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The father took a paternity test. We have never lived together. His mother says that their family can help out in various ways--transportation, childcare, and so on. Does it make sense to see how that goes? Will it still be possible to file for child support later if this goodwill arrangement... View More
answered on Jun 13, 2024
Thank you for your question. Assuming that the father's paternity test was positive, you always have the right to seek child support from him for the benefit of the child, whether now or a few years from now. However, the longer that you go with accepting the goodwill of him and his family,... View More
I've not seen nor heard from him and would like to get a divorce and some alimony. I found out from our son he gave a credit card to my son's roommate, so I guess he can afford some alimony also. We were married in 1985.
answered on May 28, 2024
Thank you for your question. The fact that you have been separated since 1995 - app. 30 years and living in your own in my opinion we preclude you getting alimony.
The other issue is that a separation does not stop the clock on the marriage as only filing a divorce complaint would do that.... View More
He took half of my teachers pension in our divorce. His wages are already garnished. He is currently 20k behind with still 5 more years of child support to pay. When it comes to retirement at 55 (I am currently 45) and he still owes child support- will my pension still go to him or will it be... View More
answered on May 9, 2024
Thank you for your question. I am sorry that your ex is behind in child support. Yes, in most circumstances, private pensions (but not social security) can be garnished. However, it is not “automatic.” You will likely need to make an application to the Court to establish the garnishment. I... View More
I have joint custody of the children, but my adversary hasn't consulted me on any decisions since our divorce.
Without my input, she chose an expensive out-of-state school for our son. Recently, she filed a motion seeking me to cover all college and additional expenses. Do I stand a... View More
answered on Feb 6, 2024
Thank you for your question. I am sorry to hear you are going through this stressful time. In a situation like the one you describe, contesting such an issue is certainly possible but succeeding in same depends on a getting more parenting time could be possible, however this would be based upon a... View More
current custody schedule is one week on one week off. Both guardians live in the same state. One will relocate for a job out of state.
answered on Jan 8, 2024
Thank you for your question. As a general rule, a parent cannot move out of the state with a child unless both parties agree in writing or the parent is authorized to move out of the State by the Court. Relocation is a very fact-sensitive question and I highly recommend that you schedule a... View More
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answered on Jan 5, 2024
Thank you for your question. First, check with the payee and see if she is willing to agree to terminate via a signed consent order which needs to be sent into the court and probation. If not than the payor would have to file a motion with the court to terminate child support based on the law or... View More
My husband abuses alcohol (I would say alcoholic) while taking various prescription meds over the years. History of anger issues, infidelity, abuse. Physically with myself, and around the home. Breaking/throwing things. I have 1 police report of property destruction, but nothing for my physical... View More
answered on Nov 14, 2023
Thank you for your question. I am sorry to hear that you are going through this stressful time. In order to properly answer your question, it is important to understand what you mean when you say “argue for sole custody temporarily”. When addressing custody, there is legal custody and... View More
There was previously a no contact which we thought would go away after his probation ended but it did not. I had to call the police for an incident that occurred and he took a plea deal by accepting a stalking 3rd degree felony charge and along with it the judge gave a permanent no stalking order.... View More
answered on Jul 24, 2023
Thank you for your question about restraining orders. Your question is very fact specific, and more information is required in order to give a proper answer. It would also be helpful to review both the restraining order as well as the no-contact orders. There is a procedure by which you can as... View More
Assumed market value 10 years ago, but not specified in agreement.
answered on Jun 7, 2023
Thank you for the question. If you are selling the former marital home, you should look to the terms of your final settlement agreement or order of the court from the time of the divorce to determine how the net proceeds are divided. If you do not have a formal court order addressing this issue... View More
Other than the settlement at the time of the divorce and the pension is divided up does the husband have access to pension moneys earned after the divorce is finalized?
