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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Libel & Slander and Personal Injury for New Jersey on
Q: If two people commit adultry and the result could lead to a divorce for the disabled spouse of one, can the disabled one

File a lawsuit?

Leonard R. Boyer
Leonard R. Boyer answered on Oct 28, 2019

New Jersey is a no-fault divorce state. The ground for divorce is irrelevant to the economic issues.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Divorce for New Jersey on
Q: My husband has been unemployed for 6 years. I filed for divorce and he is in default. Now suddenly he has a good job. I

I already sent in equitable distribution papers asking for things at a lower level . Can I change the papers

Leonard R. Boyer
Leonard R. Boyer answered on Oct 16, 2019

Although you can amend the document, you really need to retain an experienced matrimonial attorney. You are emotionally involved, do not know the rules of court, case law and many more factors.

2 Answers | Asked in Divorce, Family Law, Child Custody and Child Support for New Jersey on
Q: What form or forms should I be completing to respond to a motion filed by my ex-husband? I do not agree with his motion

My ex-husband and I filed our own divorce paperwork in 2014. He filed a motion two weeks ago that I disagree with and need to file a cross motion. I want to make sure I am filing the correct forms and providing the correct information. The more I read about the content of cross-motions, forms,... Read more »

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger answered on Oct 7, 2019

Thank you for your question. Although the Court does have forms to address the application that has been filed, it would be best to consult an attorney to ensure an appropriate response is filed. As you note, this process can be difficult. Certain rules must be followed in order to ensure that the... Read more »

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Family Law and Child Custody for New Jersey on
Q: Hi if my ex schedules activities on my visitation weekend am I required by law to take her?

We have joint custody of our 9 year old daughter with him having residential custody. I see her every other weekend. The court order says he is supposed to ask and discuss all extracurricular activities, medical, religious, and school decisions. Instead he signed her up for soccer in which the... Read more »

Teresa L. Reichek
Teresa L. Reichek answered on Sep 17, 2019

Thank you for your question. I understand that must be very frustrating. My response is predicated on your court case being in a NJ court. You are supposed to agree on extra curricular activities, then you are responsible for taking your daughter during your parenting time. You are not a bad... Read more »

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Q: My Wife for 24 years wants a divorce. She worked for the first 4 years of our marriage and recently for 3 years.

I have been the bread winner for entire marriage and have built up a significant savings while married. While I expect to give a percentage of my salary for alimony and savings, she is asking for 50% of all our assets including savings and 40% of my salary. She is willing to compromise and we... Read more »

Leonard R. Boyer
Leonard R. Boyer answered on Aug 25, 2019

It could be, but we don't know your entire financial situation, so cannot tell you. Although you both have supposedly agreed to mediation, that does not mean she or you won't talk to one of your friends, and mediation could go out the window.

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Q: I was granted order to publish divorce by publication. Do i send newspaper summons and complaint or just summons?
Leonard R. Boyer
Leonard R. Boyer answered on Aug 23, 2019

No, you have to send both the Summons and Complaint. But, you would be much better off retaining an experienced matrimonial attorney. You are emotionally involved and have no idea of how to represent yourself.

2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support, Divorce and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: Need divorce advice for husband who left home due to mental and physical abuse by the stay at home mother.

Husband left the home due to mental and physical abuse over 2 years. The mother was a stay at home mom and filed first because he left, he willingly paid the rental amount for 2 months plus groceries and other needs but stopped when she restricted the father access to the child because he can only... Read more »

Noel Rivers
Noel Rivers answered on Aug 15, 2019

If you cannot afford an attorney, I recommend you contact the legal aid department in your area and see if they will take your case. I also recommend contacting the social justice centers of any law schools in your area, as some of them are equipped to handle certain family law cases for indigent... Read more »

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1 Answer | Asked in Arbitration / Mediation Law and Divorce for New Jersey on
Q: Can I reopen my divorce that ended in 2010 if I can prove fraud?

My divorce was moved to arbitration because my husband was lying and destroying evidence of our business, he did this to hide both the value of the business and his income. After 7 years of arbitration my case was returned to the court. My husband continued to lie about his income which was... Read more »

Leonard R. Boyer
Leonard R. Boyer answered on Aug 14, 2019

Given the length of time that has passed, I seriously doubt it. You would probably have to pay an experienced matrimonial attorney, just to research the case law, to see if there is any possibility.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce for New Jersey on
Q: Keeping the marital home as a joint asset after divorce.

My wife and I separated two years ago and agreed she would buy me out of the house. The mortgage is still upside down, so she cannot refinance into her name. We already have an MOU to file uncontested which includes the original buy out clause, but what legalities do we have to consider by filing... Read more »

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger answered on Aug 14, 2019

Thank you for your question. I understand you would like to learn more about how to proceed with your uncontested divorce proceeding. First, the MOU should reflect whatever it is you intend to do. If the language is that there will be a buyout, but there is no intention to do a buyout, the MOU... Read more »

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Q: If we file for uncontested divorce in NJ online, and one spouse changes their mind to contested, do we then need attorn
Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger answered on Aug 12, 2019

Thank you for your question. I understand you would like to know more about the difference between a contested divorce and an uncontested divorce. In either scenario, an attorney is not required. A contested divorce may be more difficult to navigate, but you are still allowed to represent yourself... Read more »

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Q: My husband of 18 years changed his beneficiary to his 2 grandchildren 14yrs and 11yrs old, he never told me.
Leonard R. Boyer
Leonard R. Boyer answered on Aug 9, 2019

Although that is not uncommon, it could mean a divorce is on his mind, or it could mean he is planning to take care of you in some other fashion, but there is no way to know what his intentions are. You did not provide a sufficient factual basis to enable anyone to give you advice. So, if you are... Read more »

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Q: My husband and I have been married for 6 years and separated for 1 year of those 6 I would like to file an annulment.

