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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for Massachusetts on
Q: I have shared custody of my child. His mom has him 18 days a month and I have him 12 days a month, plus I get two full

weeks a year with him. Can she go to court and request I take him more and still keep the CS money I pay her based on that schedule?

Can she change the parenting schedule to fit her even when it’s detrimental to me?

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Sep 6, 2018

Yes, the child support guidelines would be calculated for a shared custody and the party with the greater income would be paying child support to the other parent.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody and Estate Planning for Massachusetts on
Q: Asking for a friend

I have a friend who is about to under go surgery. She fears that by chance she does not make it and has written instructions not to allow custody to the father bc he is abusive and not much of father? They were never married, hes never stayed in the kids like no longer ther 6months, after that he... View More

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Sep 4, 2018

She should at least have a Will nominating a guardian for the minor children. The best route would be to also have a Guardianship petition or at least temporary guardianship addressed by the Court taking into consideration his unsuitability as a custodial parent as being not in the... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Family Law, Child Custody and Child Support for Massachusetts on
Q: Can a nh judge make jurisdiction of my brother stay in nh wjen he has lived in mass for 9 months? He have to see hisdad?

My mom got an expatre motion back in January based on my brother being choked/strangle by his dad. Two dcys cases were opened on him, he has mulitple arrests but yet when the decision came in it states that my brother has to speak with his dad 5 times a week. Go with him every other weekend and one... View More

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Sep 4, 2018

It sounds like the New Hampshire Court is recognizing that there could be a change in jurisdiction to Massachusetts and you should consider engaging Massachusetts counsel to advise on the timing of filings here.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Massachusetts on
Q: How can my son fight to keep his son in Mass after she told him the court grant her motion?

He was served on Thursday and was given 20 days to respond there wasn't a court date set. She went to court this morning and text him that she was granted permission to leave Mass to VT. She claims financially she couldn't stay here and needed to further her career. Meanwhile she will... View More

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Aug 24, 2018

Your son will need to take a look at the Court file and preferably make copies of the contents so that he can consult with a domestic relations attorney ASAP. It does not make sense that the case went forward on a Motion , so some information is missing from the picture your son has presented to... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Massachusetts on
Q: I’m looking for help with admitting evidence in a probate court. I have several questions about the procedures.

I live in Massachusetts. This was a case of clear family abuse by the father yet he somehow was able to settle for joint custody of the children. There have been two additional hearings since the divorce was finalized. Both were the mother asking for custody after the father did or allowed... View More

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Jul 23, 2018

IF YOU HAVE PROOF HE IS GIVING UNDER AGE DAUGHTER ALCOHOL THEN YOU WILL NEED TO FILE AN EMERGENCY MOTION TO SUSPEND VSIITATION AND PROVIDE WHAT THE SOURCE OF YOUR KNOWLEDGE OF THIS IS TO THE PROBATE AND FAMILY COURT ALONG WITH AN AFFIDAVIT UNDER OATH.

2 Answers | Asked in Family Law for Massachusetts on
Q: Grandparent was awarded Grandparent Visitation. Grandparent no longer takes court ordered visits.

How do I ask the court/judge to modify the JUDGEMENT for Grandparents Visits to state "Visits will be at the sole discretion of the Legal Guardian or void the JUDGEMENT?

Anthony C. Adamopoulos
Anthony C. Adamopoulos
answered on Jun 27, 2018

In order to change

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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Massachusetts on
Q: Can my sister-in-law have her parental rights reinstated in Massachusetts?

It’s been six years she signed the open adoption agreement. And we’ve had her children since 2010. Fostered and now have guardianship. We have to appear to a judge in a few weeks.

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Jun 26, 2018

You have indicated a few things are happening and normally there would be termination of parental rights proceeding which could end with an open adoption approved by the Court. The standard for termination of parental rights is obviously a high one and both parents need to be notified and given... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for Massachusetts on
Q: How can I file for divorce,
Anthony C. Adamopoulos
Anthony C. Adamopoulos
answered on Jun 25, 2018

You go to the Family Court where you and your spouse last lived together. For example, if the two of you last lived in Lynn go to the Family Court on Federal Street in Salem. At the desk tell the clerk you want to file for divorce. You will be given a complaint for divorce and told how to fill it... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Massachusetts on
Q: Can anything be done to address another party seeking to file a modification before the time agreed that was stipulated?

Other party agreed that supervised visits will remain in effect for one year, after which either party may file a Complaint for Modification. and party is attempting to modify a year after the actual court date not after a one year period of supervised visits. A pretrial is coming up in regards... View More

Anthony C. Adamopoulos
Anthony C. Adamopoulos
answered on Jun 23, 2018

You seem to ask 2 questions.

First, concerning modification, either party may seek a modification of an existing order if they can show a material change in facts since the first order.

As to the Pre- Trial, you say, among other things,: A pretrial is coming up in regards to...
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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for Massachusetts on
Q: I have a family matter.going to court to see my grandkids.already been to court and its a pre trial confetence..

I have to go back 10/1.but it said all discoveryshall be completed ny 9/18.what should i do.im allowed to send cards and gifts.she will not let the kids call me.as it was agreement.what should i do?

Anthony C. Adamopoulos
Anthony C. Adamopoulos
answered on Jun 19, 2018

Unfortunately your question is not clear as to what you are asking about and your back ground is not clear, e.g., as it was agreement.what should i do?

