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Q: I had a Pende lite with an Order to Show Cause granted by the Supreme Court Judge overseeing my divorce.

The court date the Judge gave is July 12. One of the emergency conditions was having my husband pay my legal fees. The others were Temporary Maintenance for me and my son. I am in a terrible position as a was never granted any form of financial relief or any other assistance from the old judge and... View More

Lawrence Allen Weinreich
Lawrence Allen Weinreich
answered on May 27, 2021

It sounds as if a motion for pendete lite relief was filed. What that means is that you are asking for all of those things but they have not yet been granted. Unfortunately, the courts are still working on limited schedules due to the pandemic so you will have to wait until July to see what... View More

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Q: I’m on the verge of divorce

My wife has had 2 affairs she emotionally and verbally is abusive to my oldest child 13 makes threats to keep her from seeing me on visits when she don’t get what she wants, we have 2 kids she is trying to take from me she has anger issues and control issues we been married 21/2 years what should... View More

Howard E. Knispel
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Howard E. Knispel
answered on May 19, 2021

You should file for custody in Family Court if you too are separated. Otherwise you need to file for divorce with an immediate Pendente Lite motion. Talk to a lawyer.

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Q: My wife and I are splitting up. She says she's throwing me out, I say I was leaving.

I am staying with my parents. Can I go rent my own apartment? Can I remove my own personal property from our apartment to take to my new place? Things that were mine before we were married?

Lawrence Allen Weinreich
Lawrence Allen Weinreich
answered on May 13, 2021

You may remove whatever you want but just be aware that if your wife calls the police they will tell you that you have to leave it and work out who gets what in the divorce.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Civil Rights for New York on
Q: my car is registered to my ex boyfriend is there any possible way I can get it back?

he's threatening to take it from me but I bought it

Carmen M. Rodriguez
Carmen M. Rodriguez
answered on May 12, 2021

I am sorry you are going through this.

Here are a few thoughts, and it is not intended to be an exhaustive list of considerations:

Do you have any receipts or proof of payment(s)?

Are you still paying for the car?

Why did you register it in his name?

Did...
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Q: Is PR considered the home state if I’ve been living in NY for 14 months and my wife and kids just moved to FL 2/17/21?

If I can get the divorce dismissed for lack of jurisdiction in Florida. Can I file for divorce in Puerto Rico?

Lawrence Allen Weinreich
Lawrence Allen Weinreich
answered on May 11, 2021

Home state refers to the last state where the children lived last for 6 months. As the children moved to FL in Feb. that is not the home state if they lived in PR for the previous 6 months. However, if neither of you live in PR then FL will be considered as the home state.

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Q: I filed for a divorce 8 months ago and I checked the e-courts and I need help understanding the meaning of things

I filed for a divorce 8 months ago and I checked the e courts and it says there was a an appearance date April 29th that already passes, it says court date purpose : Conversion-Other , justice part: part 30 also the Date NOI Due: September 29th 2021.

What does all this mean? will I have to... View More

David Ivan Bliven
David Ivan Bliven
answered on May 8, 2021

E-courts is sometimes cryptic. Merely because it says there was an appearance doesn't mean there was one - it could be just a tickler in their system. That said, if the case is still uncontested, you need to file the judgment package along with the note of issue. Schedule a consult with a... View More

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Q: Hi. I divorced 10 yrs ago. No mention of Qdro in my paper work. Can I do this if not in my divorce documents?
Lawrence Allen Weinreich
Lawrence Allen Weinreich
answered on May 6, 2021

If there is a provision in the Judgment or your stipulation if you have one that says the retirement account(s) would be split then you can have a QDRO done. If there is no mention of sharing the retirement account(s) then the answer is no.

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Q: i want to get divorce
Theodore Alatsas
Theodore Alatsas
answered on Apr 30, 2021

I suggest that you find a lawyer so that you can get an understanding of your rights and potential responsibilities.

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Q: After 16 years being completely separated, how can my ex and I get divorced, easily and cheaply?

We have been separated financially and residency for 15-16 years. We have a 21 y/o who lives completely on his own. We just want a cheap, easy, quick divorce. What's the best way to do that?

Kevin Abessi
Kevin Abessi
answered on Apr 20, 2021

If you can agree on the terms of the divorce - e.g., equitable distribution, spousal maintenance, custody if relevant, etc. - through private negotiations with each other, then you may be able to proceed with the formal divorce process in an uncontested capacity. This can essentially amount to no... View More

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Q: hello my name is norma i am looking to get a divorce and was wondering what steps i need to take to start that process
Theodore Alatsas
Theodore Alatsas
answered on Apr 15, 2021

I recommend you consult with an attorney to discuss the most appropriate strategy. Generally, a divorce starts with the service of a Summons on your spouse, but there are important considerations that you should discuss with an attorney. These considerations vary depending on whether there are... View More

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Q: Can my ex Husband force me into an every other week schedule after 7 years of splitting the week?

