Did I make a mistake? I left my husband almost a year ago to move from cali to Ny. I started filing for divorce in September and to avoid him getting my 401k I withdrew it all that December. I took a big tax and penalty hit on it. He still has not signed any divorce agreements yet. Am I in the... Read more »
I need more information. Where was the divorce filed, or has it been filed. You mention "divorce agreements" but I'm not sure what that means. How long have you been married and when did you start the 401K?
It probably depends on the judge. You may be able to call the clerk on the day of the hearing, since there may be no time for an ex parte hearing between the time you were served and the actual hearing. If the matter is postponed, the restraining order will stay in effect. If you do seek a...Read more »
Headed to DCSS hearing soon. Motion 1: Father (65) wants modification to increase child support mother owes.(currently at $12 mo for 2 children (10 and 12). Father has no child support obligations and retired July 2018 at 65. I receive $878 in Social Security and $235 for 1 child via my Social... Read more »
A spousal support payor may not be forced to keep working beyond the age of 65 just to be able to keep paying spousal support. It is error to impute income to the payor after the age of 65 as to W-2 earnings or self-employment earnings. The court may only look at what you are actually receiving,...Read more »
I served my sons father child custody and visitation on 2/22/2019. He never responded back to my summons. What does that mean for me? We just had our mediation appointment and we did not agree. He wants 50/50 and I want full physical custody. Does he have to serve me back? Or can he still get 50/50... Read more »
The father is allowed to participate in the hearing regardless of whether he has filed a response or not. And he is free to hire an attorney at any time. The Court has to decide what "the best" interests are with respect to child custody and visitation.
My wife's attorney did not provide bank statements/checking/savings/401k any of these in their disclosure. (California-full disclosure state) I requested them thru Form Interrogatories -deadline passed he did not answer, then I wrote follow-up email -he did not answer, then I sent Meet and... Read more »
In California I bought my house 11 years(1998) prior of getting married i was married less that 10 years making my marriage a short term marriage. I didnt put my ex on the title to my house until 2015 ..How many years of equity of the house or percentage of ..is she entitled to. ???
This is somewhat complicated. You would want to look at the difference between the value of the house and the debt on the house at the time you added your wife. Then you would want to look at the equity now. Then, you take the 2015 equity (i.e., the difference between the value and the debt...Read more »
Probably yes. Just serve everything you are supposed to serve, including the addendum, before the deadline. Provided the court has time to hear all of your issues in one hearing, you won't have a procedural problem. You might want to call the addendum an "Amended RFO". There shouldn't be any...Read more »
Hi the Father of my child is threatening me that he will file for a child custody bec he is going to school from 6am to 6pm every Mon to Fri he wants to borrow the child every Sunday half day and I told him he can borrow the child some sundays but not every sunday and he got mad he told me that he... Read more »
It's never too late to file for child support, but the sooner you file the better because any order for child support is usually only made effective the date that you file the paperwork -- not any earlier than that. If he's not paying child support now, I would need to know whether it's because...Read more »
For purposes of establishing Louisiana's right to make child custody and visitation orders, the general rule is six months leading up to the filing of paperwork to file a custody case in that state. At least that's how it's done in California. But there is no mention of the father and where he...Read more »
You can always ask, but it is in the judge's discretion whether to allow a continuance. How long has the case been going on and how long a continuance are you seeking? Have you discussed a continuance with the other side? These are some of the issues a judge is likely to consider.
If the home is in both of your names, the two of you have equal authority over its disposition. If you can't agree, a judge will decide (assuming you open up a divorce case). If the house was acquired after the date of marriage but before the date of separation, it is presumptively community...Read more »
It depends on the county. Sadly, mediators -- even though some are tasked with making written recommendations to the judge-- do not always read declarations. In counties where the mediator participates in "confidential mediation", it is less crucial because if the parties do not reach an...Read more »
I have filed for modification because over the past 4 years I was supposed to get at least 1 day a week visitation and phone calls to the kids when ever. The visits were always supervised which they weren't supposed to be and it got to a point where I wasn't given them anymore. I bought a phone for... Read more »
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Hello, I am currently dealing with a very unresponsive husband that is not cooperating with the divorce process. We have been separated over 2 years. I have been trying to be as respectful as I can but to the point where I need to take matters into my own hands. I previously did not want to seek... Read more »
You are correct that if there is a disparity in income, a court can order the high earner to pay some or all of the lower earner's fees. While you cannot sue him for emotional distress, you may be entitled to alimony or spousal support. You would need to file a motion (called an "RFO") for spousal...Read more »
I PLAN TO FILE FOR DIVORCE AND CUSTODY OF MY KIDS AND LEAVE THE STATE TO MY MOMS, MY HUSBAND HAS THREATENED ME AND WE CURRENTLY HAVE PEACEFUL CONTACT ORDER DUE TO AN INCIDENT 3 YEARS AGO. BUT THE AB USE HAS CONTINUED, WILL I GET IN TROUBLE FOR LEAVING WITH MY KIDS
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