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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce for Virginia on
Q: I pay $1250 spouse + ins for 40 yrs I am 90yrs old can't pay any longer Any newer law to stop Pls help 40 YEARS!!

My ex wife lives in Richmond Va and we live in Mount Pleasant SC Guess I need legal help in Richmond VA Is there a limit on the time you have to pay. My wife and I have been married 35 years.

Sharon R. Moss
Sharon R. Moss
answered on Dec 11, 2017

Which court issued your divorce decree. If a Virginia court awarded spousal support it could be modifiable depending on what the Order says. If you agreed to pay spousal support in a separate agreement with you ex-wife, it may not be modifiable. It depends on what the Agreement says. If the... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Arbitration / Mediation Law and Child Support for Virginia on
Q: If my ex files for divorce in Florida, while I'm in Fairfax Virginia, which state determines child support?

I would assume that since I am in Fairfax, Virginia with the children, the child support amount would be determined by Virginia's guidelines.

Sharon R. Moss
Sharon R. Moss
answered on Dec 11, 2017

It depends on whether or not the court in Virginia can obtain personal jurisdiction over your ex. If so, then they can award child support based on Virginia guidelines. Otherwise, it may likely be based on the laws of the state in which he lives.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Virginia on
Q: HiIf my child(11years old) decides he does not want to talk to his absentee father is that a problem?

The custody agreement is technically 50/50 but his father is mostly absent from his life being in and out of jail or drunk. His father will go for months without trying to contact him sometimes and when he does it constantly leads to empty promises and disappointment for my child. His father does... View More

Sharon R. Moss
Sharon R. Moss
answered on Dec 11, 2017

You have to follow the custody agreement in that you can not withhold your child from his father. If his father is not asking to utilize the visitation he has then you are not withholding the child. If there is a provision in the order that his father has the right to reasonable phone contact... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for Virginia on
Q: I and my husband want to get guardianship for our son who has mental illness and he is 21 year old, we do not know how ?
Sharon R. Moss
Sharon R. Moss
answered on Dec 11, 2017

You will need to file a Petition with the Court stating that he needs a Guardian. You will need documentation from his doctor that he is not able to make informed decisions for himself. The court will appoint a Guardian ad litem to represent your son. If the evidence shows he needs a guardian,... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Probate for Maryland on
Q: My uncle passed away in Maryland and my portion from the sale of the house has been in probate for more than 50 days.

Is this the normal time?

Sharon R. Moss
Sharon R. Moss
answered on Dec 8, 2017

Probate of an estate can take a year or more to complete.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for Virginia on
Q: If I have joint custody of a child that is not my biological child can I move out of state with the child?
Sharon R. Moss
Sharon R. Moss
answered on Dec 8, 2017

It depends on what the Custody Order says. If the Order is silent on the issue, and you decide to move, the other joint custodian has the right to file with the court to enjoin you from moving with the child.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for Virginia on
Q: Can my girlfriend leave the state of Va to move to Florida with her daughter if her ex lives outta state?

M girlfriend has a daughter with her ex. They were never married. They met and lived in Va for a few years. He has since moved to Illinois and she still resides in Va. can she legally move if she chooses or does she have to go to court.

Sharon R. Moss
Sharon R. Moss
answered on Dec 7, 2017

It would depend on what their custody/visitation order says.

2 Answers | Asked in Child Support for Virginia on
Q: After a court order for child support, and my child is held back a year, can I get him to pay support 1 more year.

Our son is now 18 and was just held back.Feb '18 he will be 19 and in 11th grade. He now needs support for another year?

Sharon R. Moss
Sharon R. Moss
answered on Dec 7, 2017

In Virginia, child support has to be paid for any child over the age of 18 who is (i) a full-time high school student, (ii) not self-supporting, and (iii) living in the home of the party seeking or receiving child support until such child reaches the age of 19 or graduates from high school,... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Child Support for Virginia on
Q: I'm 32 years of age and my father still pays child support for me however my mother gets it and don't see any of it.

I wanted to know if anything can be done about it to where I can receive it instead of her I don't live with her or anything like I said before I'm 32 years of age

Sharon R. Moss
Sharon R. Moss
answered on Dec 7, 2017

In Virginia the obligation to pay child support ends at 18 (19 if the child is still in high school). They only way there is an obligation to pay once the child has graduated high school is if the child is severely and permanently mentally or physically disabled, and such disability existed prior... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for Virginia on
Q: my husband filed the custody first month of august.he wants to cancel it.i counter filed.

what will happen next? i am not going to cancel what i filed. there is a mediation date january 3 he said he might not be here that date.

Sharon R. Moss
Sharon R. Moss
answered on Dec 4, 2017

You likely already have a status hearing date, which is probably after the January 3 mediation date. If your husband does not show up for the mediation, then when you go to the status hearing if you have not come to any type of agreement, the court will set your case for a trial date at which time... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for Virginia on
Q: I have a 10 year old Granddaughter who wants her last name changed, Father in jail, won't sign papers. In Virginia???

