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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce for New Jersey on
Q: Married March of 2021 separate a year later Division of crypto assets

I am currently residing in New Jersey. We were married in South Carolina. My spouse still resides in South Carolina. He was my financial support as I am disabled. He used my health against me. I am not able to work. He has crypto that was gained during our marriage. My question is when can I file... View More

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on May 31, 2022

Thank you for your question. You can file for divorce in New Jersey as long as you have been a resident of the state for at least one year. To the extent that your husband accumulated assets, including cryptocurrency, during the marriage, you would be entitled to an equitable share of these assets.... View More

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3 Answers | Asked in Divorce for New Jersey on
Q: We have been married 20+ years. Wife wants divorce. I don't. She wants me out of home I paid the most on down payment. W

What can I do. I don't want to get divorced but if I do can I recoup anything.

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on May 31, 2022

I am sorry to hear that you are going through this. Given the long term of your marriage, any assets acquired during the marriage would be subject to equitable distribution. That being said, there are a variety of factors that would be considered when determining how the marital home will be... View More

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5 Answers | Asked in Contracts, Divorce, Estate Planning and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: I am married and relocating to New Jersey. I plan to purchase a home in NJ...

I am married and relocating to NJ. I plan to purchase a home in NJ. I will be putting in approximately 90% of the funds to buy the home and my spouse only 10%. We're buying the home cash without a mortgage. Question 1: can we specify in the deed the respective ownership % of each party?... View More

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on May 31, 2022

Thank you for your inquiry. Generally speaking, any property acquired during the marriage is subject to equitable distribution regardless of the named parties on the title to property. That being said, I suggest scheduling a consult with an attorney to discuss your options in more detail such as a... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: I live in NJ and my daughter (13 years old) and I want to move to California. Is she old enough to decide for herself?

She doesn't have the best relationship with her father, but still goes to his house every other weekend despite not wanting to go. Can she change her visitation arrangement in a calm manner if she wants to move?

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on May 17, 2022

Thank you for your question. In NJ, a parent must obtain consent, from the other parent, or a Court Order to permanently remove a minor child outside of the state. In the event the matter proceeds to Court, a determination will be made as to what is in the child’s best interest. In review of the... View More

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3 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: I am in NJ. My ex doesn’t pay child support. If a lawyer filed a motion, can my ex Counter with request for more custody

I’ve been in contact with the state probation department about twice a month and he’s failed to give accurate employment and resident/contact information. He also didn’t come to our first hearing about enforcement via telephone but apparently

Nothing can really be done with Covid to... View More

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on May 16, 2022

Thank you for the question. It sounds like you need to file a motion for enforcement with the court and to address arrears and obtain accurate income information. The court are operating and should be able to address the motion you file in normal course, whether virtually or in person. He will... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: I filed for a default hearing for my divorce

It’s been over a month and it’s still not scheduled. I call the courts and they say they are just waiting. Is there anything I can do to speed the scheduling up?

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on May 16, 2022

Thank you for the question. Once you file for default, the court should schedule the matter for a Default Hearing. You will need to file a proposed Judgement of Divorce outlining your requested relief (ie: related to custody, parenting time, support and equitable distribution) with any supporting... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce for New Jersey on
Q: I am thinking about divorce. Should I pay off my $14,000 car loan to reduce the amount of money that will be split?

I live in New Jersey, a equatable distribution state. Married for 5 years. We don't have children or own a house. Our finance were separate for the most part but I do pay most of our bills including rent, utilities and meals, because my spouse works only part time and do not make enough. I... View More

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on May 3, 2022

Thank you for your question. It is difficult to give you a definitive answer without obtaining additional facts. There are many factors to the equitable distribution statute and without having full financial disclosure, a firm answer is not possible. It would be best to contact an experienced... View More

3 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: In NJ when paying alimony to a ex can the person doing the paying alimony be effected if they live with someone else?

In NJ when paying alimony to a ex their is the cohabitation clause that states the alimony you are paying can be reduced if the ex receiving the alimony lives with or cohabitates with a new partner. My question is can the alimony be effected by the person paying living with a new partner, it does... View More

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on May 3, 2022

Thank you for your question. Cohabitation is a basis to terminate or suspend alimony. There are however various factors of the stature. Therefore additional facts are necessary to better guide you. Based on your circumstances, it would be best to contact an experienced family law attorney to... View More

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3 Answers | Asked in Domestic Violence and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: Family court domestic violence domestic abuse custody: is there a motion in it that can be filed in court

Is there a motion that can be filed in the family court that would allow a mother and three minor children that are currently in a domestic violence shelter to stay with family or friends temporarily in another state jurisdiction until custody and Court proceedings are decided by a judge?

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Apr 25, 2022

Thank you for your question about custody and parenting time in cases where domestic violence exists. I am sorry you are going through this difficulty time. Your inquiry is fact specific. In order to answer your question, it is important to know if there is currently a temporary or final... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce, Family Law and Child Custody for New Jersey on
Q: NJ, I filed a motion to modify parenting time. We had a oral argument back in January 2022. It's April still no decision

I filed a motion in NJ to modify parenting time. We had a oral argument back in January 2022. It's April still no decision... How long does judge has to rule on the motion? is there a time frame? If not, based on modification child can be enrolled in school district by my residence (Pre-K),... View More

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Apr 18, 2022

Thank you for your inquiry. Unfortunately, there is no “set timeframe” for when a Judge renders a decision after oral argument. A lot of factors can affect the timeframe for an Order based on the specifics of your matter and the timeframe generally fluctuates by each Judge. In regards to... View More

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4 Answers | Asked in Divorce for New Jersey on
Q: How does one go about getting a divorced spouse to uphold his part of divorce decree, when he is in contempt?

