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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce for California on
Q: How can I find out if I was my ex husbands beneficiary?

MY husband and I were legally divorsed in 6/2003 we were married for 11 yrs, He died in a motorcycld accident in 12/2006, in the "Divorce" I recieved half of his pension, he never wanted to do the QDRO because he did not want to pay for it. Anyway, I took care of it and it has been so... View More

Mr. David Thomas Pisarra
Mr. David Thomas Pisarra
answered on Jan 26, 2011

You should send a certified copy of the death certificate and the judgment to the Pension, along with a cover letter asking if you are listed as the beneficiary. You should be notified then.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for California on
Q: How can I find low-cost legal assistance to help modify my current child support order?

Ex-husband is unemployed as a civilian but is a Lieutenant Colonel in the Army Reserves and has numerous lengthy training events recent & upcoming. He will also be deployed again later this year (unknown duration). Our children are with me 100% when he is gone; current orders are modeled around... View More

Mr. David Thomas Pisarra
Mr. David Thomas Pisarra
answered on Jan 26, 2011

Go to your local courthouse and ask for the Self-Help desk. Most courts have one, and they can help you fill out the paperwork.

There are also several legal aid offices such as Levitt and Quinn that can help you.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for California on
Q: Is the husband obligated to take care of his wife if they are legally separated only, not divorced
Mr. David Thomas Pisarra
Mr. David Thomas Pisarra
answered on Jan 26, 2011

Well, it depends on where you are in the process, how long you were married, are you working, can you work? does he work? Can he work?

Please call my office and we can discuss it further.

5 Answers | Asked in Family Law for California on
Q: Where can i locate directions for a emergency support order from dad to mom for child, in la county

Dad has not provided any financial assistance since he abandoned mom and child in 2007. mom (me) just got notice from edd benefits are cut effective today. dad is enginear for hmh inc. makes over 3,500 a month

Mr. David Thomas Pisarra
Mr. David Thomas Pisarra
answered on Jan 26, 2011

You can file an Ex Parte Order to Show Cause asking for a shortened time period to get to court quicker. The forms are a basic OSC re: Support, just as an ex parte, you need to give notice to the ex.

My firm handles OSCs regularly and we can help you.

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3 Answers | Asked in Divorce for California on
Q: I filed a petition for devorce, and i don't meet the 3 months residency from the county where i filed it, can i refiled

I just moved from another county in CA. Can i refiled my petition for devorce after i mneet the 3 months residency?

Mr. David Thomas Pisarra
Mr. David Thomas Pisarra
answered on Jan 26, 2011

Once you meet the residency requirements of the county you live in, you can file again.

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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law for California on
Q: How do I find a pro-bono attorney for family law trial Feb 09??

I've had custody 7.5 years, mediator said moving my sons is not in their best interest. My ex remarried 1.5 years ago, now he wants custody. There has not been a complaint prior to this. I am a professional; high school teacher, but have serious financial issues. I have done well in court... View More

Mr. David Thomas Pisarra
Mr. David Thomas Pisarra
answered on Jan 28, 2011

The other way to find a pro-bono attorney is to find a Family Law attorney who is in the process of becoming Certified as a Family Law Specialist. If you call the larger firms they may have an attorney who is looking for the trial experience they need to qualify.

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1 Answer | Asked in Child Support for California on
Q: Can I reduce support of my adult autistic child whose mom refuses to place her in programs to help her be independent?

I have been supporting my daughter, 24, who is capable of becoming independent. Her mom prefers her to live with her indefinitely, enabling my daughter to remain dependent. I reduced support because of this and I'm being sued by my ex. Must I challenge my ex's conservatorship?

Mr. David Thomas Pisarra
Mr. David Thomas Pisarra
answered on Jan 24, 2011

Tough but good questions. I'd say yes you need to challenge the mother on this one. It might be beneficial to the court to have an independent evaluation done on your daughter and her ability to become self-sufficient.

California Evidence Code Section 730 allows the court to order an...
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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for California on
Q: Are there any additional forms that need to be filed with the FL-620?
Mr. David Thomas Pisarra
Mr. David Thomas Pisarra
answered on Jan 20, 2011

Default judgments require a great many papers be filed, and that they all be filled out correctly. You should be able to get a Default Judgment package of information from the clerk of the court, or the department that you are in on how and what to file.

If you cannot get the information...
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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for California on
Q: Can i be charged with violating a restraining order if i wasnt served officially
Mr. David Thomas Pisarra
Mr. David Thomas Pisarra
answered on Jan 20, 2011

Technically no.

However, proving that you were not served can be difficult sometimes. If you are aware that there is a restraining order against you, be very careful. It's bad enough that it was issued, don't make it worse by violating it.

Restraining orders are used to keep...
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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for California on
Q: My husband has a son that is a result of a sperm donation. He wants to have this child age 17 live with us now.

