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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Idaho on
Q: Does having my live in girlfriend (of 9 years) watch my daughter count as work related childcare?

My girlfriend has been in my daughter's life for as long as i have, but my ex doesn't want her to be able to watch my daughter. Where i come from, that's called a family. Not childcare. My ex is angry because i mentioned that i have the right of refusal over daycare, her neighbors, and her old... Read more »

Kevin M Rogers
Kevin M Rogers answered on Mar 27, 2020

1. Did she charge you to watch your daughter?

2. Did you keep a record of all the money you paid her?

If your answers to either of those questions is “no,” then the answer is no.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Child Support for Idaho on
Q: Do i have rights over my daughter since she lives with me fulltime now and i pay for her daycare and still pay child sup

Her mom was homless living in her van with her bf till she got her tax return now she lives in a hotel. But its only a matter of time before she runs out of money. Even she work part time at mcdonalds. And uses the child support to pay for her vehicle. Im just wondering how do i get full custody

Kevin M Rogers
Kevin M Rogers answered on Mar 4, 2020

If I were you I would file a Petition for Guardianship. The Court will require the mother to be there before it makes a decision. If the Court grants your petition, you will step artificially into the shoes of the bio mother in making all decisions on behalf of the child. Good luck to you!

1 Answer | Asked in Adoption and Child Custody for Idaho on
Q: Can you adopt a child without the parents consent if you've been raising the child for years and the mother only visits?

My husband has been raising his ex- girlfriends daughter since she was 3 she is now 10 and the mother left her and their child together with him about 3 years ago and only would visit them occasionally and now lives out of state and pretty much just calls them- we are wondering what we can do and... Read more »

Kevin M Rogers
Kevin M Rogers answered on Feb 26, 2020

To answer the first question, "Yes" you CAN adopt a child . . . without the parent's consent.

Here's the catch: NOTHING your husband or you have done for their daughter in the intervening 7 years has given you ANY PARENTAL RIGHTS. During the past 7 years you COULD HAVE:

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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for Idaho on
Q: Is a judges court deputy allowed to Facebook message us telling us what we need to do an ongoing custody case?

The judge on a custody case in Idaho is actually friends with the other party. He won't allow any evidence to be submitted through court and has so far ignored our evidence, or refusing to allow the evidence into court at all. Now his court deputy is messaging us on Facebook telling us that we're... Read more »

Kevin M Rogers
Kevin M Rogers answered on Feb 26, 2020

If what you say is correct, then you need to file a Motion for Disqualification under ICR 25.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Adoption, Child Custody and Child Support for Idaho on
Q: While under protective supervisions with my children from the department of health and welfare can I leave state

Under protective supervision

Kevin M Rogers
Kevin M Rogers answered on Feb 19, 2020

Ask your case worker. You don’t want to leave the state or move across town or change jobs or get a piercing without speaking with your case worker!

2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Divorce and Family Law for Idaho on
Q: My ex-husband who I share 50/50 custody is seeking to put our daughter into a school under his girlfriends address.

Recently I reached out to my ex to discuss having to enroll our daughter into school. I reached out asking for his opinion in which I got no response through email. As he has blocked me on his cellphone (divorce violation). In addition, after reaching out multiple times he stated he was enrolling... Read more »

Kristen Thurmond
Kristen Thurmond answered on Feb 17, 2020

This is going to be something you'll need to discuss with an attorney about all the pros and cons of trying to enforce the settlement agreement. While on its face there seems to be grounds for changes due to violating the court's orders, there are always consequences to filing and what the court... Read more »

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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Adoption, Child Custody and Child Support for Idaho on
Q: I have done sign my right away before my daughter born,but my ex never filed it... then my ex

Then my ex and her husband were adopting my daughter and she ask me to sign my right away again for the second time! It was half way process and had to pay 9k for stuff suddenly it went up 50k it cost my parents money to help me get thou. I waited waited. I want to get it done bam 6 month... Read more »

Kevin M Rogers
Kevin M Rogers answered on Feb 7, 2020

I want to tell you what you should do.

First off, Idaho would not allow you to "sign off" rights to your daughter UNLESS there is someone willing to adopt her. In your case, your ex-wife did not give your daughter your last name and wanted to adopt her daughter as much as you did, it...
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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support, Divorce and Domestic Violence for Idaho on
Q: Abusive absent father who is still legally married to his first wife, is trying to get 50 50 custody...help?

Been seperated 4 years, attempts at reconciling ending in mental and physical abuse for myself, During this time our 6 year old son has solely resided with me, with no financial support from father. Father was given chance after chance to be an active father and would always end up not following... Read more »

Kevin M Rogers
Kevin M Rogers answered on Feb 5, 2020

If you and he had no previous custody order in place, then strictly speaking, he is NOTHING but a sperm donor. Simply by having his name on the birth certificate gives him NOTHING but obligations to pay child support. If he ever wanted to become the "father" of this 6 yr. old son, he would need... Read more »

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Child Support for Idaho on
Q: I need help with filling out and filing custody papers. How would I go about that without being represented?

Can I pay hourly and where do I go?

