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3 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: My wife and I want to file an uncontested irreconcilable divorce complaint. We don't want the court/judge to determine

equitable distribution since we know what we want. Do we put these details in the complaint or a document afterwards? Confused over the detail of wording that needs to be present in form 1D. Example, do we list the account info for the 401k to be transferred? Details about the mortgage debt? When... View More

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Bari Weinberger
answered on Feb 22, 2023

Thank you for your question. A complaint for divorce must be filed accompanied by a Marital Settlement Agreement which is a comprehensive document including the resolution of all outstanding issues. The Court’s will enforce an agreement between parties for so long as it is not unconscionable. It... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Divorce and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: Can I get divorced and then do child custody afterwards?

And what can I do to get visitation rights if my kids live in another state

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Feb 21, 2023

Thank you for your question. Typically, all issues are resolved at the time a divorce is finalized, including custody and parenting time, unless there is a specific reason why that cannot be accomplished, though that happens very infrequently. If your children reside in a different state than you... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: My husband sold an RV that was in my name without my knowledge I did not receive any money from it we're getting divorce

Can I get the money from the RV he sold? It was in my name. A golf cart was in my name too that he sold both I didn't receive any money. I also loaned him $45,000 which I haven't got any money for am I entitled to getting my $45,000 back the RV and the golf cart?

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Feb 14, 2023

Thank you for your inquiry. I am so sorry that you are going through this. Typically, during the course of a divorce, each party can be required to provide financial information and records going back several years, depending on the specifics of the matter, and specific documents can be requested... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: Do I need consent from my daughter’s biological father to change her last name? We live in Nj. No contact in 10yrs
Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Feb 16, 2023

Thank you for your question. It depends on the status of custody regarding your daughter. If her biological father continues to have joint legal custody, he should technically be consulted on any proposed name change and his consent should be obtained for same. If you have sole legal custody, there... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Support, Divorce and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: Live in Nj, divorced, kids 17,21,23. Judge just ordered me to cover kids on my health insurance till age 26. Legal?

Under 2016 consent order, I agreed to switch the kids from my ex’s work health insurance onto mine (save us both money). Judge just ordered me to cover the kids till age 26 (oldest child is 23 and is emancipated). No previous agreement is in place agreeing to cover kids beyond age 23. Is that... View More

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Feb 14, 2023

Thank you for your question. Under the law in New Jersey, the Court does have the ability to Order one parent or the other to provide insurance coverage for the children. Without knowing the specific details of your matter and the reasons for which the Court entered this specific order, it is... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: Hi, can I ask for extension to respond beyond the 35 days from the court for a divorce case ? I am based out of NJ.
Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Feb 14, 2023

Thank you for your question. You can ask for relief from the court. Whether the court will grant the relief requested depends on a variety of factors such as when were you served? Under what circumstances were you served? What was the reason for your delay in responding? Were there extenuating... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: I need to get an uncontested divorce. How do I go about that ?
Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Feb 6, 2023

Thank you for your question. I am sorry to hear you are going through this stressful time. Initiating a divorce proceeding whether contested or uncontested requires the filing of a complaint for divorce and other supporting documentation. Thereafter, a marital settlement agreement needs to be... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: My spouse was awarded the home and responsible for the mortgage until refinance. The

mortgage was in my name alone.

Is my equity determined by full payoff balance or the principal owed?

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Feb 8, 2023

Thank you for your question. The net equity of a home is generally calculated by taking market value (appraised and/or agreed upon value) minus the entire mortgage that is owed (full payoff). There are circumstances in which a party paying the principle may get a credit for such payments but... View More

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3 Answers | Asked in Domestic Violence and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: What can you do if a person files a false restraining order on you in New Jersey?

Once the word divorce came up she waited two weeks and as I'm working on our farm she tells me she is going to file a restraining order on me. That because I raised my voice in an argument she doesn't feel safe. When she filed she talked about a disagreement we had over 2 years ago and... View More

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Jan 19, 2023

Thank you for your question. If you have a temporary restraining order against you then it would be beneficial to speak with a family law attorney to discuss your rights and options for the Final Restraining Order hearing which is how the allegations against you are disposed of with the Court.

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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody and Child Support for New Jersey on
Q: My children and I moved here with their father for his work in June 2020. My children's father left and remarried

In jan 2022 ......I have been given a substantial job offer back in the state we had been living in prior to our mive to NJ which is 1.5 hrs from him. Can I take the children?We have a custody order he has visitation one week anight that I can not accommodate I've made suggestions and requests... View More

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Jan 12, 2023

Thank you for your question. If you don’t have the father’s consent to move, then you need a court order to grant you permission to move. You will need to file a motion but unfortunately it will not be heard in 6 weeks so unfortunately, you will need to speak to a matrimonial attorney to see if... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: Paternity

I signed the birth certificate for a child that I now believe it’s not mine. I found out during my relationship with his mother, that she was unfaithful. She is coming after me for child support, but I would like to establish paternity.