I have a 10 year old Granddaughter who wants her last name changed, Father in jail, won't sign papers. In Virginia??? Is there a way to proceed through the courts since he is a convicted felon and incarcerated in Virginia?

Sharon R. Moss
Sharon R. Moss
answered on Nov 30, 2017

Does the child live in Virginia. If so, her Mother may petition the Court for a change of name, but the Father will still have to be served with the paperwork, and the Court will have to determine that a change of name is in the child's best interests.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Child Support for Virginia on
Q: No court order in place, daughter now resides out of state. Unable to retain address info but pay child support. Option?

Under false pretenses and invalid claims, mother returned to home of record. I pay child support and she's unemployed. However, she refuses to give address due to the false pretenses and I'm unable to file for visitation in my current state. What are my options for getting access to my... View More

Sharon R. Moss
Sharon R. Moss
answered on Nov 30, 2017

So are there no orders in place for custody, visitation, or child support? If there is no order in place for custody/visitation, you options depend on how long the child has been living in the state she is now in. If no order, and the child has been living in the new state for 6 months or more,... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce for Virginia on
Q: Do I have to file seperation are divorce papers before I leave ? And move somewhere else ?

Do I have to take all my belongings when I leave are how do this work

Sharon R. Moss
Sharon R. Moss
answered on Nov 28, 2017

You do not have to file for separation or divorce prior to moving out of the home. Depending on your situation, you may want to file for custody, visitation, child support and/or spousal support.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce for Virginia on
Q: my wife and I purchased a new home where I’m the prime person on loan and, my VA loan is used with the house.

Then she moved out, on her own, and left for a year during the year I had been paying all the bills and mortgage. Now she moved back in, and we are looking at divorcing and now she does not want to leave nor sign the quick claim deed to let me keep my home, she says she will fight me to sell it.... View More

Sharon R. Moss
Sharon R. Moss
answered on Nov 27, 2017

She may have a marital interest in the home depending on how much was put down, how long she lived in it prior to separation, and how much, if any she has contributed to the mortgage payments, maintenance, or improvements. So, a portion of the equity in the home could be hers and that will need to... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Probate for Virginia on
Q: Do I need to sell items I inherated to make sure another beneficiary gets the full amount of cash he was left in the wil

When my father died, he left 50k to his best friend, and left his daughter (me) his truck, a collection, and his home. His ex wife (my mom) is the executor. After paying all his debts, there isn't quite enough to give his friend the whole 50k my father left him. The executor says I have to... View More

Sharon R. Moss
Sharon R. Moss
answered on Nov 27, 2017

No. If there is not enough cash left in the estate to pay the specific bequeath, you can request a hearing with the Commissioner of Accounts to determine how the remaining funds should be allocated.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for Virginia on
Q: Man pays child support; has no $ for lawyer to see his daughters in fairfax county, va. What can he do?

Pays child support as appointed by court; has contacted ex via phone and text and no response. He lives in Fluvanna County, VA and children live in Fairfax County, VA.

Sharon R. Moss
Sharon R. Moss
answered on Nov 27, 2017

Is there a custody/visitation order in place? If not, he can file for custody/visitation so that he may get an Order.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Support for Virginia on
Q: How can my son in law get to see his children from his previous marriage? He pays child support to their mother.
Sharon R. Moss
Sharon R. Moss
answered on Nov 27, 2017

If there is a custody/visitation order in effect he has to follow that or file with the court to request a modification. If there is no custody/visitation order in effect, he can file with the court to request custody/visitation be decided, but if he went through a divorce, then there should be a... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Child Support for Virginia on
Q: My ex wife is getting married and moving to other state with my 13 years son. Do I still have continue pay child suppor?
Sharon R. Moss
Sharon R. Moss
answered on Nov 27, 2017

Yes, you have a duty to support your child until they turn 18 or 19 if they are still in high school.

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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Child Support for Virginia on
Q: Custody/support:

My brother in law went to court. They said his 15yr old doesn’t have to visit unless he wants too. However, he is to still pay FULL child support. He has recently been laid off as his job shut the doors and he has 2 children at home both younger (10,5). They are using my sisters income for his... View More

Sharon R. Moss
Sharon R. Moss
answered on Nov 21, 2017

Even though your brother may not see the child, he still has an obligation to support his child. If he has lost his job through no fault of his own, he can petition the court for a modification in child support based on his new circumstances. The court will want to see evidence that he is... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Estate Planning for Maryland on
Q: what do I need to do to give my current husband all rights to a home in Maryland in the event i die.
Sharon R. Moss
Sharon R. Moss
answered on Nov 16, 2017

That would depend on how the home is currently titled.

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