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3 Answers | Asked in Divorce, Family Law, Child Custody and Child Support for Oklahoma on
Q: Is it illegal for a judge to deny you council during a divirce?

I was denied the right to find another lawyer for our divorce. Hard to explain in a summary. But my lawyer was Haha hehehe with my ex husband's attorney when u arrived for court my lawyer pulls me aside and quits and takes everything like police reports domestic violence pictures and so... View More

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Dec 20, 2020

If you mean does the court appoint an attorney for you like in a criminal case, no.

You would need to hire an attorney to represent you in a divorce case.

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody and Child Support for Oklahoma on
Q: The father is paying child support to my wife but trying to get her to pay him and take her son she is a stay at home

She is not unfit mother she cares for all 4 the dad is a truck driver sees his son by court order and he pays for child support he is 14,000 behind now taking her to court to get her to pay child support

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Dec 19, 2020

Bottom line, she needs to hire an attorney to defend this case. I suggest she do so first thing Monday morning. Where many people go wrong is they wait too long to get an attorney and damage is done to the case that the attorney later may or may not be able to undo.

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Support for Oklahoma on
Q: The house was paid off. It was worth 40k. I had her give me 10k. The rest was for 250.00 child support til child turned

18. We have 50/50 custody. I left state 3 mos. Later,changed job to 53k a year. Now see child every other weekend. She now wants more child support,though in notorized document she stated she would never ask more child support. Not in decree. Just notorized paper she wrote and agreed to.

Paul Ylvisaker
Paul Ylvisaker
answered on Dec 6, 2020

You do have a dilemna. By state stautes child support can be agreed to, but not made non-modifiable. It sounds as if you gave up a portion of the community estate to establish lower child support obligation. You may be able to seek relief for violating the decree, ie., she deceitfully entered the... View More

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3 Answers | Asked in Child Support and Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: Do you know the qualification for the lack of providing child support for the child in terminating the paternal rights?

Is it still not complying with the court ordered payments for 6 of the previous 12 months? Also is paying partial payments considered complying or not since the full amount was not received?

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Dec 5, 2020

There is no termination of rights unless it is done in an

adoption proceeding. Must show no support and/or no relationship for 12 of the last 14 months to adopt without the consent of the parent. See an adoption attorney to learn more about the process.

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Support for Oklahoma on
Q: My ex wife wrote and notorized a letter that if I gave her house,she would never seek child support from me. She claims

She wants child support since my financial situation has changed.claimed paper will not hold up in court

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Dec 1, 2020

This is an interesting question. If it was simply a letter waiving child support that probably would not fly but with the house added to the mix that adds a twist. I think the language in your decree would be important so would need to review your decree and the signed agreement to give you an... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Child Support for Oklahoma on
Q: Why is it taking so long for me to get a child support hearing? It’s going on 4 months since I’ve filed
Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Nov 28, 2020

I don't know anything about your particular case but if I had to guess would say that either you don't have an attorney or it is Covid related.

1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law, Child Support and Education Law for Oklahoma on
Q: is it illegal for a teacher to grip a student hard enough to cause bruises?
Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Nov 7, 2020

As with most all things, this would depend on the specific facts of what happened. This is one of those issues where to get a reliable answer you will need to have a detailed consultation with an attorney. The attorney will want to review all of the facts and also ask questions to get to the... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Support for Oklahoma on
Q: If I wanted to terminate my rights to a child in Oklahoma, would I still pay child support?
Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Nov 4, 2020

There is no such thing as terminating your parental rights in Oklahoma unless the child is adopted or the state terminates rights for abuse. Even when rights are terminated by the state child support is still owed unless the child is adopted.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Support for Oklahoma on
Q: I am being held legally responsible for a child in OK. That child turns 10 on Nov. 7th. Can force DNA test?

The mother has refused DNA test and we haven't talked in probably 6 years. Child is collecting SS benefits for my disability.

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Oct 28, 2020

The answer will depend on if paternity has already been established. To get to the bottom of this contact an attorney so they can review your situation and ask you questions about the background. Once an attorney has all the details they can explain your option.

2 Answers | Asked in Child Support for Oklahoma on
Q: Man has paid child support for 12 years due to the result of a one night stand in which he was basically raped. advice?

Man had passed out after drinking heavily at his girlfriends house. There was a party happening in the other room. Another girl was there that was obsessed with the victim. Man is in and out of consciousness with a female that has forced herself on top of him in the dark. Other partygoers bust in... View More

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Oct 15, 2020

I am not aware of anything that can be done about this situation at this point. If you want to explore further schedule a consultation with an attorney.

