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1 Answer | Asked in Adoption and Child Custody for Illinois on
Q: 11 yr old boy that's been in my hubands life since the day he was born

My husband and I are wondering how we would go about either adopting or getting guardianship then adopting an 11 yr old boy who my husband has been involved with his life since he was born. My husband isn't his father the boy's adopted mother was my husband's ex wife(who was not... View More

Ray Choudhry
Ray Choudhry
answered on Jun 5, 2017

When the boy's mother adopted him, was she married.

If so, she and her husband would have adopted.

So, where is the adopting father.

He would have first rights.

Did he agree to someone else having guardianship.

1 Answer | Asked in Adoption for Illinois on
Q: Can a brother and a sister jointly adopt a child or do you have to be a couple/married?
Ray Choudhry
Ray Choudhry
answered on May 26, 2017

Single person or married couple.

3 Answers | Asked in Adoption and Family Law for Illinois on
Q: How do i proceed with stepparent adoption?

My stepdaughters BIRTHMOTHER has not seen or spoken to her in 7 years. I have been the active mother in the relationship. She calls me mom, shes under my insurance and ive financially and emotionally supported her since the day I met her. Her BIRTHMOTHER has been taken to court and my husband has... View More

Cheryl Powell
Cheryl Powell
answered on May 13, 2017

Hire a family law attorney in your county.

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2 Answers | Asked in Adoption and Child Custody for Illinois on
Q: Can my stepdaughter birth mom take her away from my husband and I?

My husband has full custody of his daughter. The birth mom abandoned her when she was young and my husband went to court and was awarded custody. Every so often the birth mom contacts us or a family member. She has told the family members that shes going to take us to court and get her daughter... View More

Cheryl Powell
Cheryl Powell
answered on May 13, 2017

She is not the 'birth mom.' Until her parental rights are terminated, which they have not been, she is the MOTHER. If u chose to file an adoption proceeding and win, her parental rights wiuld be terminated. Then she would be the 'birth mom.' If u want to adopt her, u should... View More

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Q: Is there ever a scenario where a child can legally have three or more parents (like two biological parents and an

additional parent who is married to one of the bio parents and wants to adopt the child)?

Ray Choudhry
Ray Choudhry
answered on May 2, 2017

Not so far in Illinois.

1 Answer | Asked in Adoption for Illinois on
Q: My stepfather has filed for adoption of my son what steps can I do to prevent this from happening

I had to give my step dad temp guardianship four yrs ago I was in prison but have been out of legal trouble since. I am actively in my sons life.

Ray Choudhry
Ray Choudhry
answered on Apr 26, 2017

You need to talk to a lawyer about terminating the guardianship.

You also need a lawyer to argue that you are not an unfit parent.

1 Answer | Asked in Adoption for Illinois on
Q: My mom wants to adopt another adult and put that person in her will - is there any way I can stop this.
Ray Choudhry
Ray Choudhry
answered on Apr 26, 2017

Illinois allows adult adoptions and there is little anyone can do as long as the adult consents to the adoption.

Your mother doesn't have to adopt to put the person in her will.

What's more, she doesn't have to include her children.

1 Answer | Asked in Adoption for Illinois on
Q: I have three adopted kids and two biological children.

If I pass away without a will, will my money to all five kids or only my biological ones?

Ray Choudhry
Ray Choudhry
answered on Apr 26, 2017

When you adopted them, the judge explained to you that they were yours including the need to pay child support, if it ever came to that.

They are all your children.

1 Answer | Asked in Adoption for Illinois on
Q: Am I able to change the name on my birth certificate?

My parents gave me up and I was raised by my aunt and uncle. I'm not formally adopted, but I'd like to take their name?

Ray Choudhry
Ray Choudhry
answered on Apr 26, 2017

In Illinois your name can be changed through court.

At the end you will get a court order changing your name.

Social Security and the Secretary of State will go ahead and change your name on their records.

Your original birth certificate does not get changed listing your...
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1 Answer | Asked in Adoption for Illinois on
Q: My sister would like me to adopt her children. She is unable to care for them.

