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3 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: How do I respond to a motion for term of alimony if I never received it via registered mail.

I contacted USPS multiple times and they don’t know where it is. Ex says court date is scheduled for Jan 8th. What should I do?

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Dec 17, 2020

Thank you for your question. First and foremost, all motions are required to be sent via regular and certified mail. I would call whatever courthouse where court is allegedly scheduled to occur. You are looking to speak with the family division office. Once there with your name and even better if... View More

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4 Answers | Asked in Criminal Law, Civil Rights and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: What do I do if it's my second time being falsely accused of domestic violence and I feel like I was discriminated

This time when I went to pick my child's from his house he dragged me out slashed my tires broke my phone in front of the kids

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Dec 4, 2020

Thank you for your question. You need to contact your local police department to make a report of each and every incidence. Unfortunately, without understanding what you mean by discriminated I cannot offer any advice on that issue.

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3 Answers | Asked in Child Custody and Divorce for New Jersey on
Q: My x is leaving the US, can I get full custody of my daughter? I don't know if he is coming back

My ex husband sold his house and is leaving the country am I able to fight for full custody/parenting rights of her until she is 18? According to our court papers he is supposed to take her evey wednesday night (over night) and hasn't done that in 3 years, hes missed other days of taking her,... View More

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Nov 10, 2020

Thank you for your question. When one parent moves to another country, there would likely be good cause for the parent remaining in the United States to have sole residential custody, especially if the other parent has not been exercising parenting time. The key factor to modifying an existing... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Support and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: can my nj pension be subject to child support intercept

I wasnt married to the mother of my child and she urged the courts to go after my pension to pay her child support I have been unable to work for at least 3 years

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Nov 5, 2020

Thank you for your question. Pensions are governed by the federal law, specifically the ERISA statute, but state courts in New Jersey have held that a pension may be garnished to pay child support. There may be more than one court order needed for the plan administrator of the pension to do so.... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Support for New Jersey on
Q: Child Support

My wife has been paying child support for over a decade and was recently contacted by her son who is now an adult. The child has not been living with the father, but with the grandparents. We also suspect that the father is using her child support to pay for his child support for a child he had... View More

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Nov 3, 2020

Thank you for your question. Child support can be tricky, in that most of the relief only reverts back to the date an application is filed with the Court. It is imperative that your wife speak with an attorney experienced in child support and college contribution as soon as possible so that she... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody and Child Support for New Jersey on
Q: Does New Jersey grant a non-custodial parent to vacate child support, visitation and custody?

My sons father has intermittent parenting time with his son due to his own accord. We have a court order for every other weekend Friday to Sunday but he has missed two months of visitation this year so far and last year he did not have overnight visitations for a year. He does not have stable... View More

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Oct 21, 2020

Thank you for your question. I am so sorry that you are going through this. It sounds like a really tough situation. Generally speaking, the Court will not permit a voluntary termination of parental rights unless there is good cause; avoiding a child support obligation is not something that is... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce for New Jersey on
Q: My husband wants a divorce. We are married shy of 3 yrs. Can my husband force me to leave our home?

We got engaged 2016, He bought the home approx. 1yr before we married. While we renovated he lived with me at my home. We married 12/17 and then sold my place and went to live in new home. On 7/23/19 we signed papers at the lawyers to put my name on the deed. I just learned today he never followed... View More

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Oct 21, 2020

Thank you for your question. If the house is in joint names, you have an equitable interest in the house, although it may not necessarily be 50% based upon the fact that he purchased it prior to the marriage and your marriage is short term. With respect to what will happen to you financially, I am... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce for New Jersey on
Q: My boyfriend who lives in Howell Township needs help with his alimony problem so he can leave and retire

he has been paying for 10 years he cannot even afford an lawyer because 67% of his income goes to his ex he wants to retire and move to Nevada where he will not have to work how do we get rid of the alimony payment she is a nurse and has income there is no more child support order is there a way to... View More

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Oct 19, 2020

Thank you for your question. Unfortunately, I am not able to provide you with an answer as I do not have enough information. Whether or not your boyfriend can retire is dependent upon the terms of his Matrimonial Settlement Agreement and how long he is required to pay alimony and under what... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Child Support and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: In NJ, when parents were never married, does the non custodial father have to pay for college in addition to CS?

Child was estranged and the father had no input on college decisions. Father also can't afford to contribute to college on top of the child support he is already paying. Couple was never married and have no agreement about college.

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Oct 7, 2020

Thank you for your question. There are many different factors to consider when analyzing your particular question. It is not a cut and dry answer so there is information we need from you to be in a position to better guide you. A court could require a contribution toward that cost but based upon... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: I advocate and assist in finding proper representation for grandparents. Searching for a family lawyer

Involving a 5 year old child who's father and mother died and grandmother is being misled to sign to allow the childs aunt to adopt the child . The attorney representing the grandparent has threatened the grandmother to sign the document telling her it is easier this way and has created a... View More

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Sep 21, 2020

Thank you for your message. This is a terrible predicament for grandma. Lawyers are oftentimes imposing and unnecessarily demanding. It sounds like you have given her the correct advice, however, if she already signed the document I’m sure the lawyer has filed it with the court. She needs to... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: Can the arrears ex owes me - they are mostly for child support, be counted retroactive for 5 years of cohabitation?