I have been divorced for 7 years, we have two kids, during the custody negotiations my ex-husband was contracted by choice to work weekends as an ICU nurse. He would not take any weekends and because I wanted him to see the kids I agreed to a schedule that was Monday afternoon until Thursday... View More

Lawrence Allen Weinreich
Lawrence Allen Weinreich
answered on Mar 19, 2021

He cannot force you to make a change if you do not want to. He can bring the matter to court and the court will decide what is in the children's best interests. You should be aware, that the usual visitation schedule is every other weekend and 1 night for dinner each week. You can however... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Divorce for New York on
Q: Hello Am I able to ask a question in regards to a divorce

No I have not I just got the letter in the mail my question is if you can help me or not I’m having trouble finding information I bring a four-year-old child into the marriage as I was a single father is biologicalWas deceased we then got married and now she wants to get joint custody is this... View More

Jodi Ann Donato
Jodi Ann Donato
answered on Mar 12, 2021

Did you get a step-parent adoption through the court? If she adopted the child then she can get joint custody.

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Q: hello. I've got some questions about spousal support or maintenance before divorce.

haven't filed yet but I think my husband might soon.

I don't work and haven't in a while. I'm dependent on my husband for money but her had cut me off and depleted our joint checking account

Lawrence Allen Weinreich
Lawrence Allen Weinreich
answered on Mar 5, 2021

You don't have to wait for a divorce, if your husband has stopped supporting you, you should go down to your local Family Court and file for support. Any support order would be retroactive to the date you filed your application so the sooner you file the better.

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Q: Should my daughter move out of the house into a apartment from the house she and her husband bought together 4 years ago

They have been together 7years,lived together almost 5 years and married in 6/2020. January 2021 he doesn't want to be married anymore. She knows she can't afford the house alone and he won't go to counseling.

Lawrence Allen Weinreich
Lawrence Allen Weinreich
answered on Feb 22, 2021

You haven't supplied enough information for a good answer. Since the house was bought together they each own the house. Based upon the limited information provided, your daughter should not move out at this time. It is highly recommended that she seek a consultation with an attorney where... View More

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Q: Hello my name is Ren .i filed my uncontested divorce through nyc e file in july .Is there a way to speed up process?
David Ivan Bliven
David Ivan Bliven
answered on Feb 19, 2021

Merely filing the divorce does next-to-nothing. You'd then need to have the papers served, file an affidavit of service, and then submit the Judgment Package (assuming the other side defaults. You may wish to call a NYC Divorce Attorney for a full assessment.

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Q: Legally separated since 2016. Can parts of separation be changed when filing for final divorce?
Lawrence Allen Weinreich
Lawrence Allen Weinreich
answered on Feb 10, 2021

You would have to read the agreement. Most agreement have a clause that says that the agreement can be changed only by a writing subscribed in the same manner as the original agreement. Take the agreement to an attorney and let them read it and discuss the changes you want to make to see if it... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Divorce for New York on
Q: What can I do as a 15 year old for my custody to change?

I'm currently under my mothers custody but I've experienced some abuse as a child and currently we have alot of issues. My dad can have me but he wants to know if there is anything I can do for my custody change.

Lawrence Allen Weinreich
Lawrence Allen Weinreich
answered on Feb 9, 2021

Your father would have to file a petition for a change of custody. You would have to tell the judge that you want to live with your father and why.

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Q: Am I required to provide my ex husband with proof of payment from a divorce agreement?

Based on the divorce agreement my ex husband had to buy me out of the house. We both can not find proof of payment. If we go to court will I be required to sign a document stating he paid me for the buy out?

David Ivan Bliven
David Ivan Bliven
answered on Feb 5, 2021

Without reviewing the exact structure of your agreement, if it says your husband needed to buy you out, then it seems to me like - if you're disputing same - he'd need to produce evidence of the payment. That said, with something so significant, one would think there'd be a cashed... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Gov & Administrative Law, Elder Law and Divorce for New York on
Q: NYC dept of health denied request for birth certificate stating first name has one letter different than legal name.

What law requires a senior citizen to change the name on their birth certificate to match current name ?

Why is name on social security not considered legal name?

Howard E. Knispel
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Howard E. Knispel
answered on Feb 3, 2021

You can file a petition to change your name with the court. It is a relatively simple form that you can download from the court website. As for divorced people, every NY divorce judgement includes an order allowing the person to change their name back to their previous name.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Domestic Violence for New York on
Q: I am a victim of domestic abuse for a long time and this time i want to put an end to it. I want to file a divorce

My concern is our lawyer is about to start processing my papers for green card, is it possible for me still get it even without her petition?

Theodore Alatsas
Theodore Alatsas
answered on Jan 25, 2021

The Violence Against Women's Act protects non-resident aliens from deportation or denial of status when a divorce is based on domestic violence during the marriage. I have cancelled many such cases in the past.

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