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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for Virginia on
Q: Parents divorcing. 4 year olds custody to be decided. Child regularly says he doesn't want to be with his mother.

I'm in desperate need of help. My best friend is going through a tumultuous custody battle with his soon-to-be ex-wife. He's currently an unemployed single father who's doing the best he can given his situation. Everyday this woman makes it harder and harder on him. We have spoken to... View More

Daniel P Leavitt
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answered on Jan 22, 2019

You are going to want to find a local family law lawyer in the jurisdiction where this is taking place and go with the best one. That may very well not be the lowest fee but it may not be the highest fee either. Any good family law lawyer will be able to guide him through the process.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for Virginia on
Q: I live in Virginia my daughter lives in Florida. Can I file for custody in Virginia to get her with me
Michael Christopher Miller
Michael Christopher Miller
answered on Jan 14, 2019

The location to file for custody is determined by the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction Enforcement Act, UCCJEA. See Va. Code § 20-146.12. Initial child custody jurisdiction.

The starting point is the child's "home state." "Home state" means the state in which a...
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Q: Hi I have a custody order in Maryland but we moved to Virgina I want to file for sole custody and change visitation.

But I don't have an address for the non-custodial parent. What do I do?

Michael Christopher Miller
Michael Christopher Miller
answered on Jan 9, 2019

Virginia would only have jurisdiction if both parents and the child(ren) have moved from Maryland. Your move alone may not be enough. If you don't know where the other parent is, you can't be sure they moved from Maryland.

Assuming Va. has jurisdiction,

Va. Code §...
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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for Virginia on
Q: Being awarded physical custody can the parent with less custody take the child and not return them after agreed time?

I have primary physical custody we both have joint legal custody. I’m worried the parent will take our child and not return them after our agreed upon period. Are they able to do that? The custody agreement says I have “primary physical custody with reasonable and liberal visitation as the... View More

Sharon R. Moss
Sharon R. Moss
answered on Dec 4, 2018

Since the order grants liberal visitation as the parties agree, if the non-custodial parent takes the child and does not return the child at the time that was agreed to by the parties, then they would be in violation of the court order. You should always make sure that the agreed upon times are in... View More

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Q: who all is present during a child custody court case?
Sharon R. Moss
Sharon R. Moss
answered on Dec 3, 2018

Both parties, their attorneys, if they have one, a Guardian ad litem, if one was appointed, and any witnesses that each party wishes to call. The Judge and a courtroom deputy. Possibly a court reporter.

2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody for Virginia on
Q: My custody order States that my sons father has visitation from 2 PM Christmas day until 6 PM Jan.1

The father has visitation every other week from 6PM Sunday until Wednesday at 6pm. It just so happens that his regular weekend starts the 23rd of December. Will I be breaking the custody order not allowing him to get my son until Christmas Day at 2pm?

Sharon R. Moss
Sharon R. Moss
answered on Nov 27, 2018

It depends on what the Order states with regard to your holiday visitation time. Also, does it state that the holiday visitation supersedes the regular visitation. More information regarding what the order says is needed to be able to answer this question.

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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Virginia on
Q: Does my wife's attorney have to communicate with me if I am acting as my own counsel?

I am acting as my attorney and some issues have arisen regarding my minor child. I wrote a very specific series of questions to my wife's attorney but he never responded. Does he have to consider me to be OC in this matter and communicate with me?

Sharon R. Moss
Sharon R. Moss
answered on Nov 2, 2018

If you do not have an attorney of record, then you should be treated as opposing counsel in the matter.

1 Answer | Asked in Adoption and Child Custody for Virginia on
Q: My nephew is under the care of his great grandparents. I want to petition for custody

Both great grandparents have multiple medical issues. My nephew's father resides in the home, has multiple drug and assault charges, and has child neglect charges on the child. My nephew's father's brother also resides in the home, and was driving the vehicle resulting in my... View More

Sharon R. Moss
Sharon R. Moss
answered on Oct 22, 2018

As a relative you have standing to file a petition for custody in the Juvenile and Domestic Relations Court in the county where the child lives. The court will make a custody determination based on the best interests of the child. Speak to an attorney for more specific advise on your situation.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Child Support for Virginia on
Q: Can the custodial parent demand that I pay half of all kids medical bills if it’s not in the child support order?

Also if I have moved from Stafford to Loudoun County can I petition the court for custodial parent to meet half way on visitation drop offs, pick ups etcetera?

Sharon R. Moss
Sharon R. Moss
answered on Oct 11, 2018

Virginia Code section 20-108.2 states that "any child support order shall provide that the parents pay in proportion to their gross incomes, as used for calculating the monthly support obligation, any reasonable and necessary unreimbursed medical or dental expenses." So unless it is... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support, Divorce and Family Law for Virginia on
Q: Can I file for emergency temporary full custody of my son?