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Jan 6, 2023

Thank you for stating your concerns. Since she is coming after you for child support, I would recommend for you to file an application with the court seeking to establish paternity by way of DNA. The sooner you do this the sooner you will find out if this child is yours and depending on the... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce for New Jersey on
Q: my husband filed a complaint for divorce, now he wants to change his power of attorney Can he do this?
Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Nov 15, 2022

Thank you for your question. I am sorry to hear that you are going through this stressful time. Although your husband is seeking to change his Power of Attorney after filing for divorce, it is common to review one's Power of Attorney designation prior to filing a divorce complaint. Also, there... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce for New Jersey on
Q: I need help, but I have no money or food. My husband has been the sole provider for 19 years and now I have been cut of

He had cut me off since separating, even though we live in the same house(different rooms). We are going for divorce of bed and board and he is holding off. I need to file, because I need money to eat and do normal daily things. I’m now suffering from depression and have no energy from that... View More

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Nov 15, 2022

Thanks for your question. I am sorry your husband is treating you so horribly. You are entitled to support both pending the divorce and subsequent to the divorce due to the fact that your husband's income is so much higher than your own. Of course, if he does not do so voluntarily, you will... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: How can I get divorce?

I separated (not legal separation) and me and him living in 2 different states for 2 years now. I have 1 child that lives with me after custody case in court.

My ex doesn't accept uncontested divorce and he told me to go and file for divorce. and said after 2 years of separation that... View More

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Oct 18, 2022

Thank you so much for your inquiry. I am sorry that your spouse is not being cooperative with the process. It sounds as though the two of you have been in court previously, though, since you mention a custody order, so that Order will continue to stay in effect during and even subsequent to the... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Domestic Violence, Family Law, Child Custody and Child Support for New Jersey on
Q: i have a question. i have a 6 year never been married my sons father keeps verbal abusing me what can i do ?

he verbal abuses me and belittles me and my prenting just makes my life a living hell.. i dont think i can file for restraining order because he hasnt hit me but he does raise his voice whenever we argue i just feel like my backs against the wall and no one can help me

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Oct 18, 2022

Thank you for your question. I am so sorry that you are going through this. Domestic violence takes all forms, not just physical abuse – what you describe may fall under the categories of harassment, terroristic threats, or perhaps one of the other 19 criminal offenses included in the NJ... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody and Child Support for New Jersey on
Q: Mentally unfit co parent-what can I do?

I am in NJ. I have full legal and residential custody and my ex has supervised visitation twice a week. I have recently found out he has been getting money from, or

Not paying people by saying our daughter has cancer when she doesn’t. He doesn’t work, and has never paid for child... View More

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Oct 7, 2022

Thank you for your question. Generally, courts will facilitate a relationship between a child and both parents regardless of circumstances and of course putting measures in place to ensure the child’s safety which the court has done already. If there is further evidence that he is placing your... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Support for New Jersey on
Q: How can I ensure that the correct parenting worksheet is used when calculating child support

I want to make sure that the correct parenting worksheet is used (the shared parenting worksheet) when recalculating child support since the last time it was calculated, they only used the sole parenting worksheet but refused to provide a reason as to why. I have my child for 10 overnights per... View More

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Oct 5, 2022

Thank you for your question. You would need to insist with the other party and/or the court that the shared parenting worksheet should be utilized. Based upon the facts that you have detailed, it would appear that it would indeed be proper in your matter to utilize the shared parenting worksheet.

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce for New Jersey on
Q: Am going through a divorce and my wife took out a card which I was just a user and didnt sign anything. Am i responisbl

She is trying to make me pay for 1/2 of it when the charges arent mine but she says she used the card for the house. As a user I can not get the transactions through Chase as she will need to approve it.

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Sep 30, 2022

Thank you for your question. Without the benefit of the full circumstances surrounding your marital situation my opinion is that you are not legally responsible for charges made on an account which you did not sign for. Wife claims it was for the household, she should be required to prove it... View More

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4 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Domestic Violence for New Jersey on
Q: What are my options if part of a Final Judgement of Divorce is dropping an FRO and it has not been done yet?

Part of our Term Sheet we both legally signed states she is not longer fearful and would volunatarily drop the FRO. Per the Final Judgement of Divorce, it states "This matter will be dismissed after this judgement is entered." However, during the final hearing the Judge stated that she... View More

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Jul 13, 2022

Thank you for your question. It is unfortunate that your ex-wife is not following the instructions of the Judge in the divorce case. Since there is still an active Restraining Order you are prohibited from communicating directly with the other party. You may file an application with the Court... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: How do I file for interference with custody? Parental alienation

My child was moved to another state when there was a court order for joint custody in NJ. The other parent moved and did not contact or have an agreement with the other parent to move.

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Jul 8, 2022

Thank you for your question. I am sorry that you are going through this stressful time. In a situation like the one you describe, the other parent may be in violation of the NJ custody order. You may file an application with the Court that issued the joint custody order in NJ. If the out of state... View More

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