Is there a way without an attorney and additional fees?

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Apr 12, 2022

Thank you for your question about enforcing the term of your divorce. In order to enforce your divorce decree, you would need to file a motion with the court to hold your ex-spouse in violation of litigant’s rights and compel them to comply with the provisions. It must be filed with the court... View More

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3 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: need to modify divorce decree and we both are in agreement. she was granted half my pension but now doesnt want it
Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Apr 12, 2022

Thank you for your question about modifying your Judgment of Divorce. You indicated that your ex-wife no longer wants her share of your pension. I am sure that is great news. I assume when you say divorce decree you mean a Settlement Agreement. In order to modify the terms, you would need a... View More

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3 Answers | Asked in Divorce for New Jersey on
Q: My wife is planning to leave the country for good with out giving me divorce. How do I get divorce?

My wife is planning to leave the country for good with out giving me divorce. I still have time to serve her divorce papers. If she leaves the country and never returns after I serve the papers, will the court grant me divorce in her absence?

I have 3 kids, and we own a house. She... View More

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Apr 6, 2022

Thank you for your question. If you are a resident of New Jersey, you can file the Complaint for Divorce and serve her while she is still here. If she does not respond or cooperate in the proceeding, the Court can still grant you the divorce. As long as you continue to live in the State, the... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: Ex. will take a lump sum payment and forgive the remaining amount due on child support arrears. Legal way to do this

None of the arrears are owe to the state

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Mar 30, 2022

Thank you for your question. Generally, if there is an existing court order for child support, whether or not it is paid through child support probation, you should prepare and file a consent order with the court that established the child support obligation so that there is a proper record of the... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for New Jersey on
Q: Can the court make you take classes over one incident between the parents?

Parents had an argument mother had a few drinks mother was arrested now we are bad Parents?

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Mar 25, 2022

Thank you for your question. I am sorry the Court is being involved. Yes, a Court can compel you to take classes in that a refusal to do so can lead to the Court removing the children from the home. You should immediately consult with a Family law attorney to recognize and protect your rights... View More

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3 Answers | Asked in Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: How valid is a verbal agreement?

Got a property on a deal and put title on my ex wife name while we were still living together.Did almost all renovations and maintenance for 15 yrs.Deal with her was that after refinancing mortgage into her name she would add me to title.She agreed.She claims recently that the property belongs to... View More

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Mar 21, 2022

Thank you for your question. I’m sorry to hear of this situation. Generally speaking, verbal agreements are enforceable, but when property such as land or houses are involved, it’s always better to have a written agreement. In fact, in some circumstances the Statute of Frauds requires a... View More

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3 Answers | Asked in Child Support for New Jersey on
Q: My daughter is away to college in Tampa, mom lives in NY. I live in NJ, still paying child support, can I contest

My daughter just turn 19

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Mar 18, 2022

Thank you for your question. I am sorry you are having child support issues. If you were divorced in NJ then NJ law still applies and your daughter, because she is in college, is NOT emancipated. Therefore you have a continuing child support obligation. However, it is not "all or... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Child Support for New Jersey on
Q: My child support and the case is closed but I still have a judgement with a zero balance. My ex wife is deceased.

My child support case is closed but I still have a child support judgement with a zero balance. My ex wife passed away in 2017 but she does not have an administrator of estate so I can’t serve my motion to anyone to get rid of the child support judgement. If I put in a motion with the proof will... View More

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Mar 16, 2022

Thank you for your question. I am sorry that you are still having issues with child support. File your Motion and at the very beginning of the Certification (the document you file along with your Certification explaining why you are entitled to the relief you seek), explain how there is no party... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody, Child Support and Domestic Violence for New Jersey on
Q: My ex boyfriend has completely blocked me of all communication with my daughter for one year.

I have reached out to him every single weekend for one year in hopes of solving this dispute amicably, but to no avail. He has also ignored all messages and calls from my family as well. There is no court order in place to keep me from seeing her but he is concealing her. He has bow hired his own... View More

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Mar 4, 2022

Thank you for your question. I’m sorry to hear you’re going through this. You should strongly consider filing an application with court to establish a parenting time schedule. If he has already filed an application for child support, then you should file a parenting time application under... View More

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3 Answers | Asked in Divorce for New Jersey on
Q: can you get divorced in NJ if living in FL

my step daughter married non citizen that cheated on her was not in love with him like she was with him, they have restraining orders on each other because he is a horrible person, hit her, has had 2 kids with other women, used her, my step daughter has not had help from her mom to do anything... View More

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Feb 28, 2022

Thank you for your question. Typically, you need to be a resident of the State of New Jersey for at least one year in order to be able to file a Complaint for Divorce in New Jersey. If your stepdaughter is living in Florida, she would not be able to satisfy this residency requirement. She may,... View More

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