Do I need to have a home visit, etc. or can we just draw up the papers?

Ray Choudhry
Ray Choudhry
answered on Apr 26, 2017

This would be a related adoption and not involve a lot of red tape.

However, how about the father. He has to consent or his rights have to be terminated.

Adoptions are serious business and have to be done properly.

Contact an adoption lawyer.

1 Answer | Asked in Adoption for Illinois on
Q: Can my grandma adopt me?

I haven't been living with my parents for the past five years but with my grandmother.

Ray Choudhry
Ray Choudhry
answered on Apr 26, 2017

Done all the time.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Adoption, Child Custody and Juvenile Law for Illinois on
Q: can i leave home when 16? parents seperateted, both BAD parents. Have a place i want to go, best friend of 13 years mom

Im 13 as of now. my parents are separated but I feel miserable living with both of them. my mom is always yelling, I hate her husband and the house is so dirty, there is even mouse poop everywhere. my dad is BETTER but not by much, the house is just cleaner and yells a bit less. I have a best... View More

Ray Choudhry
Ray Choudhry
answered on Apr 26, 2017

You are not alone.

Short of the State coming in and finding both parents unfit and yanking you out and placing you somewhere, you are stuck.

1 Answer | Asked in Adoption for Illinois on
Q: In a stepparent adoption is it common for the birth parent married to the stepparent to also adopt the child
Ray Choudhry
Ray Choudhry
answered on Apr 26, 2017

In Illinois it is a requirement that the mother and step-father jointly adopt.

1 Answer | Asked in Adoption, Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for Illinois on
Q: Young mother signed rights of child to her mother while homeless and unstable. can mother receive rights again?

young mother is now stable with a job home and car.

Ray Choudhry
Ray Choudhry
answered on Apr 26, 2017

Either her mother adopted the child or got guardianship.

If it was guardianship, then she can petition the court to terminate the guardianship because the reasons for its creation no longer exist.

1 Answer | Asked in Adoption and Family Law for Illinois on
Q: I gave my children up for adoption. How do i get them back?
Ray Choudhry
Ray Choudhry
answered on Apr 26, 2017

You don't unless the adoption was not properly done in which case you can try to vacate it.

Of course, if the new parents are willing, you can adopt them back.

1 Answer | Asked in Adoption for Illinois on
Q: I want to know what type of adoption is the next case:

A 12-year-old girl, orphaned and abandoned in a childrens home.

Was adopted in the year 1910 by a single man, to the control of a very wealthy family in the United States.

She bears his last name

Ray Choudhry
Ray Choudhry
answered on Apr 26, 2017

It could have been a private or an agency adoption.

2 Answers | Asked in Adoption, Appeals / Appellate Law, Child Custody and Family Law for Illinois on
Q: My cousin has just been alerted that he has two days to appeal for custody of his children. What can he do?

My cousin and his wife are separated and they had joint custody of their children. And while they were in the care of their mother her new boyfriend abused them. Now they are trying to take the children from both the mother and father (my cousin, even though he has done nothing wrong) and give... View More

Cheryl Powell
Cheryl Powell
answered on Apr 11, 2017

He needs to hire a lawyer asap.

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1 Answer | Asked in Adoption, Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for Illinois on
Q: If my now ex-wife and I adopted a child at birth, and we divorced when he was 3, plus she just passed can I give up

my rights?

Angela Peters
Angela Peters
answered on Mar 30, 2017

You need to review what your divorce decree says. If you are named as the father and have an obligation to pay child support, you can't just give that up. I would suggest that you meet with an attorney and go over the facts of your case. I don't know if you are looking for someone else to... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Adoption and Family Law for Illinois on
Q: What happens if you got force to sign in the adoption
Lee R. Zeidman
Lee R. Zeidman
answered on Feb 21, 2017

You need to hire a lawyer immediately. Please find one and move forward.

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1 Answer | Asked in Adoption and Family Law for Illinois on
Q: Can I get my son back from the open adoption and bring him back to me

I want my son back

Cheryl Powell
Cheryl Powell
answered on Feb 7, 2017

No, once you sugn a consent, your parental ties are terminated.

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