Can I file contempt of court if I have not been removed from the loan if I requested that I be removed from it in the divorce decree

This depends on what the decree says, not just what you requested. IF the decree requires him to get you removed, it may be contempt IF he has the ability to do so. However, most lenders will not remove a co-signer unless the loan is refinanced.

This depends on what the finances are. You may be eligible for maintenance (alimony) and property division of all existing property. You should get a lawyer to help you with this.
The house is under my name only.

The equity that existed in the house at the time of marriage is your separate property. However, any increase in that equity that occurred during the marriage is marital property, subject to an equitable distribution by the court. Equitable means fair, not necessarily equal. You should get a lawyer... Read more »
I know he went back to Michigan and I know the general area he probably is staying but I don't know for sure where in Michigan he is. He probably also won't sign the papers even if I can track him down to serve him. He said he wouldn't let me divorce him but does he really have a... Read more »

First, you have to make reasonable efforts to locate him. If you still cannot locate him, you can request the court permit service by publication. You should get a lawyer to help you with this.
My wages were being garnished for back child support/maintenance and the checks were going directly to my ex and not through an agency.
I thought when I didn't owe any more money the garnishments would automatically stop. After a year of overpaying ($10,000) what can I do to get this... Read more »

You may need to file a motion to terminate the garnishment. You can also file a motion to have her repay the overpayment. You should get a lawyer for this.
we have no shared bank accounts or assets; we have a 2 year old daughter together so I am interested in what I should be getting for child support or maintenance.

Child support is usually determined by the child support guidelines. These guidelines take into consideration the respective parenting time, each party's income, and certain expenses related to the child such as work related child care etc. Maintenance (spousal support) is determined by the... Read more »

He does not have any parental rights absent a court determination that he should have them. It is sometimes possible for a non-parent to obtain parental rights if doing so appears to be in the best interests of the children.

I would not be concerned with being considered as "abandoning the marriage". That concept does not have any relevance in a "no-fault' case. However, it may be useful to have a written agreement re finances during the separation. You should get a lawyer to help you.
Ex husband is named in a trust that is getting the money from relatives. Has not paid any child support.

If you can not proceed directly against the trust (I'm not sure about that), you can still cite him for contempt. The judge will consider his potential disbursements from the trust as a factor in determining his ability to comply with the existing order. You should get a lawyer to help you... Read more »

They are asking the court to reduce the normal time for filing responses/replies. This can be done if there is an urgent situation that needs to be addressed by the court.
We want to divorce, 16yr daughter wants to stay with dad. We live in Colorado springs. All debts and credits in both our names, if we sell the house, she can have all profit. Will I still have to pay her alimony since she doesn't have a tax paying job? Is she entitled to my 401 from my job.

Assuming you have the higher income, alimony is likely. Your 401k and the house are marital property, subject to an equitable division. You should get a lawyer to help you with this.
We signed a lease together in Boulder, CO while separated. We decided to terminate our lease early while separated and before the divorce judgment was filed in California. We each paid half of the early termination fee. His CA Attorney is claiming that since we were separated, the money my ex... Read more »

I do not see this as "spousal support". It may depend on the exact wording of your order for support. You should consult with a lawyer about this.
She wants to turn herself in with her lawyer but wants me to pick the daughter up before she does that so she's with someone safe. What should I do to make sure I have guardianship of her for school, medical and other things?

Colorado has an informal guardianship procedure whereby a parent can delegate parental control over a minor for a 1 year(?) period. This involves signing a simple form. See if NM has a similar procedure.
Not in the picture. Can I go pick the daughter up and take custody of her?

No, you have no basis at this time. You could consider bring an case in NM, depending on their laws. However, I doubt there is a basis. Perhaps the mother will consent to her daughter being with you.
I've been going through a custody case where my daughter's mom is using my current moment of unemployment due to unforeseen back surgery. Her and her attorney have made false accusations, one after another and having a super biased magistrate and no representation, they have succeeded in... Read more »

At this point, you may need to retain your lawyer privately, not through Legal Aid. They are not really set up to help everyone who needs it.
The mother has more financial help from her husband and to top it off gets a substantial amount of money from tax returns (has 3 kids) she took off with my daughter(4yrs old) to Ohio for 3yrs and just recently married and moved to Iowa. My daughter was born in south dakota and when the mom left I... Read more »

IS THERE AN EXISTING ORDER RE PARETING TIME? IF SO, YOU SHOULD SEEK TO ENFORCE IT. IT MAY NEED TO BE MODIFIED IF THE DISTANCE MAKES IT IMPRACTIBLE TO FOLLOW. GIVEN YOUR DAUGHTER'S AGE, IT IS LIKELY ANY VISITATION WILL BE WHERE SHE LIVES-SO YOU MAY NEED TO GO THERE FOR THE VISITS.
IF... Read more »

Your response should explain why the current parenting time order is in the best interest of the child(ren). It should refute the factual allegations contained in the motion. You should get a lawyer to help you with this.

It depends. Overtime is not considered EXCEPT if required by your employer (mandatory overtime), or if so substantial that it is appropriate to consider it. You should get a lawyer to help you with this.
My ex has listed his college tuition contribution to our emancipated children under "Children's Expenses - tuition" on his Sworn Financial Statement. I thought Children's Expenses was referring to those kids that are subject to our child support negotiation, not our adult... Read more »

I think it is ok to list this on the SFS, just like you list your rent/mortgage. However, it should not be part of the actual child support calculation.
My son is almost 9 and my son's father hasn't had contact with him much over his life. We split up before he was born, he's not listed on his birth certificate, however there was a dna test done when he was about 5 months old by social services to prove relationship for child support... Read more »

Based on this, you may be able to have your husband adopt your son. He will have to prove abandonment/non support by the bio-father. He should get a lawyer for this.
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