Kevin M Rogers
Kevin M Rogers answered on Oct 14, 2019

I understand money issues but custody papers and being self-represented do not go together. You can't imagine the difficulty of what you're thinking about doing. I would SO STRONGLY recommend that you ask family to loan you some serious money and hire an excellent attorney who knows the ropes and... Read more »

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for Idaho on
Q: Is there a legal service in boise area I can sit down and have my custody papers explained to me.
Kevin M Rogers
Kevin M Rogers answered on Oct 14, 2019

2399 S. Orchard St., Ste. 204

Boise, Idaho 83705

Law Offices of Kevin M. Rogers

Attorney at Law

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Divorce and Family Law for Idaho on
Q: My wife cheated on me but i can’t prove penetration. Will i have any chance of keeping house and getting 50/50 custody?

My daughter is 2 years old. We bought the house 2 months after marriage.

Kevin M Rogers
Kevin M Rogers answered on Sep 9, 2019

In Idaho, irreconcilable differences gets the job done without the drama of proving guilt, which it sounds like you weren't there as the act was happening, so you can't prove guilt anyway. So, you CAN prove that you two no longer get along and that you want a divorce. ThE THING that generally... Read more »

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Idaho on
Q: I'm only seeing my son twice a week. I want what's best for my son with out the drama with my x girl. Where do I start?
Kevin M Rogers
Kevin M Rogers answered on Sep 9, 2019

If you were never married, you don't want to go near her and your child until you have a court order, if you and she are on the "outs" as far as talking things over are concerned. That's a quick way to invite her to call the police and allege that you did something, anything, which will land you... Read more »

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for Idaho on
Q: I'm starting custody with my ex. I'm needing some deeper advice.

I'm asking for sole legal custody, and joint physical custody but had a schedule created for us to fallow. I have reasons of to why I would like my son with me more. If he responds, what preparation and paperwork should I put together for mediation? Do I need an attorney for mediation? I work part... Read more »

Kevin M Rogers
Kevin M Rogers answered on Jul 21, 2019

So you go to school and work and your mother watches your son while you work and go to school? Who drafted your “schedule to follow?” You? So you’ve filed some kind of Petition for sole custody? Why?

Your ex may be an alcoholic but you lack any proof of abuse (to you? to the minor...
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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Child Support for Idaho on
Q: If my wife has 50/50 custody but only actually takes <20% custody, can I get out of paying child support?

My wife and I are legally separated, I pay her monthly for child support based on 50/50 custody, The children live with me full time and the only time my wife accepts custody is when I am out of town for work. She takes the custody in my home watching the children. In the last 6+ months that has... Read more »

Kevin M Rogers
Kevin M Rogers answered on Mar 14, 2019

Everything you have stated tells me that there is NO court order for child support, correct? If there is NO order then you would have a case in Small Claims Court to get back the difference between what you've actually paid and what the child support calculator says, but a different judge MIGHT... Read more »

1 Answer | Asked in Arbitration / Mediation Law and Child Custody for Idaho on
Q: Do both parties in a divorce case mediation get served papers? Thank you
Kevin M Rogers
Kevin M Rogers answered on Dec 23, 2018

Yes. Any kind of mediation is ordered by the Court. The Court has rules it goes by and one of those is procedural due process, which includes no ex-parte communication and giving each party notice of anything that the court needs input on or that the court orders them to do, such as Mediation.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Idaho on
Q: What are my rights as a parent if grandparents were granted De Facto Custodian

Grandparents were granted De Facto Custodian. Court papers state mine and fathers (my ex) visitation to be determined in custody. We never had a custody agreement or court date. This was back in 2017. Since then my daughter has been staying with me conistantly for 3 months and wants to live with me... Read more »

Kevin M Rogers
Kevin M Rogers answered on Dec 3, 2018

The word "defacto" means something which exists in reality, whether authorized by law or not. Your parents therefore have some rights to guardianship at least to their granddaughter. They obviously do not have "legal custody," which can only be obtained by going to court or bestowed by birth to... Read more »

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Idaho on
Q: Are you able to help in the Idaho falls are?
Kevin M Rogers
Kevin M Rogers answered on Nov 12, 2018

Sorry, it would be too expensive to have to fly from Boise to Idaho Falls every time. However, if you're serious and could afford to fly me to Idaho Falls, I can make time on my calendar.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for Idaho on
Q: a 17 yr old father wants to know if he can get his child custody back
Kevin M Rogers
Kevin M Rogers answered on Oct 15, 2018

I don’t know what you mean? Please re-read what you just wrote and submit it again.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for Idaho on
Q: How do I start a custody case?
Kevin M Rogers
Kevin M Rogers answered on Oct 15, 2018

The Idaho Rules of Family Court Procedure say that in order to begin a custody case you file a Petition. I certainly don't recommend that ANYONE do this by themselves. You need to consult with an Idaho attorney and let him advise you.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Idaho on
Q: how do i find out if my daughters mom is allowing phone calls with her husband in prison when judge ordered no contact?

high conflict custody case where judge has ordered in custody modification there is to be no contact of any kind between my daughter and her husband who is in prison. my daughter 6 says her mom allows her to talk to him during her time, i have full custody. I called prison and they said theyd open... Read more »

Kevin M Rogers
Kevin M Rogers answered on Oct 10, 2018

You’re not entitled to do discovery without filing a complaint first. Who would you sue? For what? Idaho Administrative Rules don’t allow you to get that information and the prison definitely wouldn’t open itself to scrutiny and possible charges if they gave you the private telephone records... Read more »

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