pay rent to your husband.

However, you and your husband have a legal obligation to take care of your daughter (provide her food, shelter).

2 Answers | Asked in Divorce, Family Law and Real Estate Law for New York on
Q: what is the course of action for unmarried couple that brought house and now split and cant agree on what to do with hom

she put up down payment I've paid mortgage insurance and taxes both of us did various renovations we made no special arrangements or anything in writing in regards' to the house both our names on deed

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answered on Sep 6, 2024

If both your names are on the deed and either party wants to sell the home, then that person has to start a special court action called a Partition. In a Partition, the Court will decide if the house has to be sold and how much each party is entitled to.

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce for New York on
Q: What does the legal term mean annointed. You case file were updated and what in red is annointed .
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answered on Jun 16, 2024

It sounds as if your initial case was closed and then later on the clerk made a note. You should double-check with the clerk/Court or the Judge.

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1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law and Family Law for New York on
Q: During a family court deposition how can you refuse to answer some or all the questions?

I'm being harassed, and now must sit for a deposition. Assuming some of the questions will most likely be used to find personal information to harass me further... while other questions could be used again me in criminal charges... can I just object to these questions and refuse to answer them?

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answered on Jun 15, 2024

You should consult with an attorney and have an attorney with you at the deposition.

It is not clear why you have to sit for a deposition, very unusual for a Family Court case.

In general terms, if you do not answer a question at a deposition, you could be held in contempt or your...
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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Family Law and Domestic Violence for New York on
Q: Can I still add a name change after final hearing is over?

I just had my last court hearing in DV Supreme Court for divorce, child custody and relocation. I was representing myself for my divorce. I completely forgot to ask for my name to legally be changed back to my maiden name. No final judgement has been made and it may take another 2 months. Could I... View More

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answered on Jun 15, 2024

You should be able to contact the Judge/Court and ask for the proposed Judgment of Divorce to be changes to include your name change.

3 Answers | Asked in Family Law for New York on
Q: Is it legal for a you to have full custody yet a judge gives more visitation to the other non custodial parent?

To add detail there is an active access order for 1 week rotation schedule. However they have added that the non custodial parent can access thr child every day on custodial parents access time for activities.

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David P. Badanes
answered on Jun 15, 2024

A Judge has a great deal of power and latitude when it comes to custody and visitation. You may want to consider a modification of the Judge's order, so that the non-custodial parent doesn't have as much time.

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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Divorce for New York on
Q: Can a divorce be voided because of a typo?

I went to court and we finalized our divorce. Both parties signed in the court room. There was a typo or error in the custody order/ divorce agreement and I had to resign new papers recently and my exhusband hasn't signed them. Does that mean we are not divorced? Does that mean there is no new... View More

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answered on Apr 18, 2024

Without seeing the actual Judgment of Divorce, I can't definitely answer your question. However, most likely you are still divorced. It seems that you may have to go back to court with a Motion to get your husband to sign the correct papers.

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Q: I am in New York, I pay my ex-wife spousal maintenance. She remarried do I have to continue to pay her maintenance.

In divorce agreement it says I have to pay until December 2024. Shortly after her marriage her new husband died and left her a house and everything he owned.

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David P. Badanes
answered on Feb 18, 2024

I would have to see the exact language in the agreement. However, typically, once an ex-spouse re-marries, you no longer have to pay spousal maintenance.

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Q: Can the mediator that mediated our divorce property settlement agreement later represent my spouse to file for our divom
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David P. Badanes
answered on Apr 21, 2020

Most likely the mediator has a conflict and cannot represent your spouse -- unless you waive the conflict, in writing.

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3 Answers | Asked in Divorce for New York on
Q: My ex wife lied to the supreme Court, she stated my bi- weekly paycheck of $1000 was a weekly paycheck.

They calculated my child support on that number and not the actual amount. I literally owe double what it should be. Can I fix this?

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answered on Apr 20, 2020

Yes, you can fix this. Your child support should be based on the income as reflected on your W2 statement. You should hire an attorney to fix this for you.

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce for New York on
Q: My husband and I got married in Puerto Rico and now we want to divorce. Do we have to get divorced in Puerto Rico?

Can we get a divorce in my current state(New York)?

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David P. Badanes
answered on Feb 25, 2020

Yes, you probably can get divorced in New York. Have you lived in New York for more than 2 years? If yes, you can get divorced in New York. If you have only lived in New York for more than 1 year, then it depends on other facts.

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3 Answers | Asked in Divorce for New York on
Q: i have not seen my wife in over 15 yrs and dont know where she is how can I divorce her? we have no children no property
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answered on Feb 4, 2020

Yes, you can still get divorced. It would help if you have some idea where she is living, but, even without that information, it is still possible to get divorced. An experienced divorce attorney, will be able to help you.

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6 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Child Support for New York on
Q: I have two children in college: son (22), senior daughter (21) a junior

Should I stop paying child support because they are both over 21?

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David P. Badanes
answered on Feb 4, 2020

Whether or not you can stop paying child support would depend on: do you have an agreement or Court Order stating you have to pay child support past 21 years of age? If there is an agreement or Court Order that says that, then, no you can't stop paying child support and have to abide by the... View More

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