The boys mother has agreed that my husband can take him with us to another state as she can no longer handle him and wants him to have a better life. She has given my husband a handwritten notorized letter stating that she is acknowledging that my husband is the biolgical father and she gives him... View More

Mr. David Thomas Pisarra
Mr. David Thomas Pisarra
answered on Jan 19, 2011

I suggest you file a Paternity action on behalf of the father, and if the mother agrees, then you can file a Response, and/or a stipulated judgement of paternity which would make your husband the father, and a court could then make orders as part of the Stipulated Judgement allowing the father to... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for California on
Q: Is there a way to change, full physical custody, to joint custody? If the papers have not been sent?

My childrens father will be released in less than A month, I filed full legal and physical custody of both our children. But have not sent out the papers to serve him. So he has no idea, what I am trying to do. Is there any way I am able to change the physical custody to joint? Without the father... View More

Mr. David Thomas Pisarra
Mr. David Thomas Pisarra
answered on Jan 19, 2011

Yes, you can file amended papers to change it to the way that you want it. BUT, what is he being released from? You may want to discuss this with an experienced Family Law Attorney. Even in you have Sole Legal and Sole Physical custody, you can arrange for him to have visitation.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for California on
Q: Can i have custody or visitations with my children
Mr. David Thomas Pisarra
Mr. David Thomas Pisarra
answered on Jan 18, 2011

This is actually a very large question. I would have to know if it was taken away, or suspended, for a period of time. What are the facts of the case? are you on the birth certificate? was there a history of domestic violence? Many things can affect child custody and visitation.

Please check...
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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for California on
Q: Does the biological mother always win petition to terminate guardianship?
Mr. David Thomas Pisarra
Mr. David Thomas Pisarra
answered on Jan 18, 2011

I'm not sure what you're asking for, a guardianship is usually filed by someone who is concerned that the protected child is at risk. So, the biological mother does not always win if it is proven that she is incapable of being a good parent.

2 Answers | Asked in Family Law for California on
Q: Should I ask the courts to push the child support case with ex-husband when he's not paid child support over 4 yrs now?
Mr. David Thomas Pisarra
Mr. David Thomas Pisarra
answered on Jan 28, 2011

Yes, fathers need to suppor their children to the best of their abilities. Is he using the visitation that he has? if not, why not? As much as you need the money, the focus SHOULD be on the child and the relationship that dad has with the child.

That's why I wrote, A MAN'S GUIDE TO...
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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for New Mexico on
Q: Can I request a different Judge in my custody case if feel that he is not being fair and impartial?
Mr. David Thomas Pisarra
Mr. David Thomas Pisarra
answered on Jan 18, 2011

Parties to a case have a right to a fair and impartial judge - if you have reason to believe this judge wont be fair you have a right to request a change. However, usually it must be done within a very short time frame FROM THE BEGINNING of the case. In most cases it is under a month to... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for Colorado on
Q: Can my ex take away custody of my daughter based on the fact that i now have a lower income?

I recently lost my job and am now working part time. Child support is regularly taken out of my pay check however the extras such as my half of her school payments i am having a hard time paying on time. Baed on this my ex says i'm a negligent father and is taking me to court for full custody.... View More

Mr. David Thomas Pisarra
Mr. David Thomas Pisarra
answered on Jan 18, 2011

I hate it when one parent says the other parent is negligent simply because they don't make enough money - that is a cheap shot and usually wrong.

Child support and Child Custody are usually separated. You cannot lose your right to be a parent because you don't make enough...
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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for West Virginia on
Q: If a parent obtains full custody of a child but spends little to no time with the child, can said custody be revoked?
Mr. David Thomas Pisarra
Mr. David Thomas Pisarra
answered on Jan 18, 2011

There are two types of custody, Legal and Physical. Legal custody is the right to know medical care and school decisions. Physical Custody is when the child is in your presence and home.

I assume you are speaking of Physical Custody and they are now sending the child to you or another adult...
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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for California on
Q: My exwife moved to across the country and took my son. Where do I go for help?

My son has lived with me for almost 6 years in California. He attended Elementary, Middle and High School with me. This summer he went to visit his mom. He had a scheduled return flight but she never returned him and now they both live in Atlanta. I have not seen him since May or spoken to him... View More

Mr. David Thomas Pisarra
Mr. David Thomas Pisarra
answered on Jan 18, 2011

You need to get to court IMMEDIATELY. You have what is called an interstate case. This case is complex because you have three states involved, and I need to speak with you to give you specific information.

The general rule is that Move-Away cases require at least a hearing, if the parties...
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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for California on
Q: How can I transfer my case from Yuma Az to visalia ca
Mr. David Thomas Pisarra
Mr. David Thomas Pisarra
answered on Jan 18, 2011

Cases can be transferred in two ways. 1) you can ask the Yuma court to send the case to California, in the county where you live and 2) you can open a case in California and then ask the California court to take jurisdiction under the Uniform Child Custody and Jurisdiction Enforcement Act (UCCJEA)... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for California on
Q: What type of visitation would absent parent's get for 20month old he has never seen. Moved to Texas when she was 1 month
Mr. David Thomas Pisarra
Mr. David Thomas Pisarra
answered on Jan 18, 2011

It would depend on several factors, has he moved back? What is he seeking as visitation?

If he is still in Texas, he'll get nothing unless he asks a court to order some visitation and can make travel arrangements for either himself, or the baby to travel with a guardian like...
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