I’m not going to take him for child support and am working with him on getting the children in the weekends.

Teresa L. Reichek
Teresa L. Reichek answered on Aug 1, 2019

In order to get an annulment in New Jersey you need one of the underlying grounds. These are:

1. Fraud or lies were used to trick one of you into agreeing to the marriage;

2. Bigamy;

3. one of you was under 18 when you married and you have not had sexual relations since...
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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce, Child Custody and Child Support for New Jersey on
Q: What happens if I cannot afford a divorce?

I make 65k a year, my wife makes 120k a year. We have 2 kids 1 & 4 in daycare that costs 2k a month. About how much would by monthly obligation be if we divorced? I would prefer 50/50 custody however I can see it being 30/70 in her favor due to my undesirable living arrangements after the... Read more »

Leonard R. Boyer
Leonard R. Boyer answered on Aug 1, 2019

You cannot afford not to retain an experienced matrimonial attorney. You are making too many assumptions that are not "real". You need to have an in person consultation right away to enable you to know what reality is and what to expect.

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce, Family Law and Real Estate Law for New Jersey on
Q: Does My Wife (cuz we’re legally married but we’re separated) needs to sign In order to refinance?

I bought a house in NJ (in 2018) and I’ trying to refinance, I’m married (not in the USA) but in a process to get divorced, the house is not the principal matrimonial residence and she is not in the title, because NJ is a Dower State, Does she needs to sign any paper because a dower interest?

Leonard R. Boyer
Leonard R. Boyer answered on Jul 30, 2019

Unless both parties sign and cooperate, there will be no refinance. However, NJ is an equitable distribution state, not a dower state. The concept of dower is totally irrelevant to NJ law. You need to retain an experienced matrimonial attorney who also practices real estate law to represent you in... Read more »

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Immigration Law for New Jersey on
Q: I married an illegal immigrant (crossed border) and filed an 1-130, is it too late to file for an annulment?

I have been married for a year and some change now and have not consummated my marriage. I already filed an 1-130, but do not want to continue the process. Is there anyway that I could get an annulment? Will i still be financially responsible if I get a divorce instead of an annulment?

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger answered on Jul 12, 2019

Thank you for your question. I'm sorry that your marriage is ending. There is no time limit wherein an annulment must be filed. You can file for an annulment at any time during the marriage. As such, you are free to certainly do so if the relevant factors are present. Fraud is one such factor. With... Read more »

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Q: In NJ when filing a uncontested divorce do you have to wait 35 days or more after papers are served if you both agree?
Teresa L. Reichek
Teresa L. Reichek answered on Jul 8, 2019

The opposing party has 35 days to file a responsive document. Once he or she files an Answer, Counterclaim, or just an Appearance the matter will move forward. You should always consult an experienced family law attorney. There are other documents that need to be filed, even if you both agree.... Read more »

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce for New Jersey on
Q: I need a divorce but have no income..pls help
Leonard R. Boyer
Leonard R. Boyer answered on Jul 6, 2019

All you will need to do is contact New Jersey Legal Services for an attorney to represent you.

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Family Law, Civil Litigation and Civil Rights for New Jersey on
Q: I am being garnished Alimony and Child support based on a $150,000 salary i made 6 years ago, i make 92k now. Help

I cant survive on my salary and paying 65% of it, I cant pay full Alimony and I am behind over $205k I cant afford a lawyer i am 58 broke and have no savings. The court is draining me. IS there no one that can help me?

Teresa L. Reichek
Teresa L. Reichek answered on Jun 26, 2019

You need to find a experienced family law attorney who can file a motion on your behalf requesting modification due to a change in circumstances. You should be prepared to fill out a new set of financial forms and be able to explain why your income has been reduced and why it is unlikely to be... Read more »

2 Answers | Asked in Divorce, Family Law and Child Support for New Jersey on
Q: What can I do if I'm paying child support and cannot afford living arrangements for myself

living homeless And getting a second job results in payment being separated between both jobs and my ex wife is undergoing cancer treatment and has not been employed

Brian Winters
Brian Winters answered on Jun 7, 2019

Maybe the child support is not commensurate with the child support guidelines. You should consult with an attorney to find out.

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce for New Jersey on
Q: Hi I’m a recently divorced mom of two children. My divorce was finalized on May 12 and I share custody with my x husband

Due to verbal abuse I fled my home as he refused to leave. He now has the house and I rent. I’m not working quite f/t yet but taking as many hours as I can. He is supposed to pay for reasonable child activities but either says no or doesn’t answe me. Please can you help? I had to borrow the... Read more »

Andrew M Shaw
Andrew M Shaw answered on Jun 4, 2019

You should likely first have an attorney write a letter to him on formal letterhead, sent via regular and certified mail, demanding immediate payment and threatening to take legal action if he does not comply with the divorce judgment. Second, if he refuses or fails to respond within a specified... Read more »

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