I divorced in 2013 due to DV. Contract states 250/week child support, 500/month alimony.

At time of divorce - 11 year marriage/2 children - I was undocumented and had no education as we decided to stay in USA to get his career going and I left University in Canada where I was a permanent... View More

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Sep 18, 2020

Thank you for your question. I am sorry you are going through this situation. To answer your question, alimony arrears and child support arrears are treated differently. Child support arrears are only retroactive to the date of the order or filing of the complaint -depending how the judge entered... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Criminal Law and Domestic Violence for New Jersey on
Q: Does handwriting analysis be used a burden of proof evidence in a domestic violence hearing?

I was served with a temporary restraining order, but my ex claims someone is sending her anonymous letters, it says in the (TPO) she thinks its me because the handwriting is similar, that all she has on the Temporary order, is that enough evidence for a final restraining order?

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Sep 15, 2020

Thank you for your question. At a final restraining order hearing, both parties have the ability to present evidence and call witnesses. The judge will decide, after hearing all the evidence, whether or not to issue the FRO. In a case where the main issue is anonymous letters, evidence related to... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Support for New Jersey on
Q: If the ex wife inherits money does that change income ratio to determine change if child Support obligation ?
Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Sep 22, 2020

Thank you for your question. It will depend whether the source is from an active or passive asset. You can always look for a recalculation of child support based on change of circumstances for her. Best of luck.

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody for New Jersey on
Q: If A child’s custody change happened in Poughkeepsie NY can I file For petition for custody back in NJ where I reside ?

Family court . I gave custody of my child to family because I went through a stage o depression now I’m back and my family are willing to give me my custody back but we filed for that in Poughkeepsie NY is it possible for me to sign petition for custody back in NJ where I reside or would I have... View More

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Sep 9, 2020

The question of jurisdiction focuses upon where the child resides. Since the child lives in NY and there’s an existing custody order, you would have to go back to the family court in Poughkeepsie, NY. Therefore I would recommend you seek counsel there. Be prepared to present proof of your... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Employment Law for New Jersey on
Q: My husband recently retired. Shouldn’t I be getting half of his retirement benefits? Separated for 8 years and married

for 35 years. Last year he said I would be receiving money at the beginning of this year. I haven’t received anything. I stayed home and raised our three kids, never asked for anything from him. Suddenly he won’t speak to me. Should I call his former company for information or should I hire... View More

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Sep 3, 2020

Thank you for your question. Unfortunately, your rights as a spouse are not protected by a separation. You need to file for a divorce. Under NJ law you would be entitled to equitable distribution, child support, spousal support and a plethora of other rights. You should absolutely hire an... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Support for New Jersey on
Q: if my kids mother dropped child support because i signed paper stating she can move to florida with my son and she

threatens to open another child support can i request she be made bring my son back to nj

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Jul 30, 2020

Thank you for your question. The short answer is that child support and custody are not intertwined. The right to receive child support belongs to the child and a parent cannot waive support on a child’s behalf. As such, the likely answer is that she will always be permitted to file an... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody and Child Support for New Jersey on
Q: My son is 13 and I want a dna test. I live in New York and they live in New Jersey. I don’t remember signing the birth

I’m not sure he’s mines and I’ve been paying way too much over the years I’m in arrears

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Aug 18, 2020

Thank you for your question. If there are prior child support and/or custody orders in place in NJ, then it appears NJ law would apply. Generally speaking, it is not easy to obtain a DNA test of a child of that age under the law in NJ, but you should contact a Family Law attorney for a... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: Visits and COVID-19 quarantine

I live in the state of New Jersey and have custody of my niece , her mother lives in a state that the New Jersey governor has put on the 14 day quarantine list and I have a poor immune system. She is only aloud 1 day time visit and no over nights but like I said her state that she comes from is on... View More

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Jul 23, 2020

Thank you for your question. The short answer is yes, if you have a compromised immune system. You will need to offer make up visitation days when her state is removed from the quarantine list.

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Support for New Jersey on
Q: I currently have a child support order not based on guidelines. Can support be stopped for college students?

Support is being paid for 3 children, ages 20, 18 and 16. Two in college and one in high school. Ex wants to discontinue support. Can he do so?

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Jul 21, 2020

Thank you for your question. I am sorry to having a problem with the ex with regards to college and child support. As long as the child is in college, a child is not emancipated and, as such, the non-custodial parent (X) has to pay child support. However, he may be entitled to a reduction of child... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Support for New Jersey on
Q: I owe child support in NY, can I open/start a security company in NJ (I now reside in NJ)?
Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Jul 20, 2020

Thank you for your question. Most states have what is called full faith and credit meaning that states will enforce other state's orders. Thus, simply because you owe child support in NY and move to NJ and open a business there, does not negate your obligation to pay support in NY.

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