Let me speak generally, apparently you have received a Pre-Trial Order. Apparently, the Order is in two parts, first you were told that if...
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1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law, Family Law and Child Custody for Massachusetts on
Q: My stepson’s mother gave him some of her adderall prescription to take. He doesn’t have any rx’s prescribed to him.

We have joint physical and joint legal. Do we contact the police, his school and/or his pediatrician? Isn’t this illegal? He had 5 10mg pills left (in her pill case) that we took from him. How do we deal with this so it doesn’t happen again?

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Jun 18, 2018

Yes, you can contact the police, but if your spouse has joint legal custody he can contact the pediatrician to make sure that the child does not have a prescription for this medication. The pediatrician would also be mandated to contact the DCF if there is suspected abuse or neglect of the child.

2 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Massachusetts on
Q: father have custody but child is not staying at his house.

The father went behind my back a couple of years ago to get custody. I was never inform by mail or any type of paper work. I was young and didn’t know I can fight back in court. I was scared of him also. Fast forward till now I was able to reach my daughter and found out she’s staying at the... View More

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Jun 1, 2018

Yes, you can file a Modification of whatever Judgment granted custody to father. You will need to obtain a copy of the Judgment from the Court involved to do so and are you able to take custody of the child at this point? Have you visitation rights? You should consider seeking visitation first if... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Divorce for Massachusetts on
Q: I owned a house-I sold. I used the money as a down payment on marriage house. Am I entitled to $back? m14years

Would this be considered a premarital asset. I want to know if the money can be subtracted from the amount I have to pay my spouse for the current house now that we are divorcing.

Anthony C. Adamopoulos
Anthony C. Adamopoulos
answered on May 31, 2018

First, all property owned by either party is marital property. So, property owned by you before the marriage is now marital property.

Second, Massachusetts is an "equity or fair" state. This means that the judge at the divorce trial will consider all the evidence then decide how...
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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for Massachusetts on
Q: My Ex and I have a 14 yr old son. Son resides with father (no court order, just what we agreed) He now wants to get me

on Child Abandonment because I am relocating from MA to TX in a month. Can he do this?

Anthony C. Adamopoulos
Anthony C. Adamopoulos
answered on May 31, 2018

His only reasonable right is to seek a custody child support order in the Family Court.

2 Answers | Asked in Divorce, Family Law, Child Custody and Child Support for Massachusetts on
Q: Can my ex wife demand a raise on child support?

I’m on the process of divorce and I’m waiting on her to refinance the marital house so I can buy a house and take our children there with me every other weekend. Meanwhile I don’t have where to take the children so I have been staying in the couch of the marital house, where she lives, from... View More

Anthony C. Adamopoulos
Anthony C. Adamopoulos
answered on May 31, 2018

Your question is "Would it be fair to spend weekdays afternoon only til have a house?"

If there is no Family Court Order setting when you are with the children and when and if you can be in the Family Home then based on what you write it would be fair. While you are with the...
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1 Answer | Asked in Child Support, Divorce and Family Law for Massachusetts on
Q: per my divorce agreement, my ex and I are to split our sons summer day care 50/50. I take him to one place and he takes

him to another. This summer I don't believe he will be using summer care, as he has someone at home to watch him. He is still responsible for half of what I'm paying, correct? That's what I take 50/50 to mean. Also, if he is taking him to a summer camp, do I have the right to ask him... View More

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on May 23, 2018

You should follow the terms of the Separation Agreement/Divorce Judgment and If there is noncompliance then there could be a Contempt Complaint and if there is a material change in circumstances a Modification Complaint may be justified.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Real Estate Law for Massachusetts on
Q: I want to buy a house, all under my name. My kids father is moving in too. If we breakup, he cant take my house,right?
John Espinosa
John Espinosa
answered on May 22, 2018

Don't marry him (because then the house would be part of the marital estate), and he should pay you rent as a month to month tenant. If you break up just evict him.

2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for Massachusetts on
Q: My daughters father is completely going against the judgment entered for visitation custody and child support.

He kept her over night last night on a no over night order. His visits are from 10am-6:30pm on sundays. Due to the fact that I have not gone outside of the court order to his convenience, he pulled this move. He is not paying his ordered child support. He is trying everything he can to give me a... View More

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on May 14, 2018

This sounds like he is in Contempt and normally you would need to appear on the return date of the Contempt. The DOR would handle financial Contempt but not the custody/visitation issues. It is worthwhile to get to Suffolk Probate.

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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody and Domestic Violence for Massachusetts on
Q: Girlfriend's ex is becoming harassing, threatening and also stalking. Need advice what steps to take.

Ex is living in another state. He hasn't seen his kids for 5 years, didn't pay child support for the past year, didn't call, nothing. Filed for summer custody - judge basically laughed at him, allowed him (1) 30 minute phone call each day and 1 text to his ex per day to ask about... View More

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on May 3, 2018

It sounds like the children's father is in contempt of the "visitation" order by using his texts to do other than discuss the children so mother should bring a Contempt Complaint and also a Modification complaint seeking to terminate the contacts to her. If they threaten her life... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Massachusetts on
Q: We are trying to get guardianship of our minor grandchild. The paternal grandmother currently has guardianship.

We were given guardianship in Massachusetts, but the court decided that the jurisdiction should've been in New Hampshire, and that is where the paternal grandmother filed on the same day. The baby is 14 months old and has lived with us for seven months of her life. The paternal grandmother... View More

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Apr 23, 2018

You can contact New Hampshire counsel as soon as possible citing these facts. Best wishes.

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