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1 Answer | Asked in Child Support for Oklahoma on
Q: I’m making on time payments on two separate cases both children are grown I pay arrears plus original obligations

Can I get my payments modified to arrears only The children are 20 and 23

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Oct 6, 2020

If you are still paying current support on children that have aged out and finished high school you should be able to terminate the ongoing support obligation and set up a payment on the back support only.

2 Answers | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody and Child Support for Oklahoma on
Q: I just recently lost my job and my wife is refusing to let me see my kids been like this for going on 2 years.

please i don't know what to do

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Oct 3, 2020

If you have a visitation order you can take action to enforce. If you do not have a visitation order you need to get one. Either way hire an attorney and they will be able to help you with the process.

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: Is it possible for a father to get at least 50/50 custody of his children from the mother in Oklahoma?

They were never married, no abuse except for mental abuse from her to him. They have 2 children but my husband accepts her other child as his and we have him when we have the others. Her family says she never has them, either we have them or her mother or sister do. Kids are 8, 9, and 12.

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Sep 29, 2020

Is it possible? Yes. If the court believes that such an order is in the best interest of the child/children.

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1 Answer | Asked in Child Support for Oklahoma on
Q: My child support was dismissed because my son turned 18 and had dropped out of school at the age of 17.

I just found out he is enrolled in an alternative program and now CSS wants me to start paying again. How can this be?????

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Sep 29, 2020

Child support is paid until the age of 18 unless a child is still in high school and if so continues until the child graduates or reaches the age of 20, whichever occurs first.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Support for Oklahoma on
Q: Does OK factor in the number of children in the order or is the payment amount solely based on income of both parties.

My son turned 18 in Jan, and graduated HS in May. I am still receiving the full amount that I've been receiving. I also have a 16 yr old. I was given 2 different responses from 2 different employees at CS enforcement. The NCP was told he could potentially pay more for 1 child than he pays for... View More

Brian Boeheim
Brian Boeheim
answered on Sep 17, 2020

My interpretation of the case law is as follows:

The child support order is not for two individual children, but instead is for support of all children. Therefore, just because one of the children reaches the age of majority (18 years of age and graduated from high school) it does not...
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1 Answer | Asked in Child Support for Oklahoma on
Q: I was getting to $230month for my child support then it went down to $50 and now I get $15 a month for my child support

I was not informed by any courts or the co-parent of any changes to my payments I'm supposed to receive nor do I know how much am I supposed to be getting all together

Brian Boeheim
Brian Boeheim
answered on Sep 6, 2020

You need to get a good attorney to look into this. Child Support should not change unless it is ordered by the court.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Support for Oklahoma on
Q: After she graduates high school does Oklahoma law say I have to keep paying child support because she is in college??

I’m in Texas

Devon Antonia Cantrell
Devon Antonia Cantrell
answered on Aug 7, 2020

Even if your child is in college, but has not yet reached the age of 18, typically you are still obligated to pay child support until she reaches the age of 18, being the age of majority in Oklahoma. In some cases, parents have agreed to continue paying for certain activities and support related... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Support for Oklahoma on
Q: Can my non-parental guardian claim that my child support money belongs to him and not to me, the child?

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Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Aug 7, 2020

No. Child support is paid to the parent or guardian. It is not paid to the child.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Support for Oklahoma on
Q: I have sole custody, can my ex decide he & his mom are going to watch the kids while I work to save on childcare costs?

My ex husband has informed me that he cannot afford to pay his portion for after school care so he or his mom will be picking up the kids from school and watching them. In our decree he only has visitation 2 days a week after school and he has to pay 60% of childcare costs. He said because there... View More

Brian Boeheim
Brian Boeheim
answered on Jul 31, 2020

This is a simple and complex answer at the same time. The court order is what must be enforced. If you are the sole legal custodian, then what you say goes. Plus it looks like it is written right in the order, so it really can't be unilaterally changed by him. On the other hand, if he... View More

3 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Child Support for Oklahoma on
Q: Do I have to legally pay child support after my child graduates high school? She turn 18 in January and graduate in may

My daughter is in Oklahoma I live in Texas. We were never through the courts we handled it ourselves I have records of all transactions

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Jul 22, 2020

Yes, support would be paid until the child graduates high school.

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