Me my wife and son came to visit her family in Tennessee. While here she confessed she was talking to another man in Alabama. After getting in a argument about it she called this man and got him to pick her up. She left me and my son in Tennessee with her family with no car and barely any money... View More

Wayne E. Holcomb
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Wayne E. Holcomb
answered on Sep 14, 2018

You will need to talk to a North Carolina family law attorney to get this done, and I advise you do that quickly as time often matters in this type of determination. Our best to you.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for Virginia on
Q: What can i do ? If My Child’s Mother keeping my son away from if we shared split custody
Sharon R. Moss
Sharon R. Moss
answered on Sep 4, 2018

If you have a court order regarding custody and visitation, and if she is violating the provisions of the order, then you can file a Rule to Show Cause to ask the court to enforce the order. If there is no court order regarding custody and visitation, you can file Petitions for Custody and... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Virginia on
Q: Ex and I have joint custody, he's custodial, yet won't let me see them. I'm 5 mins away, can he keep them from me!?

Joint legal custody with communicable visitation, they live with him bc I lived out of state. I moved back and live 5 min from them, yet he wont let me see them or talk to them. They don't even know I've moved back and are 10, 8 and 6.

Thomas Woodward Ashton
Thomas Woodward Ashton
answered on Aug 22, 2018

It likely depends on the exact language in your order. Lots of orders out there have standard language that allows "reasonable and liberal visitation as agreed between the parties." The issue in cases where (a) this language is included, and (b) visitation is being denied by the custodial... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Virginia on
Q: I'm 17 and my grandparents have raised me. I want them to have full custody. Can I file a petition myself?

Do my parents have a right to fight me on my decision?

Thomas Woodward Ashton
Thomas Woodward Ashton
answered on Aug 13, 2018

Unless you are an emancipated minor (in which case custody wouldn't be an issue), the answer is almost certainly no. Your grandparents may be able to file themselves, seeking non-parent custody. Or a sympathetic parent who agrees with your wishes may file to change custody. But yes, your... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Virginia on
Q: I am asking for physical custody of my daughter and we went to mediation and can't agree on custody? What do I do?
Thomas Woodward Ashton
Thomas Woodward Ashton
answered on Aug 13, 2018

You should contact an experienced attorney immediately, in order to protect your rights.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Virginia on
Q: I’m 16 almost 17, how much of a say do I have to get visitation rights changed?
Thomas Woodward Ashton
Thomas Woodward Ashton
answered on Aug 13, 2018

Custody cases across the board are usually extremely case-specific, meaning that no one answer is likely to be accurate in all apparently similar scenarios. The answer also often varies by jurisdiction and even by which judge within a particular jurisdiction hears your case. However, in my... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Virginia on
Q: Is there any type of law that requires my ex to inform me if he is going to be away from my kids for an extended time?

My children currently live with their father, but we have joint legal custody. Is he required in some way to inform me if he leaves them for an extended unpredictable amount of time?

Laura B. Butler
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Laura B. Butler
answered on Jul 16, 2018

While it certainly would be good practice if he were to keep you informed of such an absence, if the order does not require him to keep you informed when he leaves the children for an extended unpredictable amount of time then he would not be in violation of the order if he did not share that... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Virginia on
Q: Va Code 20-108.2(D), parties shall share unreimbursed medical OVER $250. Does the custodial parent eat the first $250?

If minor child accumulates $1,000 in medical expenses in a calendar year, does the custodial parent pay the first $250, then both parents split the remaining $750?

Sharon R. Moss
Sharon R. Moss
answered on Jul 16, 2018

That is how the old version of the code reads. Yes, that is how it is interpreted. The custodial parent pays the first $250 and then anything over that is split by the parents.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for Virginia on
Q: Can she get more child support and spousal support?

My boyfriend’s ex (currently married still to her) he is paying child support for there two kids one is 16 one is now 18 she has been moved out and out of school since oct of 2017 and now the mother is taking it back to court to get more child support from him! My question is can she? And can she... View More

Sharon R. Moss
Sharon R. Moss
answered on Jun 26, 2018

If they are under a court order in Virginia for child support, the child turning 18 and emancipating is a material change in circumstances that would allow her the ability to ask the court to recalculate child support. The circumstances of the parties now as opposed to when the original order was... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Child Custody and Child Support for Virginia on
Q: Child support questions in Virginia?

My husband is divorced in 2008 with 4 kids? He paid Alimony and He is still paying child support for his kids. His kids ages are 23, 21, 18 and 16. All kids graduated from school except the last one. We are having a baby together. Do we have to pay child support when they are in college? We met... View More

Michael Christopher Miller
Michael Christopher Miller
answered on Jun 20, 2018

Unless the parents agree otherwise, child support ends at age 18 or high school graduation, unless there is some permanent disability.

Often times settlement agreement do have college expense obligations that are separate from child support obligations.

Any financial arrangement...
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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Virginia on
Q: Can I request a set of interrogatories without having an attorney

I received my first set of interrogatory questions from my son's father's attorney in a custody case I do not have an attorney am I able to request these questions also from him.

Sharon R. Moss
Sharon R. Moss
answered on Jun 18, 2018

Yes, if you are representing yourself you have the right to issue Interrogatories and Requests for Production of Documents in the case as well.

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