answered on Jun 7, 2023
Thank you for your question. Typically, assets acquired during the marriage are subject to equitable distribution and assets acquired either before the marriage or after the termination date of the marriage are not. There are, of course, circumstances in which there may be some entitlement, so I... View More
Not sure if possible
answered on May 19, 2023
Thank you for your question. The issues of parental alienation and difficulty with communication in a co-parenting relationship are very fact specific and require the use of an expert witness. You might want to speak with an attorney to discuss all of your rights and options to pursue a remedy on... View More
I have a contract for deed on the house. There is a mortgage on the house in her name only.
answered on Apr 19, 2023
Thank you for your question. There are many factors that the Court looks at in a divorce proceeding and how to divide the assets that were acquired during the marriage. Your daughter’s spouse can claim that the home is subject to equitable distribution and that it should be incorporated in the... View More
My ex filed a continuation of cs in New Jersey. Stating my daughter is in college. I was told she isn’t going to college anymore. Will she have to provide documents every semester for proof to the cs services or is it a one time deal and she is using the documents before my child quit.
answered on Mar 29, 2023
Thank you for your question. I am sorry your ex-wife is apparently being deceitful. You have to file an application (Notice of Motion) with the court asking that your child support be terminated due to the fact that your child is no longer in college. At that time, your ex then has to provide... View More
I don't know the DV laws very well. I am aware of restraining orders and possible monetary reparations. Is there anything else I can do?
answered on Mar 29, 2023
Thank you for your question. Domestic Violence is very serious in New Jersey. More facts of your case is required in order to provide you with any additional options. The analysis of available remedies to victims are fact dependent and must be carefully analyzed on a case-by-case basis. I strongly... View More
We have an agreement that says that both parents will consult each other about who is going to be around when the kids are in their custody, now she found out that I'm dating and is requesting to see my girlfriend otherwise she is not okay with the kids being around my girlfriend unless she... View More
answered on Mar 24, 2023
Thank you for your question. There is no legal basis for your former spouse to request a meeting with your new girlfriend. Parties are free to make private agreements with any provisions they desire. Based on the information you provided, you only agreed to consult each other regarding third... View More
I'm a pro se litigant and I'm suing family members. My first amended complaint was granted and I have started discovery sending interrogatories/production to them.
My advasaries instead of filing objections or answers to my interrogatories, went and filed a restraining order on... View More
answered on Mar 17, 2023
Thank you for your question regarding discovery. Your question did not indicate what type of lawsuit you have pending against your family. However, discovery is not filed with the court. The motion to compel is a good approach, you could also file a motion to dismiss their responsive pleading and... View More
My husband hid millions of dollars in our divorce and lied about the sale of the business, this caused my entire PSA to be thrown out. He then reported me as a 1099 employee of our business. He was making direct deposits from the business for family support but then reported me as a 1099 employee,... View More
answered on Mar 10, 2023
Thank you for your question about reopening your New Jersey divorce. In order to answer your question, the attorney would have to read your divorce agreement. The court in New Jersey usually enforces settlements between parties, however, in your case you believe there was fraud. Fraud could be... View More
why is the annuity taxed if it’s not being withdrawn?
answered on Mar 10, 2023
Thank you for your question. There is no "tax" on the annuity. What I believe you are referencing is that the "present value" of an annuity is worth less than what the annuity will ultimately pay. If you are treating assets that both have a "present value" such as bank... View More
Says my ex continues to provide insurance but the enhanced premium is split between us
answered on Feb 24, 2023
Thank you for the question. The interpretation of this issue should be based on the specific language of your settlement agreement. It is likely that the “enhanced premium” is considered a premium greater than the premium cost for the child’s coverage at the time of the divorce. Based on... View More
Their mother took them into a battered women's shelter, but I have custody of them.
answered on Feb 22, 2023
Thank you for your question. Additional information is required to provide you guidance in this matter. The attorney would need to review prior court orders and determine the appropriate next steps. If you are legally granted custody by way of court order and there are no subsequent orders, the... View More
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