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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for New York on
Q: Will my ex be violating our divorce agreement by cashing out our son's 529 college fund?

My ex is threatening to deplete our son's 529 college fund as he is the account holder. Our divorce agreement states that we are responsible to split the cost of college 50/50 up to a SUNY tuition. The agreement mentions that "the parties agree that they have a college fund for their... View More

Lawrence Allen Weinreich
Lawrence Allen Weinreich
answered on Nov 10, 2021

The answer depends on whether or not the 529 plan was part of the "college fund" that you mention in your question. If it was part of the agreement, your ex will be responsible for 12.5% of the college fund PLUS his 50% of the tuition each year if he depletes the account.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for New York on
Q: So in new york does a spouse have rights to elective share of a home that was quit claim deeded once wife passes

My stepdad quitclaimed deeded home to my mom now he wants an elective share of 1/3. Of the home.as spousal rights after death is he legally entitled

Howard E. Knispel
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Howard E. Knispel
answered on Nov 8, 2021

A right of election gives a spouse a right to disregard a will provision and receive a share of the estate of a deceased spouse as if there was no will. This prevents a spouse from not providing for their legal spouse in a will.

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Q: The judgement for my uncontested divorce was served on my ex-spouse by certified mail but it’s now being returned.

She was not home to receive the judgement so it was brought to the post office for pickup. I sent my ex the tracking number so it could be picked up, reminded her a few times to go get it, but she never followed through. Now it’s being “returned to sender”. Do I need to make another attempt... View More

Peter Christopher Lomtevas
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answered on Nov 1, 2021

We really don't know. A defendant's address is a crucial component of any divorce. If the address is incorrect, the defendant can return to court to move to vacate the judgment for non-service of the pleadings. If mail is being "returned" now, the asker better see a lawyer with... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Landlord - Tenant for New York on
Q: I would like to know how to go about an eviction for my adult daughter and her family being that I’m getting divorced?

She lives there with her two kids and her boyfriend. She stopped paying rent to save up to move out but I would like to get her out before the year is up or my divorce is final

Howard E. Knispel
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Howard E. Knispel
answered on Oct 24, 2021

The method depends on whether she is considered a "tenant". Does she have a lease? Does she pay rent. If she is a tenant you can evict her from your home in LLT court. If not she is a licensee and you need to file an action for ejectment in Supreme Court.

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Q: My ex. asked me not to ask for alimony and he would give me 600. a month so far nothing. We've been divorced since 2012.

He is also mentally abusive to both myself and our son who has a brain tumor.

Howard E. Knispel
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Howard E. Knispel
answered on Oct 22, 2021

Is that agreement in your divorce stipulation? If so you can file a contempt proceeding. If it is not in your divorce stipulation you may not be entitled to anything. Talk to a lawyer.

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Child Support and Domestic Violence for New York on
Q: Where can I find a pro bono attorney to assist me until the divorce settlement is reached and assets are liquidated?

My husband, swiftly and unbeknownst to me, depleted all accounts, cancelled joint credit cards & took possession of joint assets then served me with a divorce action/automatic orders. He has stifled me financially and has since ceased all financial support for myself and our 18 year old... View More

Lawrence Allen Weinreich
Lawrence Allen Weinreich
answered on Oct 4, 2021

Since the divorce has already started you can't file for support in family court. You should speak to an attorney about his making a motion for counsel fees to represent you as the court will grant your attorney fees to represent you if your husband had the means to make payment. At the same... View More

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Q: Can a QDRO be drafted and signed by a judge with just a separation agreement vs a divorce in NYS

This would be for a NYS Pension

Lawrence Allen Weinreich
Lawrence Allen Weinreich
answered on Sep 14, 2021

If a properly drafter QDRO is presented to a judge and there is no objection, the judge will sign it. As for the drafting of the QDRO, if the separation agreement is clear on how the retirement assets are to be divided then a QDRO can be drafted.

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Q: If a father signs birth certificate and the child isn’t his can he still be made to pay support.

Thought the child was mine and found out a year later she wasn’t mine but i still Took care of her

Lawrence Allen Weinreich
Lawrence Allen Weinreich
answered on Sep 9, 2021

It is difficult to answer your question as you say you signed a "birth certificate." If it was a birth certificate then more facts are necessary. If however you signed an "acknowledgment of Paternity," then under the law you are the "father" of the child and will... View More

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Q: I want to know if I am divorced? Because I have papers they saved me.
Lawrence Allen Weinreich
Lawrence Allen Weinreich
answered on Sep 9, 2021

If you were served with a Judgment of Divorce that is signed by a Judge, then you are divorced. If you received any other papers then you are not divorced. Take the papers to an attorney and ask them to explain what it is you received.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Divorce for New York on
Q: 50% custody - who is paying for child support?

Our child will be living with me in NYC since she’s enrolled in a NYC public school. Our child would spend all weekends with her mom outside of NYC. My spouse wants a 50% custody. My spouse is the lower earning parent. While our child will spend 65% of her time with me and 35% of her time with... View More

Howard E. Knispel
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Howard E. Knispel
answered on Sep 3, 2021

In a 50/50 custody case, the higher earning spouse pays child support based on the Child support standard act as if he/she does not have custody.

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Q: How can I limit overspending from my spouse as I already filled for a divorce summons?

My lawyer submitted the Action for Divorce Summons mid June 2021. We still have a joint bank account and my spouse has her own account for her LLC.

Since our separation my spouse spend twice more money as I do. Our expenses are higher than our income. While the summons for divorce has been... View More

Lawrence Allen Weinreich
Lawrence Allen Weinreich
answered on Aug 16, 2021

These are all questions that should be discussed with your attorney as you retained one. Beyond that, the only thing that can be said is that if the expenditures were frivolous you may be owed a credit in the divorce.

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Q: How can I re-enroll our child to her previous high school without my spouse consent?

Our child was enrolled in a public highschool in the city I work/live but my spouse enrolled our child in her village (another county) during the pandemic. Our child wants to be re-enrolled in her previous highschool but my spouse is strongly opposed. We are running out of time since schools starts... View More

Lawrence Allen Weinreich
Lawrence Allen Weinreich
answered on Aug 16, 2021

The parent who has custody makes the decision. Your only other option is to go to court to get a court order.

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2 Answers | Asked in Real Estate Law, Divorce and Family Law for New York on
Q: Can I sell my half of a house co-owned with my ex-wire? We are both on the mortgage.

Ex-wife makes payments out of alimony as per divorce agreement. She needs to buy me out or sell the house in about3 years. When the house is sold we split the profits. Can I sell my half to someone else? We are both on the mortgage.

Howard E. Knispel
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Howard E. Knispel
answered on Jul 26, 2021

If you and your ex own the house as husband and wife then no. You would need to start a partition action. You could make an agreement with a third party for them to receive the proceeds, but your name is still on the deed and would need to sign the transfer documents. In a partition action you... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce for New York on
Q: I was served a summons with notice in NY for a divorce. I missed deadline of 20 days thinking it was 30. What can I do?
Howard E. Knispel
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Howard E. Knispel
answered on Jul 22, 2021

Likely the other side has not filed for default yet. You can still file an appearance without a problem if you hurry. Even if they file for default, the courts are reluctant to give defaults in divorce cases.

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Q: Question about Family law. My wife and currently overseas and getting divorced. Can my wife file for divorce in the us?

Question about Family law. My wife and currently overseas and getting divorced. Can my wife file for another divorce in the us after the divorce is granted in another country?

David Ivan Bliven
David Ivan Bliven
answered on Aug 7, 2021

Yes - sometimes people simply want the safety of having a divorce judgment issued by NY - especially if they were married here. Likewise, if the foreign court did not have proper jurisdiction and/or it did not reach certain issues between the two of you (e.g., asset/property distribution), then it... View More

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4 Answers | Asked in Divorce for New York on
Q: Hi - If I have residency FL but own property with husband in MA and now live in NY as he abandoned me - where divorce?

He is a German/US citizen and receives pension and SS both countries and has left me with no money, car, support, etc.

Michael J Stachowski
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answered on Jul 11, 2021

This is both a conflict of laws and jurisdictional question. You must look at residency. Florida seems to be the obvious. For New York you must have residency for more than one year. It’s residency in a jurisdiction which give rise to jurisdiction over the marriage. In New York you have... View More

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Q: Do I have to pay for dental care I provided as per my divorce agreement after I retire?

My divorce agreement states I will provide dental care to my ex and the child. I have done so for 40 years, and also to her new husband, their daughter, and now her husband. Now she wants me to pay for her care since I am retired. The agreement only states I will provide dental care for her and the... View More

Lawrence Allen Weinreich
Lawrence Allen Weinreich
answered on Jul 7, 2021

The answer depends on your agreement. Usually, there is a cut off time for most coverage. For children the cut off is usually the age of 21 or graduation from college. For a spouse, there is usually a time limit (i.e. 20 years, or retirement, etc.). You should review your agreement to see what... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce for New York on
Q: Hello, is there a site that would specifically instruct me on how to fill out ny divorce papers?

It is uncontested.

Tim Akpinar
Tim Akpinar
answered on Jun 23, 2021

Your question is best suited for the experienced divorce attorneys here. But your post remains open for two weeks. Until you're able to reach out to an attorney who is knowledgeable in this area, here is a link to the New York State Unified Court System's divorce resources:... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Child Support and Divorce for New York on
Q: My spouse refuses to abide by our divorce agreement and pay for what he agreed to pay, what court or recourse do I have.
Lawrence Allen Weinreich
Lawrence Allen Weinreich
answered on Jun 16, 2021

You can file a violation of support petition in Family Court for spousal and child support or you can file a motion for contempt in Supreme Court.

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce for New York on
Q: Is there pro bono or reduced rates for inmates filing for divorce. I am a federal prisoner home release in New York.
Lawrence Allen Weinreich
Lawrence Allen Weinreich
answered on Jun 7, 2021

You can contact the local bar association for recommendations to reduced fee attorneys or a list of pro bono providers in your area. If there is an issue of custody or visitation, you can file and serve a summons and then file an RJI (request for judicial intervention) and ask the court to... View More

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